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RE: Are Switches more often Bisexual and Poly? - 1/8/2008 10:50:40 PM

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i'm a lesbian, poly, slave.

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RE: Are Switches more often Bisexual and Poly? - 1/9/2008 8:53:40 PM

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proud poly pansexual lol

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RE: Are Switches more often Bisexual and Poly? - 1/10/2008 1:31:59 PM

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not bi though poly oriented.

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RE: Are Switches more often Bisexual and Poly? - 1/10/2008 1:54:06 PM

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Going to confuse everyone with my post here...

I am a monogamous bi switch. I seek to submit to men and I have one female that Tops me.
I do not seek to top other women though. I do love to hurt men.
I seek sexual monogamy. Other play partners are fine, but no sex of any sort(even oral) is allowed.
I think that about sums it up.

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RE: Are Switches more often Bisexual and Poly? - 1/14/2008 8:42:30 AM

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bi poly switch here, lets see sub to my lovely wifeymistress until her untimely end, dom to my 2nd hubby, swicth to 2nd hubby's and my gf, and pet to my lovely hubby/master with the occasional flirting here and there

those i know personally lean heavily towards bi and or poly, guess we all just want it all, lol

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RE: Are Switches more often Bisexual and Poly? - 1/14/2008 11:53:00 AM

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I agree with Stephan that bi men tend to be left out some of the time. Although, as a bi man, I find it bizarre that there are gays and lesbians who will not be associated with bisexuals. As for the poly/switch/bi thoughts, here are my two cents:

I think that folks that are bisexual are more equal opportunity minded when thinking about love and sex, which would lead me to believe that bisexuals would be more open to poly households. I identify as Dom, but do play the sub side about 5% - 10% of the time, but again, as a bisexual, I think I am open to more possibilities that someone that is not bi. Am I in a poly household? No I am not, but that is not because I am uninterested in such a thing, more that it is not something that my wife and I have a burning passion to create.

I think, in the end, that we go to what turns us on......and as I always say: "If you eat off both sides of the plate, you'll never go hungry."

Great question!

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RE: Are Switches more often Bisexual and Poly? - 1/19/2008 10:20:48 PM

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Getting back to TN's OP; I think that bisexuals have a greater tendancy to be "versitile" in their sexual expression. Once you get over the big barrier of gender, the other labels seem kinda trite... So, adapting yourself to a wider pool of potential partners becomes easier.

Yes, I'm greedy. I want as much of this as I can get, thanks... I only have about 75 years on this planet, after all... and there's 6 billion of us....

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RE: Are Switches more often Bisexual and Poly? - 1/21/2008 2:15:44 PM

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I'm bi and poly, but pretty heavily sub. (I get very occasional joy out of spanking men but I very much prefer being sub.)

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RE: Are Switches more often Bisexual and Poly? - 1/21/2008 3:08:13 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: TNstepsout

What do you think? It seems to me I see a lot of Bisexual/Poly/Switch identification going on. Curious to know what others have observed.

im just now playing on the bi side and im a switch that is mostly sub with M' Lord being a switch mostly dom so i guess its just theperson and personally im not doing poly for a while i almost got screwed in to being a third in a household and it was getting worse thank god im out of there and M'Lord takes good care of me

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RE: Are Switches more often Bisexual and Poly? - 1/24/2008 5:32:31 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: TNstepsout

What do you think? It seems to me I see a lot of Bisexual/Poly/Switch identification going on. Curious to know what others have observed.

This is the ask a SWITCH section and Im a switch...In fact Im all three...a bisexual poly switch...Im also pagan....its all normal in my world...I have many friends who are all three...many couples....and singles...
It does not seem to be the normal here though...
IMO....Pamela

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RE: Are Switches more often Bisexual and Poly? - 1/24/2008 5:34:49 PM

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ORIGINAL: Phin

hetero here and the jury is still out on poly.

Bi-Poly-Switch = greedy

Just because you cant pull it off...Jealousy is no reason for you to be an ass hole to the rest of us who can....:)my 2 centsPamela

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RE: Are Switches more often Bisexual and Poly? - 2/5/2008 2:30:26 PM

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i'm greedy too; more possible partners = more possible ways of getting off.

i've never subbed for a man, doubtfully ever; it's not verylikely, but I won't rule it out.

it isn't just about the number, gender, and role of people; there are other variables to consider as well: where they shop, what they wear, the sound of their voice, what they cook for breakfast...for me, other variables take a higher priority on that (everchanging) list of priorities.

this is the postmodern era, and with that comes the recognition that frequently there are exceptions to rules, and being a switch is a way of saying "i like being an exception, i am an exception more frequently than others, and and strive to be an exception in the future."

or maybe, "i hate rules"

or, "i can't make up my mind".

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RE: Are Switches more often Bisexual and Poly? - 2/6/2008 3:26:27 AM

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hmm maybe not greedy but definitely not so choosey. I am poly-but not a swinger , bistingy (ok so thats where I am choosey) and a switch. I don't think its bad.

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RE: Are Switches more often Bisexual and Poly? - 2/6/2008 11:41:45 AM

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Well I'm poly, switch and bi, for me it just seems to make sense. For as long as I can remember I've seen my grandmother basically live a poly lifestlye with her 7 ex husbands so becoming poly was a pretty easy step for me, then I became bi after finding a man who I wanted to be more than freinds with. The bdsm came in last with me first identifying as a domme with some fantastic partners then I met a lady who made me quake and re-evaluate who i was and what i was looking for. What can i say, if being all three is greedy then greedy I am!

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RE: Are Switches more often Bisexual and Poly? - 2/8/2008 4:02:31 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Phin

Bi-Poly-Switch = greedy

Greedy Yes! Bi NO!

I'm poly because I haven't found a partner that enjoys switching. I might still be poly even if she did. *big grin* But for now it's simply necessity.

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RE: Are Switches more often Bisexual and Poly? - 2/8/2008 8:57:23 PM

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Fine, I'm greedy.....so punish me! or I'll punish you, woohoo!!!

I'm also very lucky to be in a relationship(s?) where I get to be all at once in the same bed!

thank u God

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RE: Are Switches more often Bisexual and Poly? - 2/8/2008 10:45:12 PM

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FAST REPLY [which is to say, to no one in Particular:]

I am absolutely hetero,
and require my playmate as well, to be strictly hetero.

Just my small % to this thread

Edited to Add: Poly is... possible.

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RE: Are Switches more often Bisexual and Poly? - 2/11/2008 10:45:53 PM

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I use to identify with that. and No Im not greedy as for me the attraction has every thing with who the person is rather than their parts. Then I finally concluded that I may like to be spanked and floged and wanded ect... but it better be my way. So now I say I am a Bi Poly Dom..... I also think that people focus on the sex part of Bisexual. I may be a slut but I am an ehical one.

Anyway I am glad to see more people be open about their sexuality. I does not mean that we do not have morals or ethics or lie, cheat, steal. sleep with anything that moves. It just means we have alot more choices. :)

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RE: Are Switches more often Bisexual and Poly? - 2/12/2008 3:36:36 PM

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MK I think you hit on somthing. I won't sleep or play with just anyone, and I have always established a friendship ahead of time. I do have mulitpul partners, but they are all women I very sincerely like, as friends, and I find very sincerely attractive. Most important, they all except the way I am... I don't lie about being poly. But each one is special to me. Not just some "slut" who will give me some, and if you took away the sex the friendship would and has still remained.

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RE: Are Switches more often Bisexual and Poly? - 2/21/2008 7:04:13 AM

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Im switch and bi/ - so far fairly mono though....teehee....am open