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RE: Are you Psychic and how does this affect your relat... - 9/8/2007 6:29:33 AM   
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"Have a good Saturday, ya'll.  "

There's only half an hour left.

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RE: Are you Psychic and how does this affect your relat... - 9/8/2007 6:31:18 AM   
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Better hurry then. Maybe that's true where you live - where I live it is 8:30a.m. Saturday morning.

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RE: Are you Psychic and how does this affect your relat... - 9/8/2007 6:33:54 AM   
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To me, a genius-aptitude is one who is better balanced socially.

Both of these guys sure didn't have that. In fact, they were both nuts with mental issues that prove their ability to be genius in any given field PLUS ability to have productive lives did not mingle well given their state of mind.

We can all be 'genius' as some one thing, some women are 'genius' bakers, it doesn't make them all-round GENIUS at car mechanics, thus the word itself is tossed about too much, by too many to describe a broad spectrum of those that may or may not be deserving.

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RE: Are you Psychic and how does this affect your relat... - 9/8/2007 6:47:25 AM   
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"To me, a genius-aptitude is one who is better balanced socially. "

So should society bow to your definition or should we stick with the recognised meaning of the word? Whats the use of language is we aren't going to use standards?

"In fact, they were both nuts with mental issues that prove their ability to be genius in any given field PLUS ability to have productive lives did not mingle well given their state of mind. "

LOL, both were hard working, had a level of understanding ahead of their time and achieved great accomplishments.

"We can all be 'genius' as some one thing"

No, we can't. Genius is limited to the very top IQ's. It is not available to everyone any more than gold medal speed is available to everyone.

"thus the word itself is tossed about too much, by too many to describe a broad spectrum of those that may or may not be deserving. "

By you it is being tossed around too much. Genius is cannot be so loosely applied.

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RE: Are you Psychic and how does this affect your relat... - 9/8/2007 6:52:30 AM   
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Some geniuses cannot even tie their own shoes.

You decide who you think is smart, I decide who I find smart. 

I know a few that are in the mensa category who can't find their way back from a grocery store without getting side-tracked by a pair of jiggly-boobs and end up hitting hydro poles.

and comparing a physical attribute such as olympic events that can be measured more accurately than brain-power?

If you consider a guy who is the occasional or oft-hermit a genius, you have fun and run with that.

edit to add: 'empirically measured' 

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RE: Are you Psychic and how does this affect your relat... - 9/8/2007 6:56:16 AM   
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Well I stopped the "psychic test" I picked 39 hits out of 102 cards....It was simply becoming way to predictable....91% above chance, the odds of anyone possessing my tremendous abilities....1-59,853.

If any of you are facing problems and need to be shown the correct path....I'm your guy.

I don't accept "tributes" but cunt and blow jobs have been known to attract my attention and have been proven to further my well honed psychic skills.

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RE: Are you Psychic and how does this affect your relat... - 9/8/2007 6:59:07 AM   
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What exactly is an empath?  (Too lazy to google it). 


basically someone who feels other people's emotions




this happens a lot more then people know you can feel peoples depression. their joy even their sadness. you can see their history through their eyes If it is a strong connection like with a loved one which this is most common with. you can see where they are and who they are talking to

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RE: Are you Psychic and how does this affect your relat... - 9/8/2007 6:59:55 AM   
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It was simply becoming way to predictable....


hahahahahha not sure if you noticed the pun in that. lol

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RE: Are you Psychic and how does this affect your relat... - 9/8/2007 7:03:02 AM   
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"Some geniuses cannot even tie their own shoes. "

As I said, you are tossing the term around too much.
Geniuses like Davinci or Verne weren't one trick ponies or savants. They had a genius level understanding of many subjects.

"You decide who you think is smart, I decide who I find smart. "

It's not a matter of what I think is smart, their accomplishments speak for themselves. Also your descriptions and reasoning doesn't match either of them.

"I know a few that are in the mensa category "

I said genius. Mensa's cut off is well short of genius. 1 in 50 people qualify for mensa. Genius is not that common.

"and comparing a physical attribute such as olympic events that can be measured more accurately than brain-power?"

Actually IQ can be measured quite well, but the example is sound anyway. The point is very few are true geniuses, just as very few are elite athletes.

"If you consider a guy who is the occasional or oft-hermit a genius, you have fun and run with that."

Again, you seem to have no idea of the accomplishments of either man. You are showing how far from genius you are, how far from average you are.

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RE: Are you Psychic and how does this affect your relat... - 9/8/2007 7:11:13 AM   
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If the biography channel decided, or others that anyone is genius, if the entire population did, that is their ideals on the term itself and their achievements.

