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BAD EXPERIENCE....READ IT - 6/21/2004 1:10:51 PM

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Hello guys

I'd like to share an experience I had.
I have a girlfriend and once we were in my bedroom and I started to ask her to hit and torture me...(bondage me, call me slave, torture my face with a bolt
and bit every piece of my body)First, she didn't like but after a little talk , she agreed to realize my desires.
When we were having fun, my dad opened the door( I've forgot to lock it) and saw my girlfriend naked biting my nipples!
Ohhh...It was so embarassing!!! Now my girlfriend told me that she will never do these things again..(I'm really upset)
What would you do about that situation???

Let me know..
Bye

RE: BAD EXPERIENCE....READ IT - 6/21/2004 1:25:58 PM

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Plan A:
First thing... move out of your Dad's house, this is important. Secondly, get a job and pay for bills, taxes, groceries, gas, and have some left for other bills... it's important to owe money, so indulge... the nipple biting chicks will cum a' running (cerious)!

Plan B:
Find a rich nipple biting chick and blow off the job... but definitely move out of Dad's!

Best Wishes

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RE: BAD EXPERIENCE....READ IT - 6/21/2004 1:26:48 PM

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first thing, find a place to mess around where your parents can't walk in on you.

if she liked it, i'm willing to bet that as soon as you remove the possiblity of discovery she'll try it again.

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RE: BAD EXPERIENCE....READ IT - 6/21/2004 1:58:23 PM

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The best suggestion I can give you is go buy the book sm 101 by Jaywiseman and give it to your girlfriend to read. This will give her a idea what you are wanting and you both can learn this safely. Also give her the links to castlerealm so she can read about it more. In the mean time get a job and move out into your own place. Also if you and her are old enough find the local munch groups in your area and start attending them on a regular bases. Good luck with your search for this lifestyle. :) ScorpioMaster

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RE: BAD EXPERIENCE....READ IT - 6/21/2004 2:23:51 PM

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Hello,

I have to agree with the other posters, doug04. The biggest problem I think you face in the lifestyle is the fact that you live at your parents.

If living at your parents is a requirement, perhaps talking to your girlfriend (open communication is imperative in this lifestyle) about going to do these sorts of things at a hotel. If she feels safe doing them, she may be willing to give you what you need.

Sinergy

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RE: BAD EXPERIENCE....READ IT - 6/21/2004 3:00:11 PM

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My first problem is.. uhmmm.. arent you the one who is supposed to be doing that to her.. as your listed as a Male Dominant with a specialized skill in corset training.. my second other problem is...hitting someone in the face with a belt can be dangerous.. etc..etc..etc..

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RE: BAD EXPERIENCE....READ IT - 6/21/2004 3:15:59 PM

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After reading your post Sylver, I have a feeling that he is making this all up.

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RE: BAD EXPERIENCE....READ IT - 6/21/2004 4:23:56 PM

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Mmmmm my guess is that english is his second language. He lives in Brazil, after all - and to be fair (since I'm living not too far from Brazil) it is VERY common to live with your parents until you are married in Latin America. I think about 80% of my single friends - male and female - live with their parents here, the oldest being 34 years old. My roommate is 35 years old, and JUST moved out of his mothers home this year.

As to the question of his 'orientation' when you sign up to this site, it doesn't give you the option of listing yourself as 'vanilla' or 'newbie.' You pick Dom, sub/slave, or Switch. If I didn't know what those things meant, I'd probably just pick the first option (again, especially if english isn't my first language.) He only has one interest and one skill listed - probably again the bare minimum. If he's pulling our leg, he's gone to a lot of trouble to do so.

Doug, I also suggest that the best thing to do is to just talk to your girlfriend. Tell her that you enjoyed what happened (if you did), and that there's nothing crazy about it. Since you're probably a bit far from local munches, doing research online would be a good way to get over some of your fears. Have her look at this site a bit (if she speaks english - or use http://babelfish.altavista.com to help with translations) and do a search on http://www.castlerealm.com

Above all, communication is really important here. Just be honest about how you feel. If you are open and honest about how you feel, you'll have a much better possibility at repairing the damage caused by the embarressment.

And respectfully everyone else who jumped on this guy out of the gate, perhaps you might consider editing your posts. If he's insincere, it will show in the long run. Until then, try to remember the first time YOU came in contact with people who liked whips, chains, and weren't afraid to talk about it.

