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After 30 years - 8/20/2007 12:23:11 AM

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I have found her. I just returned home after the most spectacular meeting with My Lady. It was a first meeting in the flesh....but we have been speaking to each other for months. It became serious after I enquired on June 24...then we met this past weekend and spent the entire weekend together...romance was in the air and we breathed it like it was indeed life itself...intense meaningful discussions interspersed with the most delicious play (and you can all imagine the various aspects "play" entails). I pushed My limits...she accepted and gave back tenfold. Her nick here is littlebitxxx...Mine is Rmanrr....She is My Free Companion, My vanilla partner, My sub with and without slave tendencies. I am simply her man...and simply as well she is My complete woman. By our own definitions...we love each other...and that was completely confirmed this weekend. I sincerely hope that all here find that which I have found. I am beginning a lifelong magical mystery tour with her...and gods willing that lasts for decades. I love you sage (littlebitxxx)...by our definition of the label.

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Be Well, Be Careful

Jarl Rmanrr

"the road untravelled is the loneliest." Me
Courage...the ability to overcome obstacles during the course.
"to be insane is to be original!"...Me

RE: After 30 years - 8/20/2007 4:19:26 AM

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Um...yeah...what he said :)

Dreams found online, nurtured over the phone and confirmed in person really do happen. This past weekend has shown that in spades. My man, Jarl Rmanrr, and I discovered that the most wonderful connection we had built over the past several months of conversing through electronics was just as real and honest and magical as we had hoped it would be. We call it love by whatever definition of the word. He fills my head and fills my heart, with him I feel peace, joy, contentment, safety, wonder for the present and excitement for the future. We talked, we peeled back layers of each other's soul and laid bare our own, knowing and trusting the other would take it honestly and keep it safe with theirs, we dove into the depths of our own hearts to find the the other already there. Making love, playing, cuddling, talking, sitting in silence, in our own heads and in each other's...it was all good and right. My Free Companion, my Master, my man...he is simply Mine. Free Companion, His sub, his woman...I am simply His. And it is right. I love you, my Jarl.

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There is no such thing as can't unless it is followed by yet

It is the meaningless little acts that become meaningful in the doing.

The people that mind don't matter and the people that matter don't mind.

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RE: After 30 years - 8/20/2007 5:23:28 AM

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CONGRATULATIONS to both of you! You sound as though you have found, in each other, exactly what you both were seeking. It sounds like pure magic and i wish you both continued happiness and mutual fulfillment in your journey together.

slave joy
Owned property of Master David

"Commitment transforms a promise into a reality."

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RE: After 30 years - 9/16/2007 12:21:28 AM

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aw what a wonderful magical story i love it and it means there could be hope for me ! Thank You so much. and congradulations to You both!!!!!!!!!!!

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RE: After 30 years - 9/17/2007 7:43:31 PM

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Sometimes love does start online.......mine did.

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RE: After 30 years - 9/18/2007 3:58:23 AM

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Thank you for everyone's best wishes. My Jarl and I just had our second weekend together, 5 days this time :) and it's just better and better. Thank God for these monthly visits until I can move to him permanently 1 Dec. Yes, dreams really can come true.

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There is no such thing as can't unless it is followed by yet

It is the meaningless little acts that become meaningful in the doing.

The people that mind don't matter and the people that matter don't mind.

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RE: After 30 years - 9/18/2007 9:37:40 PM

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Tal My Woman, Greetings
Where to begin, hmmm... I could recite the entire travelogue of 5 glorious days....and some truly memorable nights. Suffice it to say, thank you for all your warm wishes...the naysayers can eat My shorts heh heh. My woman has come down with a cold/flu/icky, and this is unacceptable! OUT damnable bugs, OUT! That being said, time will be the cure. I can with utmost honesty, Dec 1 never looked so good as this year. My woman comes for her visit to our new home in 23 days, (I hope the disaster area is finally looking if not presentable, at least livable by then). Then one more visit, and finally she arrives for good. Aye, dreams, hopes, desires can all come true. They did for us. May it happen for all. I love you, My woman...I continue to want all of you for all time.