I, personally, find others of equal mental ability 'genius' because they are well-balanced and fit (socially).

If you want to argue, and accuse me of being a moron, I suggest you take your assumptions elsewhere.  I will not argue with a fool nor will I choose to define any man in 'your' or other's category of these binary examples of so-called geniuses.

Earlier you were arguementative with Susan about pretty well 'nothingness' and now on me. I can predict you are just in a bad mood, maybe PMS? LOL (low blow? awe, then don't assume firstly about nonsense).

Don't get personal with me, this topic has gone too far off the OP's subject as is.

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RE: Are you Psychic and how does this affect your relat... - 9/8/2007 7:20:24 AM   
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Better hurry then. Maybe that's true where you live - where I live it is 8:30a.m. Saturday morning.

- Susan


but don't you understand...the twue world only exists where he exists...the rest of use are un-twue...

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RE: Are you Psychic and how does this affect your relat... - 9/8/2007 7:29:31 AM   
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"I, personally, find others of equal mental ability 'genius' because they are well-balanced and fit (socially). "

That is a perfect example of throwing the term around, misusing it and devaluing it.

"If you want to argue, and accuse me of being a moron, I suggest you take your assumptions elsewhere. "

Your descriptions and assessments do not match the people you are talking about. Your actions judge you.

"I can predict you are just in a bad mood, maybe PMS? LOL (low blow?"

Childish, not low.
Mood has nothing to do with it. Sound reasoning and it's absence from your posts is the issue.

"Don't get personal with me"

I am discussing what you have posted, not you. What you posted shows ignorance of the subject matter, it's as simple as that.

"but don't you understand...the twue world only exists where he exists...the rest of use are un-twue... "

It was a joke.

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RE: Are you Psychic and how does this affect your relat... - 9/8/2007 7:30:08 AM   
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http://www.iqtest.com/practicetest.html?PHPSESSID=3f9fd9ab7a7038ecae2dd09009282669

um ok

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RE: Are you Psychic and how does this affect your relat... - 9/8/2007 7:33:31 AM   
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wow i must say tsherpet, MadRabbit and other skeptics have presented a good case here. i remember a time i freaked out my ex husband when the phone rang and i guessed at who would be on the other end. i'd guessed right lol. Yes it was kinda freaky but it was an educated guess. we didn't get all that many phone calls and the person calling was at the time calling pretty often. i think it had also been a few days since she had called so it was about time for her to call. Now if it had been someone that had never called before it would have freaked me out too.
If i always knew who was calling or even 8 out of 10 times then i'd say maybe i had some psychic abilities at least in that area. Sadly it's not the case.

i've see police shows that are factual based where psychics help solve crimes and they aren't vague on the details at all. i also realize that there are many cases in which psychics claim to be able to solve them and are wrong. i'm sure that doesn't make good viewing so doesn't make it to my screen. Maybe it's a case of the visions being interpreted wrongly. i mean after all i doubt that they are like watching the crime on the tv. Then again if it can be done then why are there still unsolved crimes? i'm sure every psychic sees every murder but is there not one that can tell us who really killed JonBenet?

With all that said i wonder if
tsherpet and the others would believe psychic abilities  if they actually saw it? It is true we tend to hold onto what we want to believe and if they believe. If one believes it is a myth then they are as prone to explain it away as luck as those that believe it is real are to reaching for straws as proof.


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RE: Are you Psychic and how does this affect your relat... - 9/8/2007 7:35:31 AM   
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The observable reality of people making claims and not being able to live up to them.


Which is a level of abstraction that is far past the hard sciences.

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The scientific method is what one uses to test the validity of the hunches and guesswork.


~nods~

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People make a claim, money is offered for anyone who can back up such a claim, money is still on offer as all attempts have failed. Where is the fallacy?


The implication that absence of proof constitutes proof of absence is a well-known fallacy. You say you do not want people to leave it at agreeing with you, so why bring up an argument that is only valuable as an element of rhetoric, rather than staying with the logical and pertinent arguments with scientific basis?

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Also none of the excuses for not trying to prove ones abilities make any sense, unless one is admitting selfishness or shortsightedness.


Needing to fork over a few million to test a hypothesis in order to gain one million or less is not so much a lack of altruism as a lack of means, I would imagine. That said, I've no problem with the assertion that selfishness or shortsightedness would be the dominant factor in such a decision as most, going by the social and cognitive sciences.

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Rubbish. The intent is for psychics to get away from heavily edited tv shows and books and anecdotal "evidence" and to back up their own claims.


Such is not the stated intent of the Randi challenge, for instance.

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And lets not forget the complete absecence of any scientific methodology from the psychics.


I do not dispute that.

