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Dichotomie -> RE: Beaten to a pulp? (1/3/2008 11:35:15 AM)
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Steelonme, thankyou for this thread, it has been very helpful for me.
I too have issues surrounding corperal punishment, due to it being used legally way back when schools still did have it as part of their disciplinary techniques in the third world country where I grew up..!!( I was very obedient as school, but one teacher did not spare the rod for even the angels of the class...not to mention we all hated history for years to come.lol)
It triggers reactions that have prevented me from enjoying it now in play or accepting it as a discipline. I have asked my master that he patiently guide me through this land-mine so that I may "un-learn" certain negative connotations associated with being whipped or the belt or any other type of recollection that is stereotypically school orientated....( I have successfully over the last 2 years accepted and enjoyed spanking and giving spanks during intercourse, and the nerve endings that link the buttocks to the whole pervic area DO increase the pleasure of penetration..)
If one considers that "pain" is just a signal to the brain that the body needs to prevent injury (too close to a flame, or bumping into something) and the multiple breakages those kids that are born WITHOUT any pain signals at all have, we are actually discussing here a purely biological mechanism, which we westerners thought was fixed and unchanging...but it is not..(Hynotism used in hospitals for operations is blowing this all out of the water in the western world....acupuncture is a fascinating art that functions on the system of nerves and how they send signals...)
Pleasurable touch is also a question of intensity, and all people (the skin being the biggest organ of the body) enjoy or do not enjoy certain stimuli.
For example feet tickling can put some to sleep, and have others wet their breeches, and that is in no way seen as an assault, but can be considered by some as INTOLERABLE. As kids, how often did we extract secrets from another kid by tickling them .lol.
Pressure on this organ (the skin) is a question of intensity. Just as light on the retina's or sound on the earsdrums and yes, sometimes watching the eclipse with naked eyes or going to a rock concert can cause permanant damage to some individuals.
But, listening to very loud music (or playing it) is the passion of some, despite the risk factor involved. To explore the very extensive nerve-endings under the skin,and the endless reactions that the skin sends back(to the giver aswell as the reciever) can be, and is for those who go on this journey, an endless source of fascination.
I was a masseuse by trade, before I became a slave, and the diversity of "sensitivity" of people is endless. I had clients that fell asleep as I pummelled their muscles, and others that spent the whole time cringing if I ran over the same spot more than two or three times...as their body would very quickly build up a resistance to the massage that would send a signal to their brains, and they would ask me to stop or move to another spot....
Each person is as unique as a snowflake (fascinating to know that there are not two snowflakes with the same crystalline formation !!) and we are each,either in a solo fashion, or with road buddies, on an exploration of the workings of our flesh, and or mind, weither it be in TPE or SM or any of the other endless conbinations chosen.
Question. How many different meals can be prepared with :eggs, milk, flour, sugar, salt, ....you will be amazed.
happy cooking everyone. and enjoy the cake asmuch as the baking of it . as we each add our own spices, that make us unique.
(I am in not in any way aboarding the subject of domestic abuse or street violence, as those are subjects that are quiet different from what I have tried to illustrate above. )
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