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Be Well, Be Careful

Jarl Rmanrr

"the road untravelled is the loneliest." Me
Courage...the ability to overcome obstacles during the course.
"to be insane is to be original!"...Me

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RE: After 30 years - 10/15/2007 12:48:06 AM

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Greetings
Just completed installment 3 of our visits until My woman moves to Me. Life just gets better and better since she and I have become paired. Another 3 glorious days of hanging about...still in holiday mode and somewhat also a mode of having her here full time. Two phrases heard by My ears this past 3 days stand out in stark brilliance..."I feel comfortable here, this does not seem like a visit it feels like home", and then just as I was about to put her on the plane to go back temporarily...."I don't want to go back"....you want to know what it feels like to have someone you love and respect say those things...believe Me you truly do. This place seems so empty without her....but I know it will not be so for very long. Dec 1 can't come soon enough. I love you My woman.

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Be Well, Be Careful

Jarl Rmanrr

"the road untravelled is the loneliest." Me
Courage...the ability to overcome obstacles during the course.
"to be insane is to be original!"...Me

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RE: After 30 years - 10/15/2007 2:34:46 PM

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wow, truly an inspiration to us all, thank You for sharing Your lovely journey
respectfully,
anna

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RE: After 30 years - 10/16/2007 3:20:20 AM

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How weird is it to travel and visit your new home and have to leave after a few days. Meeting 3 with my Jarl took place in our new apartment and I have to say he done good. It is a wonderful place in a great area, beautiful views from the balcony and was even 90% put together...a most amazing feat since he just moved into it a little over a week ago. I felt very comfortable there, as if I was already home, not even the slightest feeling of being a 'guest'. It was great. He didn't feel as if he needed to entertain me every minute as I didn't feel the need to be, nor wish to be, entertained. We certainly spent quality time together but also had our own space when needed, coexisting quite comfortably in the same space. I know it's home because my toothbrush is there. ;) Coming back here for the time being is just to visit my clothes. This isn't home anymore, it is a place that I'm cleaning up to leave. Once all the little nigglies have been taken care of, I'm so outta here!

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There is no such thing as can't unless it is followed by yet

It is the meaningless little acts that become meaningful in the doing.

The people that mind don't matter and the people that matter don't mind.

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RE: After 30 years - 11/11/2007 11:26:05 PM

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Greetings
Continuing the thread I started. Meeting 4 visit 4 homecoming 4 all wrapped up into the weekend just ending. Once again I say it...I am the luckiest bastard to walk the earth. My woman (littlebitxxx...for those who really HAVE to know who she is) is on a plane back to where she used to call home as I write this. May she travel and land safely (and I am not ashamed to beg God for His favor in this). In the time I have known her, she has evolved into the person I know her now. She continues to evolve and grow and learn...as do I. Together indeed the world is in so much trouble heh heh. Tonight just sitting and staring into her eyes waiting for the almost last call to board I came close to tears...I had to look away....why?...the pain of not having her with Me...that simple. The future though is so bright that I have to wear shades (to steal a line from the song), for even though she is not with Me now, I eagerly await her move to Me in about 3 weeks (when she arrives) and then, there will be no departures for weeks ...there will be growth as a couple and individually, love, respect, desire, discussion, play, sex (well DUH!), living day to day, did I mention play? or even sex?...oh yes, yes I did...heh heh. Seriously though, we fit, I have found in her after screwing up the courage to begin to speak seriously, the one female on the planet I was meant to be with. Period. I am fairly confident she feels and thinks the same way about Me (why else is she moving here?).
My journey to date alone, with others, and finally with her reminds Me of those TV commercials...this, $, that, $, the other thing, $, the final statement...priceless.
she is indeed priceless...worth more than the world can offer Me for she means more to Me than anything else, including My life which I would gladly lay down to keep her safe (goes for her not quite UM as well). My woman, I love you...I value your counsel, (when I can stop Myself from interrupting you), your intelligence and your spirit...and all of what makes you, you. I demanded early that I wanted all of you and would not settle for anything less....in return I have given you all of Me...and me too. It works for us...very well. May it always do so. Of that I have little concern over...the visits, the conversations, the discussions and exploring of who we each are...continue to inspire Me, bring Me joy, and provide Me a source of pride that you could want Me, (not to mention the things you do which each day which never fail to bring a smile, a thought, a sense of holy crap! what a woman!). I want you with Me always.

