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RE: Pms and the submissive - 7/21/2005 7:58:36 AM

plantlady64

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Hello There,
I too notice a change in my emotions near my cycle. Two days before I start I get very sleepy & very grumpy (in my head, but not outloud). It seems everything and everyone pisses me off and I have no patience. I've also noticed I'm much more emotional in general and this 2 day period is when any little thing about my relationships seems to stand out like a sore thumb. I do my best to not make anything of the problems I see till a few days later when I feel more like my patient & tolerant self. Usually what ever I was upset about doesn't seem so bad after a couple of days.
As I'm 41 years old and been dealing with this for 26 years, I've learned to just take deep cleansing breaths, realize my frustration over little things comes from my hormones and not the situation at hand, and try real hard to not let it affect my actions, decisions or words.
Sometimes I do let it get the best of me, but most of the time I can curb my feelings enough that they only affect me and not those around me.
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sub suzanne

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RE: Pms and the submissive - 7/21/2005 8:50:37 AM

Mercnbeth

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Now I've never been one to use PMS as an excuse for anything, so thats part of why this is bothering me so much...I'm wondering if Im doomed to get in trouble once a month or if I can somehow stop this and Im courious if this happens to others, or am I just really a freak??

recognizing the problem is a big part of solving it!!! this slave has an assortment of "hormonally related" issues as well. this slave was up front with Master about it and continues to be, updating Him on the changes as this slave recognizes them--He adjusts this slave's schedule according to His wishes, and most times makes accomodations for severe symptoms. However, "brattiness" has never been one.

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RE: Pms and the submissive - 7/21/2005 11:25:45 AM

nenakajira

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My monthly insanity was a trial at first until we realised what was going on. But it becomes obvious that if the one time you act unlike yourself is the day before you start your period that there is a link.

I get moody every month. I get clingy, over emotional, I start to cry. Everything seems worse than it is. And normally sometime in the middle of all that I have a sit down talk with him where I say that Im not really a slave and never was and I cant do this and he should free me and have a vanilla relationship. Can you imagine his face the first time I did that? By the third time he could almost laugh about it. After seven months of living together he watches my moods and when he sees them starting to change he 'battens down the hatches'.

Not much else we could do, really. Sometimes other things do help. Birth control pills might help.. or might make it worse.. it varies. There is one now that reduces your periods to four a year so atleast you only go nuts on a quarterly basis. Sometimes changes in diet helps.. or getting some chocolate when you feel the nutsiness rear its ugly head. Other than that, sometimes you just have to accept that once a month youre going to get into trouble.

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nena{R}

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