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RE: Heritage or Hate? - 9/19/2007 7:07:27 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Sweetberry
As for "black on black" oppression in Africa, how is it any different from Asian, middle eastern, or western Europe oppression of the past and present?

It isnt, but its existence seems to have got lost in the PC shuffle.

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I think it's a little unfair to assume that just because everyone's the same race, they should automatically get along.

Its more than just not getting along. Inter tribal killing is a "sport" in Africa. Even as we speak
Again the PC cardsharp shifts that fact to the bottom of the pack.

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RE: Heritage or Hate? - 9/19/2007 7:22:30 AM   
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No it is not an assumption

Assuming someone is trash or a complete and total "asshole" without ever speaking with them or hearing them speak is an assumption and a very uninformed one at that.
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People out here have already told you that they find it to be offensive and they have given their reasons

Yes.  They have their reasons.  People have their reasons for being offended at millions of things each and every day.  That doesn't mean that anyone who doesn't share their views is an automatic "asshole." 
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Based upon what that few inches of fabric symbolizes to them....A swastika does not have to be "large" for some people to have a reaction to it

I knew someone would type that line when I wrote my original response.  Makes sense, of course.  Personally, I think it's faulty logic to say that the Confederate flag is absolutely comparable to a swastika.  I believe they don't exactly represent the same thing. 
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As far as grouping some people as "rednecks" or "white trash" would be based upon the fact that they understand that some people will be offended by the wearing or displaying of the confederate flag....But they care not....I have the ability to judge them on that merit anyways I see fit.  What's so hard to understand about that?

There is nothing hard to understand about it.  Of course, you can judge anyone however you see fit.  We all do everyday.  I just think it's a bit short-sighted to see someone at a hundred yards away, see a symbol and, without ever really encountering the person in any way, make up my mind that they are trash or an asshole not worth even acknowledging.  That's just me.  And if understanding that someone will be offended by what you're doing and doing it anyway makes you "trash," oh boy, you better take an inventory.  You have made your reputation on these boards by offending others.  No, not by displaying a Confederate flag on your account.  But by many other ways.  Don't get me wrong.  I've written many times that I think you should be a stand-up comedian.  I usually appreciate your sense of humor unless it's just totally mean-spirited at the time.  But, my point is, you offend and you do it purposely.  Does that then make you trash simply because of that?  I don't believe so. 
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Your lack of an ability to stay within the confines of an argument without making broad sweeping generalizations has always amused me

Now this statement really blows my mind.  You are absolutely wrong on this point.  I would love specific examples.  I can't stay within the confines of an argument without making sweeping generalizations?  Give me a break.  I can show you post after post where I specifically argue AGAINST such generalizations.  You must be confused. 
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I said people who choose to wear the flag or promote it run the risks of being viewed as rednecks or white trash...They might not care how I feel...They probably will never know. I am judging only those people who partake in a certain activity...If this is a "whole group" of the population who chooses to act in this manner...then let me make it clear to you...I think they are assholes

Apparently, they run the risk of "being viewed as rednecks or white trash" regardless of what they do.  If you are willing to hang the label of "trash" on another human being, I'm sure there are many reasons not just because of a shirt they wear.  You say you are "judging only those people who partake in a certain activity" as trash.  As I said before, that's a slippery slope.  Whenever there's a list of what activities make another person "trash," that's scary to me. 
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And yeah the thought of them being rednecks or white trash might just cross my mind....Now whether I thought the were "poor" would depend on the model and year and possibly the upkeep on the truck in question....The shirt is much harder to judge...Probably some cheap tshirt....Is it 100% cotton or is it a blend?   Does the kid wear a mullet....Does he say "ain't" and use double negatives?...Is he the offspring of 1st cousins? Does he live in a trailer?  To difficult to ascertain all of that data from one tshirt

This is a perfect example of the type of ignorance that keeps popping up.  Just because someone drives an old truck, has a mullet, uses improper English, and lives in a trailer, that means he's inbred trash?  As I say in all of my "sweeping generalizations," there is no way it would be tolerated to perpetuate such ignorant stereotypes against any other racial group here in these forums.  If you sat down and talked about poor black men by listing negative assumptions like these, you'd be a horrible racist.  You really would.  Yet somehow, when the poor man is white, it's hilarious to make fun.  Why can no one else see how wrong and ridiculous that is?  I guess because we live in a society where poor white "trash" is still the only group that it's not only accepted to make fun of but considered funny.  Thanks Jeff Foxworthy
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This is probably one of the lesser comments I have ever seen posted

Wow.  Quite a dubious distinction.  My observation is that bad?
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...So I see someone wearing "the lovely confederate flag"  I have a choice....Ok. this person could either care less that many will be offended by wearing such a shirt, is actually glad they will be offended, or is so stupid that the thought never even crossed their mind......I am judging this person specifically for what they are wearing and yeah they are either some sort of callous piece of shit or they are so fucking stupid that they are not worth my time

That's probably it.  They should have considered domiguy's thoughts before they dressed that day.  Bad redneck, bad.
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Now, If they were wearing a Jeff Gordon tshirt I would figure they still had a lil' redneck thang going on....But not necessarily trash...Alot of pretty affluent people for some reason get a kick out of NASCAR....How I weep for the future.