I am addressing your argument, not the wish-wash of the new age movement.

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And why shouldn't the claimant's identity be known? We don't want them failing the test then stealing money with self promotional books.


Assuming there was a healer somewhere who could deal with something outside the range of conventional medicine, just for the sake of argument, why would this person want to disclose their identity and address to a bunch of people who are desperate for just such a thing? Not everyone wants to be a celebrity, you know.

Besides, disclosing up front is a brilliant way to get yourself into trouble with anything from future employers to mental hospitals, even in cases where one is rational enough to take a failure result as valid and thus should not carry around that burden. Also, people who have practiced something or other for financial gain would stand to risk counterclaims.

As for the concern that people could make off with money, or misrepresent their result, that is a matter of not paying them for failure, and using a simple contract that makes them financially liable if they misrepresent the test results. Thus, you wouldn't end up risking people claiming to have passed the test when they hadn't actually done so.

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And why shouldn't they pay their own exspense if they are confident their abilities exist?


Some claims cost more to test than the prize money. For trivially debunked claims, that is a different matter, but those are generally caught before making it to the stage where actual scientific testing occurs anyway, so don't really figure into it. Most people don't have huge savings to burn on something they're probably not even confident in themselves, but I do, however, agree that the TV celebs etc. are in a different position, and should generally put up or shut up, as none of the concerns I've listed apply to them.

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The challenge is not to explain psychic abilities, just to prove their existence. That is not outside the scientific body of knowledge, it is in fact exactly what science is all about.


You misinterpret me. My point was, in some instances, claims cost a fair bit to test in a scientifically satisfactory manner, i.e. meeting the burden of proof for a claim that is not possible according to the scientific body of knowledge. That requires extraordinary proof.

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The terms are to discourage every nut from trying, and only those who think they are the real deal. It is also so any famous money making psychics who have a go will be exposed to their victims.


Among other things, yes. Those two points are laudable goals, but not scientific in nature.

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Rubbish [...] What absolute garbage


Stick to the point, please.

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The money is an incentive, but the real selling point for psychics is credibility.


Clearly, but you are making my point here. This is a forum, not a proving ground. If anyone here takes a claim here as credible without doing their own research, they're beyond your help. And the organizations in question are not in the business of research, but in the business of (understandably) undermining the credibility of hucksters, which is laudable enough, but has nothing to do with scientific inquiry into the matter, making their mention in connection with Susan's post rather beside the point.

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Well you gave a nice speech, but you didn't do much to my correct arguements.


I'm not seeking to "do" anything to your arguments. I simply addressed the points that (a) scientific method itself has limitations, and (b) an organization whose agenda is not science is not relevant to addressing the scientific side of things and does nothing to advance a rational approach to reality, rather tarnishing the immeasurable value of science and rational thinking; two things people should be educated in, and shown how to apply to their lives, rather than continuing to use the same flawed reasoning. That's the only way we'll eradicate the nuisance of pop science and sensationalist media coverage that diminishes the value of hard science.

Perhaps that makes my intentions clearer?

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I'm sure that impresses some people, and good luck to you, but your views on the scientific method suggest you are out of your depth.


Whether it impresses people living in an entirely different country from myself is really the last thing I'm concerned with. What I am concerned with, however, is whether it makes anyone read up on epistemology- a field that is of critical importance, in my opinion- which would be good.

You may take my insistence on correct application of science, and the separation of science and rhetoric, as suggesting that I am out of my depth. That would be a quite erroneous assumption, but one you are entitled to make, despite not according the OP the same respect. Not that I find the OP credible, mind you.

Mixing science, quotes, logic and rhetoric does nothing to raise public understanding of either.

That is my gripe with your posting.

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RE: Are you Psychic and how does this affect your relat... - 9/8/2007 7:47:44 AM   
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After taking the test...I now believe. 

Need to make the right decisions in you relationship? ( Domiguy holds his right hand up to his face as if it were a telephone, looks at the women of CM and *winks*) Call me!!!  For a cunt or tit shot or two I will walk you through your problems to avoid the pitfall that lie ahead.

I'm special.  As a seer, I can help you perfect the rhythm method, inform you if your period will hit on your next vacation...And help you to realize if the guy your seeing is a total douche....Oh by the way...Your guy is a complete douche bag.

Domiseerguy charges cunt,ass and head....The shit most of you whores routinely give up for nothing....Call me.

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RE: Are you Psychic and how does this affect your relat... - 9/8/2007 7:48:03 AM   
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I am discussing what you have posted, not you. What you posted shows ignorance of the subject matter, it's as simple as that.


ok, this went to you bringing up Verne and DaVinchi, both geniuses in your mind.