Stephan

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RE: BAD EXPERIENCE....READ IT - 6/21/2004 4:28:20 PM

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i'm wondering what his age is? His real age. His post is totally contradictory. Specially if his profile claims he is a Dominant.

Something stinks.

Take care,

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RE: BAD EXPERIENCE....READ IT - 6/21/2004 6:06:33 PM

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HEY!

I showered and used deodorant!! Honest!

<sniffs pits>

IT AIN'T ME DAMNIT!

lol

~ShadeDiva, who actually is told often that she smells very very very delightful, sos there!

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RE: BAD EXPERIENCE....READ IT - 6/21/2004 8:35:16 PM

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the first thing I would say to you Doug is
it was NOT a BAD EXPERIENCE!
I am sure that your Dad was probabaly
feeling proud in seeing his son with a woman
first off if you are an adult living with the
parents and second you did say that you
were having fun with your gurl freinds sooooo
it was NOT a BAD EXPERIANCE! It was a good
one and a fun one and oooh well so DAD gotta
peek at what F U N You were haven. Im
sure he is saying to His self OOOOH goodie
he has a girl freind He will be gettin his own
place REALLLLL SOON!!!! I bet the first
thing your girlfreind does when you get a place
of your Own is rip those lil titties to shreads and
beat that ass REALLLLLL GOODDDD!

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RE: BAD EXPERIENCE....READ IT - 6/21/2004 8:43:34 PM

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Actually I know quite a few Doms
whom live with parents first off and
second I know many Doms whom
are masocists. I even know a few
Doms whom are Young, Dumb, n
full of cummie fantasies. Any Adult
with grown children can read the
words and see it is a young adult
starting out in a world he has read
about and trying to experiance.

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RE: BAD EXPERIENCE....READ IT - 6/21/2004 8:44:51 PM

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badtimes, shouldn't fuck in your girl's house then. and get a little kinkier.

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RE: BAD EXPERIENCE....READ IT - 6/21/2004 8:55:09 PM

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confuse the swede
HE DID IT!!
HE CONFUSED YA!!

quote:

Hello guys I'd like to share an experience I had.
I have a girlfriend and once we were in my bedroom

HE was in HIS ROOM not the gurl freinds!! giggles

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RE: BAD EXPERIENCE....READ IT - 6/21/2004 10:52:13 PM

confusetheswede

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ahahahah. You sly fox , You.the dope rotts me brains out.xox

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ORIGINAL: MistressDREAD

confuse the swede
HE DID IT!!
HE CONFUSED YA!!

quote:

Hello guys I'd like to share an experience I had.
I have a girlfriend and once we were in my bedroom

HE was in HIS ROOM not the gurl freinds!! giggles

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RE: BAD EXPERIENCE....READ IT - 6/22/2004 5:27:32 AM

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Hello

Thanks for all of your answers!!!
First , the one thing I have to agree is to move out my Dad's house , I think if I locked my door , nothing would have happened, right?
I didn't, cause my dad always bit by my door before he gets in, it's a respect issue and he failed with me.
About my nationality , yes I'm brazilian and english is my second language(sorry for my bad english)

Anyway , I'm a beginner in a BDSM things , I don't have much experience so that's the reason i came here to hear diferent opinions and I'VE GOT IT!
My girlfriend told me that she liked to do all these "weird" things , I'm sure that she will agree to do it again.
The next time , I'll take her to a Hotel and there she'll feel more comfortable
I'm very happy today, except with my dad

....
So...Does anyone have any suggestion to use in my next adventure? maybe some objects?
What else Should I know??
Thanks!

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RE: BAD EXPERIENCE....READ IT - 6/22/2004 6:56:32 AM

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quote:

The next time , I'll take her to a Hotel and there she'll feel more comfortable
I'm very happy today, except with my dad ....
So...Does anyone have any suggestion to use in my next adventure? maybe some objects?
What else Should I know??

If you like to be cuffed a great item for a motel room is leather straps that hook over a doorway because they are very portable. I got mine on ebay for $14.95. You might enjoy reading the "household objects" thread.

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RE: BAD EXPERIENCE....READ IT - 6/22/2004 7:22:35 AM

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Ummmmm, next time, lock the door? Better still, let HER lock the door for proof?

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RE: BAD EXPERIENCE....READ IT - 6/22/2004 7:59:17 AM

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yesss like in the woods ... maybe tied to a tree limb ?

.jade

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RE: BAD EXPERIENCE....READ IT - 6/22/2004 12:17:21 PM

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uuuuummmmMMMMMM
confusetheswede it shows

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