Your biases are showing.  Just because you don't like NASCAR doesn't make it a "trashy" thing.  But, by the way, if you want to use the word "trash" to describe those with poor taste and bad habits, many of the richer classes certainly qualify.  Class can't be bought.  It would make for wonderful reading to see just where your distinctions are made.  What does one have to do to cross that line in the sand between the "lil' rednick thang" and becoming full-fledged poor white trash?  Never mind.  I really don't want to know after all.
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Now because some white folks choose to garnish the rebel flag does not reflect poorly on all white folks

I know.  I never, ever thought or said it did.  And it certainly doesn't reflect poorly on all POOR white folks.
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Is that too much for you to handle?  I could type it slower or larger if that would help

Obligatory "funny," rude remark inserted here, of course.  No.  It's not "too much for me to handle" since I have been saying exactly the same thing.  No need to type slower.  Just because I'm a white girl who grew up kind of poor in a trailer in a WV holler, that doesn't mean I can't wrap my little ole mind around your pointed put-downs.  I get it.  Unfortunately................luci

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RE: Heritage or Hate? - 9/19/2007 7:23:08 AM   
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The fact that some people claim a non-existent Civil War heritage doesn't support your insinuation that anyone offended by the racist message implicit in the 'Rebel' flag display, is needlessly playing the race card.


The claim, <Civil War origin of the Confederate Flag> came from your link posted in opposition to my views.
I agree totally that some who display the Flag do so with suspicious motives.but not all.
Again this point is supported in your link.

Also the point you make is coming perilously  close to the view that racism is in the eye of those who consider themselves as having been the victim of ......racism

Some time ago it was suggested that this outlook be incorporated into UK law. There was a major kerfuffle, all has gone quiet so I assume the PC brigade have at least seen some sense.


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RE: Heritage or Hate? - 9/19/2007 7:24:48 AM   
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Okay, i'm one of those "damn" yankees who moved to South Carolina after having been raised a Swedish-decent Lutheran in Minnesota... was raised to see racism as an atrocity and the N word held equal punishment in my childhood home as saying the F word. i was taught only the ignorant and the crass would think or talk like that.

One of the first things i noticed when i moved here is that EVERYthing is race related and that it is nearly a crime to be caucasion or non Baptist. My UMs were called "white boy" and "white girl" every single day even by teachers and bus drivers. My daughter's best friend was not allowed to even come to our house because we are white and the friend was black. Recently a hiring decision i made at work was challenged by one of the internal applicants and the FIRST thing the HR director asked me was if the woman i hired was black. Had i hired a white person i would have had to make a written statement to defend that decision. Luckily i hired a black woman.

i can honestly say that 95% of the racism i've experienced since i moved here has been hatred toward whites.

The problem with symbols is that any symbol can be offensive to someone. Doing away with one symbol and another takes its place. Maybe a certain amount not taking symbols so seriously coupled with being more sensitive to others would result in more tolerance. Maybe seeing people as more alike than different would help. Name calling has never been productive.



Being from South Carolina, I have to comment. I'm a black female and my family has always been here, with the obvious exception. I don't find it hard to believe that black people where you are are probably suspicious of you. They probably hold opinions about you based on your race. The family that won't let their little girl come over may suspect that you're not unlike Catholic priests and that you rape little children. Two strikes: non-black, non-Baptist. Try to think about how they may be seeing things. I'm sure life, as far as race relations goes, hasn't been a skip, hop, and a jump.

Speaking from my own experiences, if every time I said something to a white person, they looked like they were about to jump right out of their skin, I'd assume they were racist on some level. Are you sure you're not one of these types? You're not racist and you don't say nigger, but you have some reserves anyways? Watched a little too much television in your childhood and walk around with preconceived notions that may project too brightly? If that's the case, then no wonder.

I'm not saying you're wrong or that this is, in fact, the case. But I think it's a little more than just "Oh gee, the black people hate white people!" Besides that, what agency do they really have to do anything to you? Nothing, basically. Your thing at work? I'm sure that was hurtful, but imagine how jaded someone would have to be to always be thinking that their skin color is a handicap? Imagine how sad an existence that must be? How pathetic?

