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RE: Are Switches more often Bisexual and Poly? - 10/19/2007 2:15:59 PM   
logicswitch


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I'm slowly leaning towards that. Why limit yourself in any area?

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RE: Are Switches more often Bisexual and Poly? - 10/28/2007 5:24:15 PM   
AZSweetie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: TNstepsout

What do you think? It seems to me I see a lot of Bisexual/Poly/Switch identification going on. Curious to know what others have observed.


Hmmm... I guess so maybe. I dunno. Never really paid attention. I prolly will now though. I myself am gayer than a box of fruity pebbles and I'm a switch. Not poly though.

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RE: Are Switches more often Bisexual and Poly? - 10/28/2007 5:49:42 PM   
CumHaveFun


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Status: offline 		I am bisexual, and a switch, but no longer poly per say.  I am sub to my husband, and dominant with the females in our lives, however, we have found that we dislike poly, in it's traditional meaning of "many loves".  We no longer choose to pursue love based relationships with other parties, but that doesn't mean that we are monogomous either.  I will say though I don't personally have an understanding of people who can play either role with the same partner or even within the same sexual orientation... but that's not a judgement, just something I can't understand because I most certainly could not.

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RE: Are Switches more often Bisexual and Poly? - 10/28/2007 7:14:30 PM   
morgainne


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Status: offline 		Bisexual
Wannabe Poly
Switch

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RE: Are Switches more often Bisexual and Poly? - 10/29/2007 6:29:26 PM   
azropedntied


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Status: offline 		Just to add my  vote here , I LOVE WOMEN  , not now nor ever will be bi , a freak yes , a kinky bdsm'er  ooh yes , resembles  a Switch  nods yesssss . just not bi  lol .

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RE: Are Switches more often Bisexual and Poly? - 11/27/2007 9:31:19 PM   
ViceVersa


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Status: offline 		My inclination is "no" - that each is a variable apart from the others. On the other hand, finding a compatible switch partner can be a challenge so I can understand how folks might top one person and bottom to another. Does that qualify as poly? Or is it merely a matter of necessity?

ViceVersa
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RE: Are Switches more often Bisexual and Poly? - 12/3/2007 1:21:50 AM   
twiztedup


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Status: offline 		personally, i am bi and i like poly and yes, i am a switch but this is gender-specific

however, i think that for a poly relationship to work either everyone has to be bisexual or everyone has to be homosexual otherwise someone is bound to get jealous or feel left out

*note: these are my opnions only

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RE: Are Switches more often Bisexual and Poly? - 12/3/2007 9:54:11 PM   
BiteGirl


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Status: offline 		I'm a Poly, Pan, Switch, yeah. 

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RE: Are Switches more often Bisexual and Poly? - 12/6/2007 12:00:13 PM   
Heartisan


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quote:

Why is it thou a Male Switch or a Male Dom being poly isnt greedy yet a Female Switch often seen as either confused she only needs a good flogging make her sub !!! or She is greedy wishing Poly
quote:

ORIGINAL: princess74

I was just reading this thread and I'm new, so may comment on some older discussions but I can't help adding my two cents lol.

I don't understand the double standard either, it applies to being a switch and also being bi.  Straight and Lesbian woman have had issues with me being bi as well... I'm confused, or I haven't met the right woman.  In a lifestyle where people fight to be accepted that they can be so intolerant of others.  The *my kink is ok, yours is wrong* attitude really bothers me and it seems pretty common at least here in Colorado.

Jewel

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RE: Are Switches more often Bisexual and Poly? - 12/6/2007 4:04:11 PM   
Heartisan


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quote:

heterosexual men lend a good deal of support to bisexual women, leaving bisexual men...well, flapping in the wind it seems.
quote:

ORIGINAL: Stephann

I have to say it cause no one else did....

I am in TOTAL support of bisexual men !!    Any need support, just let me know hehe.

I am bi, switch and poly... I don't care what anyone thinks but my Master really.   I just don't believe in limiting my options... sexy is sexy no matter what the equipment.  I don't think one person can give me everything I need, and well.. I'm a switch because I need to have something to do with that sassy side of me so I'm not constantly in trouble with Master.

Heartisan

Jewel

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RE: Are Switches more often Bisexual and Poly? - 12/7/2007 12:05:14 AM   
NimirRa


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Status: offline 		I identify as a switch and I'm neither bisexual nor polyamorus. Although I'm not completely opposed to women, I stick with the hetero name tag. 

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RE: Are Switches more often Bisexual and Poly? - 12/7/2007 2:35:45 PM   
Aneirin


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quote:

ORIGINAL: TNstepsout

What do you think? It seems to me I see a lot of Bisexual/Poly/Switch identification going on. Curious to know what others have observed.



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RE: Are Switches more often Bisexual and Poly? - 12/11/2007 2:41:13 AM   
HeavansKeeper


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Status: offline 		In my dealings I've found that those willing to dabble in both sides of power exchange are often not as influenced by a little thing like gender.

Then again, in my dealings I've found most bisexual females to be "lesbian+Brad Pitt"

O.o

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RE: Are Switches more often Bisexual and Poly? - 12/13/2007 9:47:51 AM   
tdslittlehelper


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Status: offline 		For me I think that being bi and poly and a switch just means that you are versital and open.  I think that I am only a switch when it comes to play as well as the bi thing.  

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RE: Are Switches more often Bisexual and Poly? - 12/15/2007 7:03:01 PM   
theryguy


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Status: offline 		I don't really get the big ruckus over the bi label. I tell people I'm bi but that's only because I generally don't look at gender in people, maybe it's just me ^_^

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RE: Are Switches more often Bisexual and Poly? - 12/16/2007 11:47:22 AM   
liketophoto


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Status: offline 		Seems switching is poly, but sometimes I just don't want to share.
Must be my D side comming out.....
Being Bi is taboo, breaking taboo is sometimes erotic, but constantly breaking taboo diminishes the taboo.
I have to think there is a good switch for me and I for her.
Respectfully, LTP 

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RE: Are Switches more often Bisexual and Poly? - 12/17/2007 10:50:30 PM   
HisRayne


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Status: offline 		I am personally very bi- poly andvery much a switch... :-)

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RE: Are Switches more often Bisexual and Poly? - 12/20/2007 7:26:17 PM   
erebus


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Status: offline 		No, I don't think so.  Gender attraction isn't the same as liking to play on top and bottom.

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RE: Are Switches more often Bisexual and Poly? - 12/21/2007 6:42:25 PM   
summerblossom


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Status: offline 		I'm definitly bisexual and a switch but certainly not poly!

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RE: Are Switches more often Bisexual and Poly? - 1/8/2008 10:27:31 PM   
patienceNYC


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Status: offline 		i've been lurking for a "minute" and haven't found that to be the case - most polys that i've encountered are monosexual and most biexuals that i've encountered are seeking monogamy - but i predict that the next generation will soon outnumber us in any alternative lifestyle -

also, i find it hard to believe that someone who is poly and
"anything else" could be called greedy - i'm pansexual, open to polyamory and a switch and i think that it is spiritually inspired - a religion of one love, love all and be love
quote:

ORIGINAL: arayofsunshine55
What I am mostly is flexible.  So it all depends upon my relationship.  I can do it all.  Don't have to do it all.  Can be quite happy not doing much of it.
well said!

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