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chellekitty -> RE: Question for the ladies of the section....... (9/1/2007 1:04:15 PM)
one thats there to help me man the sails when the storm comes, because even though the water is calm right this second, theres is one coming...and eventually sooner or later, there will be another one behind it...life happens in three stages.. preparing for the storm going through the storm recovering for the storm rinse and repeat chelle who firmly belives that life is what happens while you are making plans...

NorthernGent -> RE: Question for the ladies of the section....... (9/1/2007 1:05:57 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: chellekitty one thats there to help me man the sails when the storm comes, because even though the water is calm right this second, theres is one coming...and eventually sooner or later, there will be another one behind it...life happens in three stages.. preparing for the storm going through the storm recovering for the storm rinse and repeat chelle who firmly belives that life is what happens while you are making plans... Fine, I accept that, but what about a situation where the skies and waters are so calm, there's no storm 'round the corner? So you just sail down the river in a boat, and have a right old time.

chellekitty -> RE: Question for the ladies of the section....... (9/1/2007 1:09:47 PM)
you're so cute and naive...theres always a storm coming...at least for me...if you want to contact me on the otherside i will tell you why...or find my posts probably around 4 to 5 hundred posts ago i think i posted about why there is...but there is always a storm coming...

NorthernGent -> RE: Question for the ladies of the section....... (9/1/2007 1:10:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: wandersalone Smiles…and sometimes I meet a man whom I want to submit to so badly that my knees tremble and it is purely about being everything that I can be for him and getting pleasure from his pleasure….. tends not to be as long lasting and hasn’t happened for a long time! Maybe it's easier to relax and not look for the/a reason. quote: ORIGINAL: wandersalone I definitely prefer for ‘love’ to be a part of any equation however I am a romantic. 'Same here.........love, loyalty, friendship...human needs.

gypsygrl -> RE: Question for the ladies of the section....... (9/1/2007 2:09:30 PM)
quote: 1) One where your partner guides you, and helps you to understand yourself and your place in the world etc. 2) One where you simply sail down the river in a boat with loads of beer and weed, not a care in the world, you don't give a flying one about understanding yourself....all you want to do is have a good time, and serve your partner's needs. Mine doesn't drink, and I hope he doesn't spend a whole lot of time in boats smoking weed. And, I don't need a whole lot of guidence in the direction of understanding myself and my place in the world. But, he is very social and I tend to be a little too serious and do need guidence in lightening up, self-forgetting and basic social interaction so I can serve his needs. So, I would say we fall into a combination of the two options with modifications for our particular situation.

AquaticSub -> RE: Question for the ladies of the section....... (9/1/2007 2:25:10 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: slaveluci You don't fuck with a "gene pool" like that[:D]...............luci Well, what I know is limited since I'm a fan of good beer and even better wine but... She must be doing something awfully good if she thinks drinking beer or smoking pot is going to alter your DNA and mess up the gene pool.

murmur -> RE: Question for the ladies of the section....... (9/1/2007 2:35:04 PM)
I'd choose #3 - a combination of the above. For me, (as for now...for sure, it could change as i grow older) a good relationship is one where you have to let your senses free and enjoy the feeling of only being adding with that the intellectual roads toward fulfilling yourself and your partner cause you need to have that part also. Growing as a person and as a couple is a wonderful thing. He helped me understand so much things about myself, the world, sometimes without even realizing it... but...as we are young and therefore, dont really have any responsabilitys and strings between us yet, it's more easy to live the relationship where the boat is leading us slowly down the road, not a care in the world, where we dont know yet where it'll lead us... kind of exciting [:)]

Twicehappy2x -> RE: Question for the ladies of the section....... (9/1/2007 2:48:53 PM)
Hello NG, can i have equal helpings of both, skip the weed, add some Jack Daniels and do it on a Harley instead?