So, the moral is, next time you feel so threatened by their sideways glances or their kids not coming over to play with yours, have a cook out and invite some of your neighbors over. Before you're white, you're a stranger anyways. How can you be sure they know you? It helps to be objective in all cases.


i do understand what you are saying about being a stranger first.  i am somewhat offended by the tone that oh yes i must be racist, even just a little bit, i just don't know it or admit it.  Is it even possible that someone could not give a rat's patoot about color?  I was taught by my parents and my Church that the Creator loves variety in nature and that whatever has been created was made for the Creator's love and enjoyment and that even the mosquito has a purpose in the grand scheme of things.  Human Beings are the greatest of creations. Period.  I never gave it one thought growing up that people would not come in different sizes, shapes, colors, and that all have something to give to humanity.  I guess that sounds a little racist?  my problem is... i don't get it.  The whole concept is foreign to me.  Do i know how it feels to be judged by color alone?  Yes, by golly, i DO as i have gotten to experience it first hand.  Does it make it racism and bigoty okay?  Does there always have to be a "them"?  Why can't we just be people?  Don't we all have the same basic needs? 

In my opinion, when we allow a symbol, doesn't matter what it is... a cross, a triangle, a circle, a flag, a finger.... to cause us to react in a negative fashion then we are letting that symbol have power over us.  i choose who and what has power over me and hope only to choose wisely.

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RE: Heritage or Hate? - 9/19/2007 7:43:05 AM   
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ORIGINAL: HotFaerieMama
as as white southern girl who grew up in a trailer went to schools that are diverse i was called every name in the book and i think it is stupid and wrong to make assumptions of someone based on what they wear or look like i do not judge at all untill i have met them and actually know them. i do wear shirts with dixie on them does that make me "white trash" or an "racist asshole" no it does not. if i wear a malcom x shirt would that mean that i am racist against my own kind no it dosen't making judgements based on what you see and not getting to know the person is really stupid. i would know i've had it done to me my whole life.

Well you should be grateful that now you know better....Because many people who see you wearing your cute lil' dixie shirt will think that you are an asshole or white trash and never take the time to speak to you....So they will never have the pleasure to find out  just how "special" you truly are...Why even allow yourself to be put into that position?  No need to thank me....Just trying to keep you all up on how people actually think in the real world.

HotFaerieMama,
I totally understand what you are saying.  If a black girl had gone to school and been called names solely because of her race,  it would be called vicious racism (which it is).  However, you being white and all.....not to mention Southern and living in a trailer.....whatever you get called is probably true, huh?  There's no way to convince some people that it's just as wrong to call people "white trash" as it is to say the "N" word (a word so bad you have to call it only by it's first letter).  It's horrible but "white trash" is cute

Anyone who can even bring themselves to call other people "trash" has some real issues to begin with as far as I'm concerned.  How you can decide that it's ok to defend some groups' rights to not be offended but attack others with such ugly terms is beyond me.  Selective thinking, I guess.  Anyone who thinks you're an "asshole" or "trash" based upon a shirt is someone you probably wouldn't care to know anyway.  No need to thank me.  Just trying to let you know how some of us out here in the real world think.  Not everyone makes an authoritative decision on another human being by the t-shirt they wear...........luci

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RE: Heritage or Hate? - 9/19/2007 8:33:12 AM   
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ORIGINAL: seeksfemslave


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The fact that some people claim a non-existent Civil War heritage doesn't support your insinuation that anyone offended by the racist message implicit in the 'Rebel' flag display, is needlessly playing the race card.


The claim, <Civil War origin of the Confederate Flag> came from your link posted in opposition to my views.
I agree totally that some who display the Flag do so with suspicious motives.but not all.
Again this point is supported in your link.

Also the point you make is coming perilously  close to the view that racism is in the eye of those who consider themselves as having been the victim of ......racism

Some time ago it was suggested that this outlook be incorporated into UK law. There was a major kerfuffle, all has gone quiet so I assume the PC brigade have at least seen some sense.




As I recall, in many of your 'kerfluffles', the silence has all been on your end, after one or another of your intolerant assumptions has been refuted..NO?

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RE: Heritage or Hate? - 9/19/2007 10:51:55 AM   
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The problem is (and I come from a southern upbringing) that those who see the Confederate Battle Flag as a heritage thing have failed to protect it from being coopted by those racists who have been using it as a symbol of racisim.
The shear numbers of KKK and other white supremicists who have been using it outweighs the ones who have maintained it as a matter of respect for the bravery of the soldiers. We those who would love to believe it is a symbol of bravery of the soldiers who in no small measure were non slave owners, and were fighting for in large part states rights vs federal government power, have unfortunatly waited and watched too long as the Confederate Battle Flag has been perverted.
I'm afraidd it has been neglected too long to recover it.

