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RE: How much do subs understand femdoms? - 7/30/2005 2:07:06 PM

HiTop

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ORIGINAL: lonewolf05

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Hey Wolf, as GoddessDustyGold mentioned I do not think that a good submissive is passive. A good submissive must actively try to understand his domme - its an important step to bringing more pleasure to her life.

I am not sure what your new Ms intends to teach you, but as you say it "ought to be interesting."

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ORIGINAL: lonewolf05
i was talking to Her in IM and She took exception to some of my answers. i wasn't nicey nice enough. "I" don't KNOW nicey nice. i am a street kid used to having things HIS way, as an only child for 50 plus years. SO She says She is going to start helping me understand.

Not nicey nice enough? If that's what the lady said, take it to heart. Even in the vanilla world, it's still a whole lot about kissing their asses. "if Momma's happy, everybody's happy"... that's straight out of your middle america lexicon, and you better believe the converse is true, "if Momma ain't happy, ain't nobody happy".

Drop that first line at work and see how your male coworkers react.

And if the lady says you aren't tooting her horn, pay attention.

Just my two cents worth

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RE: How much do subs understand femdoms? - 7/30/2005 2:09:01 PM

SadisticPrincess

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Ultimately, it's about long term stability. And wanting to ensure those things, I am guessing the Fem seeks control to assure her that this will be the case.
How the nuts n bolts of a stable home and life boiling down to freaky adult fun, well, that's a question for the ages, isn't it

Weelllllllllllllllllllll..............

I don't do the romance thing with my subs. I don't have sexual contact with them, either. Stable home life? Yeah, it's a good thing, but I provide that, along with my family. SO, while some might fit your stereotype, I don't think it's true for all of us.

Good point about the cards and flowers, though----genuine tribute really does feel like a miracle sometimes.

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RE: How much do subs understand femdoms? - 7/31/2005 2:19:00 AM

APhacetoSit

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I'll take one or two of those Submissive types please. : )

imho, Ma'am i am one of a kind, however, i have never objected to being taken more than once. of course that all depends on Mistress's wish.

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RE: How much do subs understand femdoms? - 7/31/2005 2:29:52 AM

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supposedly, tonight, my new Ms told me She is going to start teaching me about this passive thing. so we all will find out how well that goes over

i don't view my role as passive so much as restrained, disciplined, and seeking mutual satisfaction through my submissive role. i find great satisfaction in bringing a woman to pleasure, no matter what form her pleasure takes, and i am quite often answered with my own gratification in whatever form that might take.

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