AquaticSub -> RE: Question for the ladies of the section....... (9/1/2007 2:51:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Twicehappy2x Hello NG, can i have equal helpings of both, skip the weed, add some Jack Daniels and do it on a Harley instead? Oooo.... now that sounds fun. wants a Harley

Squeakers -> RE: Question for the ladies of the section....... (9/1/2007 4:03:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: NorthernGent For clarification, beer and weed is a collective metaphor for enjoyment Darn, I was going to say that when I got done reading everything and you did it first.

fairerthanshe -> RE: Question for the ladies of the section....... (9/1/2007 4:22:23 PM)
Greetings NG, Thanks for saying so - I believe this is the right relationship for both of us in terms of where we are in our respective lives. He truly has helped me grow in ways I had never imagined. well wishes ~ fairer than she

arayofsunshine55 -> RE: Question for the ladies of the section....... (9/1/2007 5:58:54 PM)
Neither. I have a full life and understand my place in the world. I am a formed yet evolving human being. As to the second choice I don't even understand it. We have a relationship. Somewhat like a CEO and an EVP. He set the overall vision and strategy and I carry out my part. We love each other. And our relationship. It's a life. A fun life. But it's not just a fuck.

Twicehappy2x -> RE: Question for the ladies of the section....... (9/1/2007 7:25:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub quote: ORIGINAL: Twicehappy2x Hello NG, can i have equal helpings of both, skip the weed, add some Jack Daniels and do it on a Harley instead? Oooo.... now that sounds fun. wants a Harley Come on over i am sure somebody here would give you a bike ride.

AquaticSub -> RE: Question for the ladies of the section....... (9/1/2007 8:28:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Twicehappy2x quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub quote: ORIGINAL: Twicehappy2x Hello NG, can i have equal helpings of both, skip the weed, add some Jack Daniels and do it on a Harley instead? Oooo.... now that sounds fun. wants a Harley Come on over i am sure somebody here would give you a bike ride. Don't tempt me. Grins I might just show up. I've never been on one (except a mini-bike) and I want to try it soooo bad.

twistedkytten -> RE: Question for the ladies of the section....... (9/1/2007 9:17:21 PM)
There isn't a type of this or that type of relationship with Master and I.. honestly it is however HE wants it, whatever makes Him happy.. luckily what makes Him happy make me happy soo.. it works- as for recreational stuff.... there's a lot of riding -grins-

umisprite -> RE: Question for the ladies of the section....... (9/1/2007 10:32:53 PM)
A combination of #1 and #2 with the stipulation in #1 that not only is he guiding and helping me but I am doing the same for him. It's a partnership afterall. As for #2...there is always time for fun and relaxation and not taking ourselves too seriously every minute of every day. A day without laughter is a day wasted.

NorthernGent -> RE: Question for the ladies of the section....... (9/2/2007 2:01:32 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: cuddleheart50 A combinatioin of both would be nice. 'Makes sense to me. Life is difficult at times, and too much work and not enough play is not the solution: best to find a happy medium rather than a person think themself into an early grave, or attempt to set themselves personal ethics/morals that can't possibly be adhered to in the grand scheme of human existence/frailty (unless, of course, you're a masochist and want to lay the foundations for a lifetime of disappointment). It's important to follow your dreams and aspirations, but not at the expense of your health: some people have gone insane when attempting to take on board overly ambition personal morals. We're only human. Why would you want to set yourself up for a lifetime of disappointment? 'Just my take, of course.

NorthernGent -> RE: Question for the ladies of the section....... (9/2/2007 2:05:07 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Twicehappy2x Hello NG, can i have equal helpings of both, skip the weed, add some Jack Daniels and do it on a Harley instead? Hello Twice, Be my guest............except sailing down the river on a Harley could be a troublesome journey :-) I take your point though, and it sounds good to me.

bandit25 -> RE: Question for the ladies of the section....... (9/2/2007 2:32:50 AM)
Not sure how much guidance I need and I'm well aware of my place in the world. On the other hand, I get seasick. Don't think either scenario works for me.

NorthernGent -> RE: Question for the ladies of the section....... (9/2/2007 2:58:02 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: bandit25 On the other hand, I get seasick. On a barge going down a canal?

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