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RE: Heritage or Hate? - 9/19/2007 11:44:47 AM   
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Edited as i messed the quotes up.

Somewhere around 60,000 English convicts were transported to America before the revolution. Afterwards some 160,000 were sent to Australia and as to the Caribbean.

The Puritans were banned from being able to worship in England and the ones that left Plymouth had originally fled to Holland. So zealots or not, they still fled due to persecution.

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RE: Heritage or Hate? - 9/19/2007 11:51:22 AM   
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Lets not forget the white indentured bonded servants that founded the early America,Clearing the forest, planting crops,A horrible long 7 years to earn their freedom...Just a thought...bounty

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RE: Heritage or Hate? - 9/19/2007 12:03:16 PM   
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Many had only committed minor crimes though Bounty. Originally the convicts were not indentured and had no chance of freedom. Some settlers agreed to be indentured in return for free ships passage as well.

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RE: Heritage or Hate? - 9/19/2007 12:06:22 PM   
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This is true but most of the convicts were sent down under.....With Europe the way it was then I would have been temped myself..

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RE: Heritage or Hate? - 9/19/2007 12:06:45 PM   
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Edited as i messed the quotes up.

Somewhere around 60,000 English convicts were transported to America before the revolution. Afterwards some 160,000 were sent to Australia and as to the Caribbean.

The Puritans were banned from being able to worship in England and the ones that left Plymouth had originally fled to Holland. So zealots or not, they still fled due to persecution.


There the ones I was talking about. They were too damn intolerant to stay in a country that tolerated freedom of religion. In England they were seen as trouble makes for their intolerance, intolerance was the root of their problems in England. They were INTOLERANT!

And still are!

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RE: Heritage or Hate? - 9/19/2007 1:01:19 PM   
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I agree with Archer's post. I personally do not view the flag of the Army of Northern Virginia to be offensive, because I know that it isn't the actual Confederate Flag.

However, the flag of the Army of Northern Virginia has been hijacked, and essentially stands for something completely different than what it was originally a symbol for. So I can understand how people would view this particular flag as offensive, and it will most likely never shake the stigma that has been attached to it.

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RE: Heritage or Hate? - 9/19/2007 1:07:36 PM   
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I've found this thread interesting too.

What I take from it is that I am in fact totally in error, or at least out of step with most people and therefore possibly subject to some psychopathology in that symbols dont offend me, and I see it as poor manners to deliberately set out to offend.

This is very useful to me, as I can now take action to remedy my state of mind.

Hence, from this moment forward I shall no longer treat Christians as anything more than scum. Hence, from this day on I shall take great offence at displays of Christian symbols, and possibly report those displaying them should they not remove them immediately from sight.

Because, I shall from now on, not see in such people an attempt on their part to live the life they choose, nor in such symbols the result of centuries of dedication to a way of life nor displays of allegiance to that way of life. Instead, I shall see the symbols of violence, destruction, torture, outlawry, persecution, slavery, sequestration, vandalism and murder, perpetrated against my people under them. Instead, I shall see the sort of people who would visit such violence, destruction, torture, outlawry, persecution, slavery, sequestration, vandalism and murder upon me and my family. Just because these people arent doing this right now, doesnt mean they wouldnt. In fact, reading up on them, I see that many of them admit to a strong dislike for the traditions and ways of my people, so there's little holding them back.

Thanks to all who contributed to my enlightenment on this issue.

Apart from any who are f'in Christians of course, or wear that accursed crucifix.

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RE: Heritage or Hate? - 9/19/2007 1:20:52 PM   
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It seems "tolerance" has become a vague term to be utilized and thrown about without any actual understanding of its definition. Tolerance is not to be employed as matter of convenience or political correctness, it must be employed universally despite what the State or the Individual believes. Personally, I think it is poor taste to utilize the Confederate flag for anything other than historical purposes, but it falls under freedom of expression. While I may find a person's motives for displaying the flag curious, I do not automatically condemn them. Havinf lived in India for almost 2 yrs, I became acutely aware of the ubiquity of the swastika, a prominent symbol in Hinduism. Obviously, for a Westerner, the association with Nazism was still lingering in my mind, but that was clearly not the intention of those displaying the symbol. Instead of making knee jerk judgements, perhaps we should assess the individual's motives and reasoning before condemning them. I believe that is a hallmark of "tolerance". As ridiculous as it sounds, I doubt anyone would harbor any ill sentiments towards the Dukes of Hazard and the General Lee, an amusing icon of the 1980's.

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RE: Heritage or Hate? - 9/19/2007 1:25:22 PM   
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Skipping all the pages of what is probably heated debate: I will just say that my opinion has always been that kids should go to school to get the education which will allow them to get the diploma they are seeking. Dressing or acting in ways to celebrate their heritage or beliefs or hobbies, whatever, is fine, but should be done in their out of school hours.