Scientifically, and empirically neither have been tested (physically) in any current IQ standard testing areas or facilities.  So, your judgement, and of others is from 'read' documents/text. My standpoint is that THAT IQ test also has areas of social adeptness AND common sense evaluation scores.  Both, I believe would score miserably low.

So, who knows more? me, you? or the man on the moon? 

Certainly not Verne or DaVinchi if measured by today's standards.

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Again, you seem to have no idea of the accomplishments of either man. You are showing how far from genius you are, how far from average you are.   


accomplishment = genius?  Show me the accurate testing of these two men.  If I choose to think they were radical nutballs, with great ideas, they have not been given the title of 'genius' by any scientist except by trophy-entitlement proceedure aka, we ASSUME they were genius.

btw, I was tested to have an IQ of 164 at university.  I can't tie my shoes either.  

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RE: Are you Psychic and how does this affect your relat... - 9/8/2007 7:49:55 AM   
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Questioning psychic claims does not promote ones career [...]


Would you say James Randi's career has not been promoted by questioning psychic claims?

Just wondering about this one point.

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RE: Are you Psychic and how does this affect your relat... - 9/8/2007 8:05:27 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LATEXBABY64


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ORIGINAL: chellekitty

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What exactly is an empath?  (Too lazy to google it). 


basically someone who feels other people's emotions




this happens a lot more then people know you can feel peoples depression. their joy even their sadness. you can see their history through their eyes If it is a strong connection like with a loved one which this is most common with. you can see where they are and who they are talking to



what you've described is empathy...which is a very valid and good thing...i love that i have empathy on top of my empathic abilities...it allows me to be concerned for others and relate to them without being vulnerable...

but, imagine being 12 years old and having your own emotions to deal with and then add on top of that that you're sitting in a room of 25 other 12 year olds and the room is buzzing with anxiety and depression and excitement and happiness and hunger (though a questionable word to describe emotion) but all fairly subdued....and then the bell rings, and you enter a hallway where at any given time there is no less than 4 people surrounding you, sometimes more...and you can feel each one of their adolecent emotions for the 1 to 2 seconds you are standing next to them or god forbid there is a traffic jam in the hallway and you are standing next to the kid with an ulcer or the kid radiating pissed off, and you are completely open to absorbing all these emotions...passing hundreds of emotion ridden adolecents....

i don't know what anyone else would do in this situation but it took me, maximum 2 minutes to get from class to class, with a bathroom break or a trip to my locker - i never did both...but we had 5 minutes to make the trip...i never stayed out there the whole time...at the end of the school day i was emotionally exhausted from all that bouncing....

i learned how to shut of the valve around that age...12 or 13...and it wasn't until i was 17 or 18 that i learned how to control the flow, before that it was either on or off...i would say it is my most developed ability out of necessity...the other abilities i have are not really anything i have seen much on developing...i can't tell the future, i can't move things with my mind, i can't do the "major" things associated with the word "psychic"...

another thing...people seem to want to comparmentalize religion, science and psychic abilities - and many more things, but for the sake of brevity in this post, these three - i see them all intertwined... the God of my understanding (mini-rant - i don't use personal pro-nouns before God, and i see many people do, but in my opinion, they lead to my God is better than your God feelings, and feelings are not rational so i like to leave them out of logical debates...end rant) anyway, the God of my understanding has infinite time and abilities and can be a part of each and everything that goes on, from the flower that blooms to the insect that has a 24 hour life span to the 12 strings theory (or whatever it is...i am not to up on advanced theoretical science...much more a hands on chemistry person...btw do you think the person who wrote that was a 12 string guitar player?)

and God has a hand in my psychic ability...he knew that my friend needed me to be there last weekend so he was my alarm clock, woke me up and said you have some where to be - some people would call that intuition...he gives me the ability to feel when a complete random stranger on the street is in distress and know exactly what to say to them to ease their mind - i have never been trained in psychology (unless you count years of unsuccessful therapy for myself)...infact, i have got up for no reason, walked half a mile to find these people that needed someone to talk to...no rhyme or reason...

and it could all be explained away by coincidence...but i don't believe in coincidence...if coincidence existed, i would not be alive today...i did too much shit, of my own will, that should have gotten me killed...by all accounts i should be dead, and yet i am here, typing this...by my own logical deductive reasoning, i have to believe that there is a devine being with a hand in my life...

ahhh what sleep can do for a person...i love sleep....
chelle

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RE: Are you Psychic and how does this affect your relat... - 9/8/2007 8:11:03 AM   
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"but don't you understand...the twue world only exists where he exists...the rest of use are un-twue... "

It was a joke.


so was that....

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