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RE: are they bi? - 8/30/2007 3:14:50 PM   
CandyLover


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Status: offline 		I think some straight men just love phalli so much that their own just isn't enough to satisfy them.  It's an object of power and dominance to many people, and since it's pretty uncommon to find an attractive woman with one (outside of pornography and certain countries), they settle for the next best thing: a phallus on someone they don't have to look at, and a woman to fixate on at the same time.  Doesn't make them gay or bi, they're still attracted to 95% of the female form, and that 5% is just a fetish for them.

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RE: are they bi? - 8/31/2007 4:43:35 AM   
dilimiti


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Status: offline 		pray tell candylover...what CERTAIN countries?

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RE: are they bi? - 8/31/2007 4:48:41 AM   
malloves69


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Status: offline 		i have done the bi thing 3 times with my mistress so far ....seemed so natural to do so for her with her being there and calling the shots ...see she loves to see 2 guys together and who am i to say no to that ?   to this day i dont consider myself as bi ...if i was truly bi i would be looking for guys without my mistress being there and i have no interest in doing that ..love the female body and everything it has to offer   but if she wants to see me suck a real cock and get fucked by a real cock for her i have no problem doing so ..still wont swallow another mans cum ..for me thats still a limit ..one of the very few i have left ..have fun ..mal

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RE: are they bi? - 8/31/2007 7:26:46 AM   
mistresszariah1


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Status: offline 		Than you all for your replys,  I did however introduce him to bdsm, he wants to be blindfolded when sucking a cock and made fun off after by woman. Im sure after reading your replys it it just My own insecurites of the relationship

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RE: are they bi? - 8/31/2007 10:30:58 AM   
WestWanderer


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Status: offline 		mistresszariah1 let me begin by saying that I am not a Mistress, but since no one has ever killed me for posting my opinion here before I will. I've observed your reactions and it seems to me that you think that just because you ask a question you deserve a response. And when you don't get the one you like you become rather rude.

In any case, Im going to say that if you don't trust this man enough to feel secure enough to be in a long term relationship with him _knowing_ that he enjoys the things he does,  well you shouldn't be with him. It's simply that simple really.

If he is Bi, well you could feel flattered that he picked you rather than somone with a penis. If he's not bi, well.... I guess you might buy a strapon? In either case just keep in mind that just because a man is bisexual doesn't mean they need sex with both genders always and forever. Just like a straight person doesn't need thirty partners of the opposite sex. That's just common sense really.

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RE: are they bi? - 9/9/2007 12:11:52 AM   
jeffman1234


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Status: offline 		Study's have found from physiological responses that 80% of people are bi to some degree.  

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RE: are they bi? - 9/9/2007 1:05:53 AM   
Emperor1956


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Status: offline 		FastReply:   Situationally bi?   Soooooo....if I'm a vegetarian, but you put a plate of fried chicken in front of me and I chow down...am I situationally meaty?    If I am in a committed monogamous relationship, but on business trips of at least 42.4 miles from home, I'm aroused by another and act on it...I'm situationally horny?   If I'm all about God, Christ, and family values, but in Minneapolis bathrooms I play footsie with the guy in the next stall, I'm situationally ... a Senator?

Relative values are no values.   I think the desire to label behavior is stupid (the first post from Lady Pact had it right...who cares!)   I admire all of you for rational answers in the face of a rude, stupid OP.   But situational waffling is just as stupid.  

And that's the rest of the story...

E.

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RE: are they bi? - 9/9/2007 4:42:14 AM   
golfguy


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Status: offline 		i think any man that will go that far is gay but doesnt want to admit it.use abny excuse they want they enjoy it. there are limits and they crossed the line.to each his own. perhaps thats why i dont have a mistress but if it takes that to get one ill suffer alone








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RE: are they bi? - 9/9/2007 5:50:55 AM   
adoracat


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Emperor1956

FastReply:   Situationally bi?   Soooooo....if I'm a vegetarian, but you put a plate of fried chicken in front of me and I chow down...am I situationally meaty?    If I am in a committed monogamous relationship, but on business trips of at least 42.4 miles from home, I'm aroused by another and act on it...I'm situationally horny?   If I'm all about God, Christ, and family values, but in Minneapolis bathrooms I play footsie with the guy in the next stall, I'm situationally ... a Senator?

Relative values are no values.   I think the desire to label behavior is stupid (the first post from Lady Pact had it right...who cares!)   I admire all of you for rational answers in the face of a rude, stupid OP.   But situational waffling is just as stupid.  

And that's the rest of the story...

