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RE: How do I filter Doms? - 9/7/2007 4:27:34 PM   
burningdesires47


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RE: How do I filter Doms? - 9/7/2007 5:52:29 PM   
instynctive


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Cheesecloth?

A screen?

Brita?




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RE: How do I filter Doms? - 9/7/2007 7:12:12 PM   
Petronius


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Status: offline 		I've found the best way to filter the psychos of both genders is to look for a sense of humor.

Have you noticed nobody ever says "Oh, yeah, that Charlie Manson. Funny guy! Psycho killer. ... but funny!"

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RE: How do I filter Doms? - 9/7/2007 9:17:02 PM   
RRafe


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Making them wait is good advice. The looney tunes ones will generally go off in a few weeks of not having thier way.

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RE: How do I filter Doms? - 9/7/2007 10:45:06 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: instynctive

Charcoal?

Cheesecloth?

A screen?

Brita?





hey, i already said Brita....our local water is filtered through a complicated natural calcium something or other, i wasn't paying attention that week into the aquifer, perhaps thats how Doms should be filtered....

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RE: How do I filter Doms? - 9/7/2007 10:48:10 PM   
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Status: offline 		lmao...i read your post too fast and read it as "the best way to filter out psychos is to put them in a blender" and that was fucking hillarious...i think we should try it...wait...no...bad...do not express these ideas outloud...they can only lock you up in the nut house if you say you are going to hurt yourself or someone else...watch what you say chell, you know the rules...*backs away slowly watching all angles*

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RE: How do I filter Doms? - 9/7/2007 11:43:30 PM   
LostMyself


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Status: offline 		And as much as they bitch about it, you have keep your boundaries, and a lot of times that means ignoring messages, because they're not going to listen when you tell them you're not interested. 

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RE: How do I filter Doms? - 9/7/2007 11:47:10 PM   
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Status: offline 		I suggest a Dom Filter 3000 from K Mart. They come is 6 exciting colours and at $39.95, who could resist? Buy one, get one free!!

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RE: How do I filter Doms? - 9/8/2007 3:28:13 AM   
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quote:

fast reply.

Making them wait is good advice. The looney tunes ones will generally go off in a few weeks of not having thier way.


<laffs

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RE: How do I filter Doms? - 9/8/2007 6:49:42 AM   
instynctive


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ORIGINAL: chellekitty
hey, i already said Brita....our local water is filtered through a complicated natural calcium something or other, i wasn't paying attention that week into the aquifer, perhaps thats how Doms should be filtered....


Oops.. sorry chelle.. I honestly didn't read all the posts, just inserted My own smart-assedness.. :-)




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RE: How do I filter Doms? - 9/8/2007 6:58:52 AM   
shyinini


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ORIGINAL: goofNoff

Bugger!! I've gotten emails from lots of Doms with potential..however, how can I screen
for psychos, liars, married guys, and guys with diseases..n stuff...

I really, really want to explore this with a good Dom, a one woman man type...so, any
advice?

goofy


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succinct questions
openness
dont throw caution to the wind
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raid or cologne
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time
time
time
patience
patience
carefulness
raid
a fuctioning screen door
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read between lines
pick up deception protection
 
time
thyme
time
patience
patience
 
good for starters????????????????????
 


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RE: How do I filter Doms? - 9/8/2007 8:13:57 AM   
HalloweenWhite


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quote:

ORIGINAL: goofNoff

Bugger!! I've gotten emails from lots of Doms with potential..however, how can I screen
for psychos, liars, married guys, and guys with diseases..n stuff...

I really, really want to explore this with a good Dom, a one woman man type...so, any
advice?

goofy


Ok, how about this.....How active are they on this site? Do they have many posts, do they have a journal?, do they know people on here?. If they post then there are interested enough in the lifestyle to bother to post, if they have a journal then they care enough to spend the time to write one.

Do they have many/any friends on here? if they do then that shows they care enough to want to mix with other lifestylers and have been here long enough to make connections, so they're serious about it.

What about the BDSM scene in the real world-are they active? what are they active in? what do they go to? do they have many freinds in the real world into the lifestyle? are they're any ex subs you could meet?.

Do they belong to other sites? which ones? if they do then they are interesting enough to explore whats on the www as they can.

Hope that helps,

                  HalloweenWhite.

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RE: How do I filter Doms? - 9/8/2007 8:47:43 AM   
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Status: offline 		The only way a sub is meeting one of my exes....Is either face down in her crotch...Or maybe I could be amused by watching them play a rousing game of "hide the double headed dildo."

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RE: How do I filter Doms? - 9/8/2007 9:10:03 AM   
RRafe


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quote:

ORIGINAL: domiguy

The only way a sub is meeting one of my exes....Is either face down in her crotch...Or maybe I could be amused by watching them play a rousing game of "hide the double headed dildo."

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RE: How do I filter Doms? - 9/10/2007 6:20:59 PM   
aDevoted1


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Status: offline 		Well,I would like to say Thank you jojo,and everyone else.I have finally found a good friend who just happens to be  a Dom and I think I shall learn alot from him.We  are enjoying each others company for now and trying to mix the nilla with the bdsm,I think that you can live in a nilla world and not lose fact of who you are,but then,i have alot to learn,lol.Just my opinion though,take care all!  Its nice when you have someone to reach out to on here,I applaud all of you..Bites  Lisa

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RE: How do I filter Doms? - 9/11/2007 6:13:21 AM   
HalloweenWhite


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quote:

ORIGINAL: domiguy

The only way a sub is meeting one of my exes....Is either face down in her crotch...Or maybe I could be amused by watching them play a rousing game of "hide the double headed dildo."


Ok, fine, forget I said ex's, just -anyone- in the scene who might know them and be able to say whether they're ok people.

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