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toilet training - 7/17/2005 2:03:03 PM

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I’m new to being a slave or submissive and I have a mistress that I’m slowly getting to know. I'm interested in experiencing toilet training. When I asked her if she would train me, she said that it’s a very dramatic and exciting experience. She said that perhaps I should take it slow and start with something like a simple golden shower. She also went on to say that it’s a total mind f***k and once you do it, you'll never be able to stop. She seems a bit reluctant in introducing me to it. Like I said I’m new to this whole thing and I don’t know anything really about this lifestyle. Could you please tell me why it’s such a big deal? Should I be fearful of it? In your experience, what happens to the men that have under gone it? Also, how can I get her to believe I’m ready for it?

Thanks,

Phillip

RE: toilet training - 7/17/2005 2:29:10 PM

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ORIGINAL: kannis1

I’m new to being a slave or submissive and I have a mistress that I’m slowly getting to know. I'm interested in experiencing toilet training. When I asked her if she would train me, she said that it’s a very dramatic and exciting experience. She said that perhaps I should take it slow and start with something like a simple golden shower. She also went on to say that it’s a total mind f***k and once you do it, you'll never be able to stop. She seems a bit reluctant in introducing me to it. Like I said I’m new to this whole thing and I don’t know anything really about this lifestyle. Could you please tell me why it’s such a big deal? Should I be fearful of it? In your experience, what happens to the men that have under gone it? Also, how can I get her to believe I’m ready for it?

Thanks,

Phillip

How well do you know this woman? This is in real life? How long have you been in a femdom relationship with her, and do you also have downtime where you relate as friends?

Without knowing that, it's hard to say. She might be avoiding the act with you for a variety of reasons. She might think you are pushing her and topping from the bottom. She might want to do things at her own pace. She might just be adding a little melodrama and tension to drive your curiosity. What you need to do is have a frank conversation with her, not as submissive/Mistress, and find out where she stands.

If I were just starting out with someone new to bdsm and they starting asking me for golden showers and toilet play, I'd tell them to back off also. First, it's not all about what you want -- especially if you are new and haven't even had enough experiences to start meshing with her and having her get what she wants. Is this one of those situations where a sub told a femdom he was an open slate, ready to experiment, open to anything "just for her" and then on the second date said "When can we do some toilet play?"

She will want to go at her own pace.

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RE: toilet training - 7/17/2005 2:53:47 PM

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I've known Fem Doms who do this.

Unless she is a pro,it's more likely that it's a very intimate thing with her.

I know it is with myself,and female slaves. You haven't established enough of a connection with her yet-be patient.

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RE: toilet training - 7/17/2005 5:53:11 PM

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Yeah, I think you two are right. It's probably me wanting to move to quickly. Thanks for the advise.

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RE: toilet training - 7/17/2005 8:31:38 PM

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I would read the experiences of George Jewell

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RE: toilet training - 7/18/2005 11:29:52 PM

ToiletSlaveinLA

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As a fully functional toilet slave of many years, I can agree with your Mistress that it is a total "high" for both the Mistress and the slave. The excitement of the power exchange involved when the Goddess uses her slave as her complete toilet is like nothing else I have ever experienced. And yes, it is compelling and so sacred that you do want to do it again and again, even on a daily basis.

Also true, as another writer suggested, it is a very intimate act, and one that should be engaged in with someone you are crazy about and delighted to be serving. Ideally, the woman you serve as a human toilet should be your Goddess in every way possible, and you her treasured slave.

My advise is to focus your attention on her and her desires, Serve her and please her and be the best slave you can be to her. She will, in observing your behavior and obedience, decide how best you can serve her. If that includes serving as her toilet, then lucky you. Be grateful when that happens. It is a sublime gift and great honor to be used in that fashion by a Woman.

Good luck! :)

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RE: toilet training - 11/6/2005 10:04:29 AM

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I am a lipstick lesbian who has done toilet services for my Mistress. There is nothing more humiliating and exciting that serving her in this manner.