E.


situationally bi, yes.  i think women are pretty, i like the way they look.  i've had relationships with three specific women because i loved *them*, not women in general.

as one lesbian friend of mine likes to say about me "(she) just wont give up the icky boy penises!"    if i had to chose, i'd chose men...but even then, i dont wish to jump *all* men, just the ones i'm in relationship with.

kitten, who knows she's a mess ;)

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RE: are they bi? - 9/9/2007 5:54:31 AM   
BeachMystress


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Status: offline 		It could mean they are bi.. or it could mean they are looking to do the most shameful thing they can think of to prove to themselves and the Domme how far they'll go for her. The only one who can tell you which it is, is the male himself.

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RE: are they bi? - 9/9/2007 8:31:31 AM   
kevinbd9


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Status: offline 		I don't think that it necessarily means he is gay.  I am not gay, I have no interest in men, but being made to suck cock is a turn on.  Not because I want to do it, but because I don't like doing it.  Just like being made to stand in the corner.  I hate it when my Mistress makes me stand in the corner like a little kid, but that fact that she makes me stand in the corner anyway is a turn on

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RE: are they bi? - 9/9/2007 8:50:54 AM   
blackpearl81


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ORIGINAL: SDFemDom4cuck

Perhaps it isn't that he enjoys doing it as much as he enjoys the humiliation of doing it for you. Just a thought.



With all the replies I've read.. this one makes the most sense to me.. 

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RE: are they bi? - 9/9/2007 9:15:08 AM   
RaynaSub


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Status: offline 		I agree, situationally bi is another one of the new made up terms
that really makes me chuckle.

I love the analogy of being "situationally vegetarian", many here refuse to
accept reality so they create their own.

I also agree with politesub, there is a reason hard limits exist.
I told my Dominant when I met him that being with another woman
was a hard limit for me, and he accepted that.
In fact he has respected ALL of my hard limits, that is why I am still with him.
What is the reason for limits, if they are not respected?
Why not have "situational limits" next?

< Message edited by RaynaSub -- 9/9/2007 9:16:08 AM >

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RE: are they bi? - 9/9/2007 9:19:03 AM   
blackpearl81


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Emperor1956

FastReply:   Situationally bi?   Soooooo....if I'm a vegetarian, but you put a plate of fried chicken in front of me and I chow down...am I situationally meaty?   


Technically, you would be considered "situationally carnivore"


/exits stage left with a crowd of angry, whip bearing Femme's on my tail.

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RE: are they bi? - 9/9/2007 9:22:22 AM   
FullfigRIMaam


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ORIGINAL: mistresszariah1
does he do woman? are you serious? I just said he was my ltr
Guess you've not heard of being in a relationship with a sub/slave with whom one does not engage in intercourse/any sex.
It has already been said that no one can answer the bi question, but himself; though on behavior alone, if he enjoys/wants sex with you and other men, I would say he is.   On the other hand, it is valid that some submissives will submit to their domina's desire/direction, and that is way hot, no matter what the activity.    M

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RE: are they bi? - 9/9/2007 11:04:12 AM   
Petronius


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Status: offline 		Is he bi?

For over 50 years, since the Kinsey reports, that's been a meaningless question based on an invalid philosophy, centered on an obsolete concept of "either/or."

If you want a better understanding of the situation and not merely a "yes/no either/or" answer to a meaningless question, read Kinsey.

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RE: are they bi? - 9/9/2007 10:17:57 PM   
flipr


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Status: offline 		This is a good thread, Beinging a submissive male, i wondered about if during play if i was ever told, and i would, to suck a cock, does this make me by, i have never seen a guy that i am attracted to, but have been impressed by some cocks, but i am now and always will be a big breast fan

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RE: are they bi? - 9/18/2007 7:16:20 AM   
mistresszariah1


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Status: offline 		thank you all for your input

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RE: are they bi? - 10/4/2007 4:31:29 PM   
slavedoggieboy


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Status: offline 		i do not consider myself bi or gay, but i have sucked cock for two men, at the orders of my then Mistress. They were her Brother, and her Brother-in-Law, and i sucked them off on many occassions. This treat was given to them as a reward for their doing things around Mistress house.
I have not sucked a cock in 50 years, however, if my present Mistress wanted me to suck off her male friend, i would do so to make her happy.
Hope this will help to answer your question.

slavedoggieboy

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RE: are they bi? - 10/4/2007 4:48:59 PM   
nameonhold


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Status: offline 		Rayna,

Your point is well taken.  In the year 2007 (well, it didn't just begin this year), we twist and contort the English language to suit our purposes by associating meanings with words which don't actually exist.

My presonal favorite is the use of the word "diverse, diversity, et al."  It is consistently used in a context associating a qualitative characteristic to the word.  In reality, "diverse" is not a qualitative term.  It is merely a description of a condition.  It could be used in either a qualitatively good, or qualitatively bad context.  But the word "diverse" assumes no qualitative meaning.

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