My son is an avid hunter and fisherman, and given his choice, would dress the part at all times. But I don't allow him to wear camo clothing, or T shirts which depict firearms, or dead animals, because 1. it does not serve a useful purpose in his education, and 2. it could very well be considered offensive to others. I have, many times, given him a last lookover before he leaves the house for school, and sent him back to change his shirt.

The thing about school is, kids just love any excuse to divert time and attention away from study. Kids just love attention and drama, period. So, for that reason, I am in favor of enforcing dress codes which do not present so many opportunities for drama. Kids should be learning how to function in society as adults. When they (hopefully) graduate, they will be entering a work force, and will have to learn to work in harmony with co-workers. It is to their benefit to learn now that some things are appropriate for work (or school), and others are best kept for their own time.

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RE: Heritage or Hate? - 9/19/2007 1:34:39 PM   
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well...

don't you ever wonder where the black/African-Amerian people are during these discussions that clearly touch on racial issues?

i certainly do.

i'm black (see my name).  my ancestors were slaves in this country.  the confederate flag symbolizes those who fought and died to preserve the institution of slavery.

the confederate flag is as offensive to me as a black man as the swastika is to a jewish person.

it's that simple.  point-blank.  the end.



I made it to page two and pondered the irony of people who are not black saying whether they are offended by the Confederate flag, although I did appreciate DomKen's perspective on it.

I'm a black woman and I consider the confederate flag offensive and it does absolutely color my opinion of the person who wears or flies that flag (and they absolutely have the right to fly the flag as I have the right to be offended by it).

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RE: Heritage or Hate? - 9/19/2007 1:42:38 PM   
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There are different types of Rebel flag wavers, Below a few exmples:.

1) Those who truly feel a connection to their Southern heritage. No race issues in their way of thinking. Keep in mind to some Southern flag fans, this is a reminder of an era that the littler and  younger Southern brother popped big North brother in  the nose one good time and bloodied it. Pick on someone long enough and they will pop you in the nose and bloody yours too.

2) Silly looking Ole Miss fans

3) KKK/ skinhead types who wave it for the sole purpose they know will get attention and piss off exactly who they wish to piss off. A psychological warfare to agitate their intended targets.

There are other factors as well. For the most who wave the Stars and Bars it is about being a Southerner and nothing else. No desires to overthrow D.C. or begin another Confederacy . No desire to burn crosses or hang people outside their so called race. Just a simple celebration of what it is like to be from the South in general. Kind of like how Scots and Irish wave their heritage flags in the UK. 

And for those who allow themselves to fall prey to that KKK intended mentality, you have already lost your fight to a piece of cloth. Ignore the thing and it loses its power over you. You choose to give the flag power over yourself by being upset at its existence. KKK types deliberately count on just that reaction and some give them exactly what they want, an "I am upset over that flag"  reaction.. How ironic in the 1990s, (I forgot the exact year) the KKK gathered in the streets of Memphis to start their typical troublemaking speeches and slurs and sure enough it got out of hand with police intervention and small rioting. The sad joke? Most all of those particular Klansmen were from Ohio and Pennsylvania. Not even SOUTHERN!!  Who laughed at who that day?  Northerners waving a rebel flag got their jollies by rousing up the Memphis black population because they knew the results were inevitable.

Basically this is flag controversy is about deceiving a group of people into jumping through hoops and wanting them to feel ashamed about being white or Southern in general. Obviously it doesnt work very well either. 

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RE: Heritage or Hate? - 9/19/2007 1:54:32 PM   
Blaakmaan


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OK, here goes:


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ORIGINAL: Termyn8or

Slavery was not the main issue in the civil war, in fact some southern states had already aboished it, Florida at the very least. But there were more. They were in fact "federalizing" in the north and expected the states to just go along with it. After the civil war, certain things happened, first of all an amendment to the national Constitution was ratified, the civil war was perfect to get rid of this problem. This was called the Titles Of Nobility Act.




Sorry, Termyn8or.  Slavery was, absolutely, the prime cause of the Civil War.  That's not just my opinion, it's historical fact:

    Slavery was undoubtedly the immediate fomenting cause of the woeful American conflict. It was the great political factor around which the passions of the sections had long been gathered--the tallest pine in the political forest around whose top the fiercest lightnings were to blaze and whose trunk was destined to be shivered in the earthquake shocks of war. But slavery was far from being the sole cause of the prolonged conflict.

http://216.109.125.130/search/cache?ei=UTF-8&p=civil+war+causes&fr=ytff1-&u=www.civilwarhome.com/gordoncauses.htm&w=civil+war+causes+cause&d=cHK-1_4-PQok&icp=1&.intl=us

Additionally, I think you have your facts wrong.

