im a switch thou im currently calling myself a submissive as i have a Daddy right now and there is no way i'd switch on Him.
i wouldnt like to switch with the person i was with, as that person either feels more Dominant than i, or less.
It would be no more than a play thing to me if i found i was able to switch on a person, whereas i want something which feels real. Switching on S/someone would be so confusing to me and due to this i've choosen Doms, who wouldnt go switching on me (or would want that to happen).
do you see any differences/particularities in your Dom/me side vs. your sub/bottom side?
yes... it's like two different personalities i have.
One tough and in always in control, a leader and the other, my submissive side, is little and much more sensitive, childlike.
The childlike submissive part of me is the vulnerable part of me who will cry easily etc etc. my two parts are COMPLETELY different.
Someone who knows me from one of these aspects, is unlikely to know me from the other aspect and would find it highly confusing as i'd be a completely different person to them.
im hoping that maybe some day in the future, my Dom will allow me to have a sub, so i then can have free rein with both parts of myself and truly be able to be myself, have all my aspects in play in my life. The strong Dominant leader i are in control.. and the little wee, child submissive i are.
< Message edited by knightschild -- 8/19/2007 1:34:38 AM >