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Gina Marie

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RE: toilet training - 11/7/2005 6:32:03 AM

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i am a 36 lesbian slave and i serve my mistresses as toilet since i was 18. I agree nothing is more humiliant, hot and excitent than it. I love to come while she is squatting over my face and use me whit indifference like a toilet...i love it

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RE: toilet training - 11/9/2005 8:01:06 AM

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Is it just peeing? or does your mistress poo on you too?

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RE: toilet training - 11/9/2005 8:19:26 AM

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I like to consume both and consider it a great honor to be a mistresses toilet.

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RE: toilet training - 11/10/2005 6:46:42 AM

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Not meaning to be disrespectful and I'm judging no one but doesn't consuming faeces make you ill? I have drank my masters pee before and found the whole thing rather erotic but poo is quite another thing.

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RE: toilet training - 11/10/2005 3:53:31 PM

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Not meaning to be disrespectful and I'm judging no one but doesn't consuming faeces make you ill? I have drank my masters pee before and found the whole thing rather erotic but poo is quite another thing.

Definitely not a healthy thing to do.

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RE: toilet training - 11/11/2005 1:52:29 AM

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This Scat debate is always doing the rounds,about the dangers,etc.
I get fed up explaining that no ive never become ill,it took some getting used too granted,but i am healthy and fine.
Read some of the previous messages on Scat and ToiletSlaves,if you dont want to do something you dont have to do it.
I havent been ill,so i dont take notice of so called experts telling me otherwise.

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RE: toilet training - 2/28/2006 8:37:27 PM

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hello as a novice will have to say i have had it done to me as well is very powerfull wonderfull an the perfect acceptance of her power an yes i love fresh from her holi fountain an or showerd its an honor an prvillage to accpet an to lick her clean after

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RE: toilet training - 3/1/2006 11:13:50 AM

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hi to new slave guy.... Being peed on by ones mistress is amazing hot wet fun the pros will happily oblige but when playing these games with your girlfriend she may tense up and be self concious and not be able to let go we usually "close the door" Licking her clean is fun too. Stay away from scat VERY unhealthy. Good Luck

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RE: toilet training - 3/4/2006 5:03:30 AM

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The best toilet slave training program I know is by ScatPeePrincess at alt.com She is the true Master of toilet slaves. You might want to check her out there.

MXD

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RE: toilet training - 3/5/2006 12:03:54 AM

AdyBa

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Hi Manuela !!

Glad to find you here.
I understand you have experience in this thing ?

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ORIGINAL: manuela

i am a 36 lesbian slave and i serve my mistresses as toilet since i was 18. I agree nothing is more humiliant, hot and excitent than it. I love to come while she is squatting over my face and use me whit indifference like a toilet...i love it

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RE: toilet training - 3/5/2006 2:45:50 AM

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drg how do you know years and years from now your kidnies will not fail from constant misuse of them. What doesn't hurt you now may in a few years. IT's like obesiety, while being fat now won't hurt me in 5 years if I am still fat I could get diabeties. or develope medical conditions from being fat,

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RE: toilet training - 3/5/2006 4:17:08 AM

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The humiliation and excitement of being peed on, trated as a toilet is a very powerful experience, one that you never will forget, or want to forget. As for scat play, the health risks are just to high to even consider this type of play. For those who have done it and haven't yet gotten sick, my suggestion is to head to your nearest bookie and place the biggest bet he will allow on the longest shot he has, because you are obviously very lucky indeed.

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RE: toilet training - 3/5/2006 6:20:07 AM

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I think golden showers and scat are something that are pretty personal, I mean what Mistress is just going to let "anyone" down there, especially someone she's only getting to know. I think first things first you both need to go somewhere fairly quiet, have a coffee, and talk at length about your kinks, and each other's expectations. I realise that a great many of you live in this fantasy world, where the domina would never "discuss" anything with you, but that is not real life, and it's not that safe either.

As for the scat debate, some people are just never going to get it, like it, or think that it is a safe, or sane thing to do. Personally, if I'm healthy, no diseases, and my diet is fairly good, then what comes out of me can surely be recycled through my slave..

By the way, a lot of women can't even pee, let alone poop the first few times they try it with someone new...some women are used to doing it in private, behind a closed door, and the thought of actually squatting over someone (they just met) might just freeze up the plumbing completely...

By the way, the above, it's just my opinion..

Ms Nichole.

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