I don't believe that Florida, or any of the states that would become part of the Confederacy, abolished slavery at any time before they were forced to by the passage of the 13th Amendment to the Constitution after the Confederacy lost the war:

Slavery was one of the most divisive political issues in the Congress of the United States in the early 19th century. Many Congress members from the Northern states pressed to end slavery, both because it was considered immoral and because white labor could not compete with unpaid black labor. Members from Florida and the other Deep South states believed that slavery was essential to their cotton-based agricultural system and that the North was trying to dominate the national economy.
By the 1850s, Southerners saw their power slipping in Congress, the clamor by Northern abolitionists—those who wanted an immediate and total end to slavery—was at a high pitch, and many white Floridians came to believe that secession from the Union was the only way to protect “Southern rights,” including the right to own slaves.

After South Carolina seceded from the Union in December 1860, Florida’s proslavery Democratic Party demanded the state’s immediate secession from the Union, and in January 1861 Florida officially seceded. The next month, after seven states had seceded, they organized as the Confederate States of America and began mobilizing for war. The American Civil War began officially on April 12, 1861, when Confederate artillery bombarded a federal fort in the harbor of Charleston, South Carolina.
http://216.109.125.130/search/cache?ei=UTF-8&p=florida+slavery&fr=ytff1-&u=encarta.msn.com/encyclopedia_761557601_13/Florida.html&w=florida+slavery&d=Tz4YLf4-PYBi&icp=1&.intl=us


If I'm wrong, show me!



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Don't take what I said as a given. Actually DO the google searches I suggested and then talk to me. For 40 years before Lincoln's election there was talk about disunion. But it was about tariffs that taxed imported goods the south needed while similar taxes on the industrial north were lax or absent. Wouldn't you fight being singled out like that? It was about Federal laws coming out that (arguably) violated state autonomy. It was about a fundimental disagreement of the interpretation of the constitution. But yes you are right. The slavery thing was the tipping point. But alot lead up to it. To suggest that southerners were all happy and dandy til Lincoln stopped by is just stupid. Also I'm not sure how many 'reputable historians' you know but please provide us readers with links so we can see your references.

Lastly your closing statement is of particular interest.... "And, anyway, whatever the truth of your point may be," (because you didn't actually search it, and dismiss the possiblity that I have a point) .."the Confederate flag certainly doesn't stand for resistance to the exploitation of southern resources by the north, does it?"... That's the part you dont get. Yeah, it does.That's the history that makes it the "rebel flag".

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ORIGINAL: Blaakmaan

OK, ChicagoSwitchMal.  Let's take what you said as a given.

If Lincoln hadn't won the election of 1860, sparking southern fears that slavery would be contained or even abolished, would the southern states have attempted to seceed because of "the exploitaton of southern resources by the north"?

I think not.  And I don't know of any reputable historian who thinks so, either.

And, anyway, whatever the truth of your point may be, the Confederate flag certainly doesn't stand for resistance to the exploitation of southern resources by the north, does it?



ChicagoSwitchMal







OK, ChicagoSwitchMal.  I'm not here for you to give me assignments!

If you want me to see the "evidence" that you believe supports your arguments, you do the Google searches and you present them!  Like I did, above.

Don't expect me to do searches to find out what in the hell you're relying on to prove your point!  You do the work!



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The confederate flag symbolizes those who fought and died to preserve the Constitutionally guaranteed power of the individual state control over centralized federal control.

Slavery was not ended until 2 years into the war, only in the states in rebellion, and only because France and England refused to assist Lincoln in his war until he outlawed slavery.

Try to keep the facts straight about the war of secession in the United States.

Slavery in the United States was outlawed after the war.


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ORIGINAL: Blaakmaan

the confederate flag symbolizes those who fought and died to preserve the institution of slavery.



Sinergy



Now, this is absolute, total, utter BS!

The Emancipation Proclamation only applied to the States then in rebellion against the government of the United States.  It was only effective in those areas in those States that were then under the control of the Union Army.

Of course slavery was outlawed after the war!  Until the Confederacy was militarily conquered, the federal government could not enforce anything in those states!  Just how could it have been otherwise???

England and France did not enter the war on the side of the Confederacy precisely because Lincoln's Emancipation Proclamation made the war  a war against slavery instead of a war against secession.  Had England and France seen the war as you frame it, they might well have entered the war on the side of the Confederacy.  But they didn't.

Nobody calls the Civil War a "war of secession" except die-hard Confederates.  Is that you?

How about you try to keep your facts straight???