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Be Well, Be Careful

Jarl Rmanrr

"the road untravelled is the loneliest." Me
Courage...the ability to overcome obstacles during the course.
"to be insane is to be original!"...Me

(in reply to littlebitxxx)

RE: After 30 years - 11/12/2007 4:35:41 AM

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Back and forth across this l'il ol' country of ours for a weekend every month is finished!! Either I've never gotten jet lag or I've lived within it permanently for the past few I'm thinking...lol. And it's over!! Never again!! The next time I get to visit the prairies, I'm staying there. To take up permanent residence with the man and Man who means more to me than words can explain. This past weekend felt again just like coming home after a time away for work or something. Hell, I've already requested a furniture
re-arrangement...must mean I live there ;) Two weeks from today the moving truck is here, three weeks from today I will be in Edmonton or close to it. That's when life will really begin. To date, I think we've been merely existing, taking up space and breathing air. Even with visits back and forth there has still been the small ethereal quality of unreality. The "yeah, yeah, I'll believe it when I see it" kinda thing. The visits are awesome, the phone calls, the whole togetherness-whilst-apart stuff...all well and good. But boxes in the living room and clothes hanging in the closet will be the clincher.

My Jarl, I'm so glad we are of the "I'll see it when I believe it" bent of mind. We took a glimmer of an idea and worked together to manifest it. We've made our own destiny out of this past black year of frustration, disappointments, and setbacks. Instead of sitting and waiting for the future to bring us something good, we've brought the future to us and made it happen. You have given and are giving me all of yourself as I give myself to you. With our size difference, I think I got the better deal. ;) I love you.

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There is no such thing as can't unless it is followed by yet

It is the meaningless little acts that become meaningful in the doing.

The people that mind don't matter and the people that matter don't mind.

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RE: After 30 years - 12/7/2007 5:47:10 AM

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Greetings
Well, it has been 3 whole days with a night thrown in for good measure since she arrived. I have survived her cooking, I am even surprised she cooked for Me (and she can do a freaking good job too!). Last nights dinner was really good. With My longish days and such, Morning (UGH) has been sort of the time we have stolen a bit to spend with each other. Neither of us has killed the other yet, no bloodshed, just sitting together sometimes talking a bit but just comfortable in each other's presence. This whole thing still feels like holidays a bit but I like the feeling, I enjoy her being here. It is so good at the end of a gruelling day to know she is here. I have a goal to have her stay for...let's see...the rest of My life ought to suffice. I look forward to coming home now. I am living again, instead of existing. I have xmas, easter, My birthday and everything else present all wrapped up into one single solitary individual who has given herself to Me. I know I got the better deal in this bargain. And that is the way it is cuz I am the Dom and I say so...so there...nah, nah, nahnah,...nah...plbplbplb...(tongue between lips translation). heh heh. Be well, be careful. (ps what she said above nod nod nod). JR

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Be Well, Be Careful

Jarl Rmanrr

"the road untravelled is the loneliest." Me
Courage...the ability to overcome obstacles during the course.
"to be insane is to be original!"...Me

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RE: After 30 years - 12/7/2007 7:25:37 AM

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Greetings Jarl Rmanrr and tiny sage

Love and Light to you both!

peace of wonderful beginnings,
j

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Jean Nidetch

There is a war going on for your mind...if you are thinking, you are winning~
Flobots

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RE: After 30 years - 12/7/2007 8:21:39 AM

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congratulations on finding each other and I wish you many years of happiness together, I especially enjoyed reading the excitement of your first meet, which started around the same time as I began my own long distance relationship with hopes of meeting for the first time in a couple months from now, I can only hope it brings the same intensity of feelings the 2 of you share

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RE: After 30 years - 12/15/2007 11:50:19 PM

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News Flash
Today I got the tattoo that Jarl and I discussed. His totem animal is the bear so we chose three bear footie-prints in descending size. It is placed on my right inner thigh, high up(ooh, waaaay high up) symbolizing leading into the cave which is home. Very nice job done by the artist, clean and sharp even to the razor claws.
Now I am marked and became His again.
Film at 11.
(Actually will post pictures when available)

Love and light,
Sage

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There is no such thing as can't unless it is followed by yet

It is the meaningless little acts that become meaningful in the doing.