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ORIGINAL: HotFaerieMama

as as white southern girl who grew up in a trailer went to schools that are diverse i was called every name in the book and i think it is stupid and wrong to make assumptions of someone based on what they wear or look like i do not judge at all untill i have met them and actually know them. i do wear shirts with dixie on them does that make me "white trash" or an "racist asshole" no it does not. if i wear a malcom x shirt would that mean that i am racist against my own kind no it dosen't making judgements based on what you see and not getting to know the person is really stupid. i would know i've had it done to me my whole life.




Your "if i wear a malcom x shirt would that mean that i am racist against my own kind" comment only demonstrates your ignorance of Malcolm X and his beliefs.  Malcolm X certainly (and justifiably, in my view) excoriated whites for their racism, and their horribly racist deeds.  I wouldn't, myself, consider Malcolm X to be a racist.  I think it's clear that he wasn't a racist by the time he died, if he ever was. The Malcolm X you're talking about is a caricature of the real thing.

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

I didn't say it wasn't offensive to some people.

Merely that it is wrong to prevent someone from doing something ONLY because someone finds it offensive.




However, LuckyAlbatross, the question that spawned this debate was is a confederate flag t-shirt offensive.  Not, is it right or wrong to prevent someone from wearing a confederate flag t-shirt because it's offensive.

And the answer is, yes, it's offensive.  To me, its very offensive.


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ORIGINAL: SeeksOnlyOne

it amazes me how much a hot button issue this is.......and i respect each persons opinion....

but ill stick to mine-the south is where i am from, i love all its strangeness and symbols, i dont get offended when called a redneck, as i am secure enough in who i am for it not to bother me.  this is a subject that no one will change their minds on....

if someone saw me wearing a shirt from the local hunting store-that had a rebel flag hangin behind the deer on it-and decided that makes me an idiotic hillbilly-that is their choice....and id bet theyre not someone id enjoy being around anyhow.  everyone doesnt like everyone-aint it great we can all be different in this country?

this is totally out in left field-and im sure ill get flamed at for it but here goes...

wiitwd offends many......wear some symbol of it and some would look at you and think thats an abuser or a slut....if the symbol had the press of the rebel flag....they would look uopn you and assume you were a horrible person, deviant, wacko, pick yer moniker....

this symbol (collar, pin, shirt, wtfe) means to you i am happy with who i am and not ashamed of it.  but they cant see youre a great mom or dad, work 50 hours a week and volunteer at a homeless shelter-only a symbol of your perversion....so therefore you are evil and not worthy of their time.........

i am offended by pants that hang low enough to show the boxers the man is wearing.....the cop that came to talk to the kids at my school told them it began in prison, as symbols of availability to homosexual sex.....another cop said it began as a protest by men in prison who were mad they didnt get pants that fit them when issued a jail uniform......therefore, all men making this fashion choice must be ex cons......i shall start running when i see them and assume theyre dangerous....

thats logical huh?




Actually, it's offensive for you to compare the offense you might feel at somebody's pants hanging below their waist to the offense I and many, many others feel at the Confederate flag.  That just demonstrates that you don't get how offensive that flag is.

Think "swastika."  For some reason, that's a lot easier for some of you to understand...

As far as symbols of BDSM are concerned, I don't think most people would be offended by them--they'll just think you're weird!



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ORIGINAL: seeksfemslave

I have found this a very interesting thread....a couple of points

Strange how some, who presumably oppose "racism", can use comments like white trash.
The Flag is a symbol and it is not possible to know what are the motives of those who display that symbol simply by viewing that display Is it ? Swastica excepted

The US civil war was basically about Union and Political Control of the Economy, but because the Southern economy was agricultural and used slave labour that fact was used as an emotional club to further the North's cause.

The Brit. economy suffered by the blockades imposed by the dastardly (lol) Northerners and in fact we came close to intervening on the Confederate side. We wanted to get our own back after earlier "mishaps"

To Domiguy in particular I was talking about the oppression of Black on Black in Africa which is still happening as a matter of fact.




Again, you can get the swastika, but you can't get anything else...

As far as black-on-black oppression in Africa is concerned, yes, it certainly exists.  But, don't feel special about that!  White-on-white oppression has existed in Europe since there's been a Europe!  Let's not forget Serbia, Yugoslavia, and Kosovo!



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ORGINAL: NeedToUseYou

I think I'm pretty much immune to most symbols anymore. Burn the flag if you want to, by the manner in which you burn it, and the statements before and after it should be pretty clear if you burned it out of hate or frustration. Wear the rebel flag, it should be be plenty clear if you are wearing it out of pride of southern heritage, or because you hate blacks soon enough. Wear baggy jeans, and prison inspired fashions, it should become clear pretty rapidly if you idolize criminals or just have a bad sense of fashion quick enough. Speak of Black Pride, or White Pride, and shortly enough it become clear if you mean Black/White supremacy or if you mean pride in our races past.