The people that mind don't matter and the people that matter don't mind.

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RE: After 30 years - 12/17/2007 5:55:43 AM

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Greetings
Yes, you were marked....and it was a day of importance. It marked another profound step in our way of life. We had discussed it before but discussing and doing...well the doing got done. heh heh. By accepting the marking, you have again given Me all of you, and I will continue to give all of Me. Anything else is not enough. Have a great day My love...I am soon off to work. (she is sleeping) heh heh.

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Be Well, Be Careful

Jarl Rmanrr

"the road untravelled is the loneliest." Me
Courage...the ability to overcome obstacles during the course.
"to be insane is to be original!"...Me

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RE: After 30 years - 6/16/2008 11:15:35 AM

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Greetings,
It's been 6 months since I moved here to be with Jarl Rmanrr. Six glorious months of discovery, excitement and love all mixed in with the ups and downs of everyday life. We settled in and became a couple rather quickly, easy to do when you're friends to start with. Over the weeks and months we found so many more commonalities to share, so much more to discover with and about each other. In many aspects, life just got better and better, as our Free Companionship grew. We also found there are a few fundamental differences, ones that just could not be overcome nor settled to mutual satisfaction. It has been decided, amicably and mutually, that I will move out. Before you jump to any conclusions...we love each other dearly, still are bestest friends....we just cannot live together. So we decided that in order to keep our deep friendship and not let any little niggly of everyday life ruin it, we will de-co-habitate. And yanno, once that decision was made and the discussions ensued, we became even faster friends and fell in love all over again.

To that end, I will announce that I now wear his collar. He said he finally realizes first hand how, in the books, many Free Men enslave their Free Companions...and why. The emotions, the physical interaction are the same but deeper. It is just another way to keep them close. I happily accepted his offer of collar on the weekend. With me still moving out, it will become more of a part time collar when we are together. He will still have his life, I will have mine. Together we are Master/slave and the Red Silk will be worn.

The chains this man has around my heart are unbreakable. He still fills my heart and fills my head. He will still fill my life in the new dynamic that we found, just as I do and will his. We are overjoyed to have each other back to where we first fell in love, and with the separation of only a few miles, we will be able to continue on our journey of discovery together. I love you, my Jarl.

< Message edited by littlebitxxx -- 6/16/2008 11:17:57 AM >

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There is no such thing as can't unless it is followed by yet

It is the meaningless little acts that become meaningful in the doing.

The people that mind don't matter and the people that matter don't mind.

(in reply to rmanrr)

RE: After 30 years - 6/16/2008 6:13:12 PM

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Greetings,
I love you as well My girl and it has indeed been a truly wondrous and even agonizing at times voyage of discovery for the two of us while living together. I do indeed look forward upon the many discoveries our journey will reveal to us while we live apart. I regret not a moment I have spent with you together, even through some of the strain for it has helped Me grow...and to be better in many ways....some of them you still wear from a couple days ago (heh heh). Where ever our path takes us I welcome the journey for years to come. I am your Jarl.

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Be Well, Be Careful

Jarl Rmanrr

"the road untravelled is the loneliest." Me
Courage...the ability to overcome obstacles during the course.
"to be insane is to be original!"...Me

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RE: After 30 years - 7/21/2008 8:14:57 PM

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Update:
The journey has ended.

""The chains this man has around my heart are unbreakable. He still fills my heart and fills my head. He will still fill my life in the new dynamic that we found, just as I do and will his. We are overjoyed to have each other back to where we first fell in love, and with the separation of only a few miles, we will be able to continue on our journey of discovery together. I love you, my Jarl.""

""Where ever our path takes us I welcome the journey for years to come. I am your Jarl.""

Quoted from both above.
I guess not.
Sad, really.

< Message edited by littlebitxxx -- 7/21/2008 8:44:27 PM >

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There is no such thing as can't unless it is followed by yet

It is the meaningless little acts that become meaningful in the doing.

The people that mind don't matter and the people that matter don't mind.

(in reply to rmanrr)

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