Most symbols and or words do have more than one meaning and even common slogans can mean different things to different people. However, the people that are just as bad as racist, IMO, impose their single meaning of the symbol on to all of those that may use that symbol. That is nearly the same as racism in my view. The arguments based on history break down at a certain point, as symbols meanings aren't cast in stone.

A swastika is still pretty universal in its meaning because of the shear volume and constant use in a consistent manner via media portrayals. The southern flag well, there are several valid meanings to it, along with other symbols.




Once again, you get the meaning of the swastika, but somehow everything else is ambivalent!

Speaking as an African-American man, that Confederate flag is the functional equivalent of a swastika!

Just let me say this:  If you pulled up in my neighborhood (or even worse, to my house!) bearing that Confederate flag, you would do well to be a fast runner!



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ORIGINAL: eyesopened

Okay, i'm one of those "damn" yankees who moved to South Carolina after having been raised a Swedish-decent Lutheran in Minnesota... was raised to see racism as an atrocity and the N word held equal punishment in my childhood home as saying the F word. i was taught only the ignorant and the crass would think or talk like that.

One of the first things i noticed when i moved here is that EVERYthing is race related and that it is nearly a crime to be caucasion or non Baptist. My UMs were called "white boy" and "white girl" every single day even by teachers and bus drivers. My daughter's best friend was not allowed to even come to our house because we are white and the friend was black. Recently a hiring decision i made at work was challenged by one of the internal applicants and the FIRST thing the HR director asked me was if the woman i hired was black. Had i hired a white person i would have had to make a written statement to defend that decision. Luckily i hired a black woman.

i can honestly say that 95% of the racism i've experienced since i moved here has been hatred toward whites.

The problem with symbols is that any symbol can be offensive to someone. Doing away with one symbol and another takes its place. Maybe a certain amount not taking symbols so seriously coupled with being more sensitive to others would result in more tolerance. Maybe seeing people as more alike than different would help. Name calling has never been productive.




Well, you're a white man, aren't you?  Just how would you "experience" white hatred toward blacks???



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ORIGINAL: Politesub53

This wasnt the case prior to the revolution. More white people were indentured servants, ie white slaves, than black people. Most left their homelands due to religious persecution or because they were convicts. Here in the UK if you were caught stealing to feed your family, the choice was " Do you want to hang or be removed to the Colonies " Guess which people " Chose" The founding fathers left England not for a better life but to escape persecution.

As far as the flag is concerned, it`s a bit of a generalisation to call everyone displaying it white scum.




"Indentured servants, i.e., white slaves"???

There were fundamental differences between indentured servants and slaves!

An indentured servant willingly entered into his agreement to serve his or her "master" for a definite period of years.  In exchange for his or her service for those years, an indentured servant received free passage from Europe to America.

An indentured servant could, after the indenture was completely served, go on to be a property-owning (even a slave-owning), voting, full member of society. Often, at the end of his or her service, an indentured servant received his or her own plot of land to work.

Does that sound like slavery as blacks knew it in America?  I don't think so!

While an indentured servant's period of indenture was settled and finite, a slave served his or her master until the day he or she died!  While an indentured servant's status did not pass down to his or her children, the child of a slave was, by definition, a slave.  A slave's status as slave was inherited, and a slave could not escape his status until he was freed by his owner, or was allowed to purchase his freedom, or escaped from slave territory.  The status passed down, from generation to generation, in perpetuity, until slavery was abolished!

An indentured servant had rights.  As the Supreme Court famously ruled, a slave had "no rights a white man need respect."

So, let's not talk about indentured servants and slaves as though the two statuses were equivalent, ok?

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ORIGINAL: Archer

The problem is (and I come from a southern upbringing) that those who see the Confederate Battle Flag as a heritage thing have failed to protect it from being coopted by those racists who have been using it as a symbol of racisim.

The shear numbers of KKK and other white supremicists who have been using it outweighs the ones who have maintained it as a matter of respect for the bravery of the soldiers. We those who would love to believe it is a symbol of bravery of the soldiers who in no small measure were non slave owners, and were fighting for in large part states rights vs federal government power, have unfortunatly waited and watched too long as the Confederate Battle Flag has been perverted.

I'm afraidd it has been neglected too long to recover it.



Now, that's an interesting post, Archer!



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ORIGINAL: IvoryMaster

It seems "tolerance" has become a vague term to be utilized and thrown about without any actual understanding of its definition. Tolerance is not to be employed as matter of convenience or political correctness, it must be employed universally despite what the State or the Individual believes. Personally, I think it is poor taste to utilize the Confederate flag for anything other than historical purposes, but it falls under freedom of expression. While I may find a person's motives for displaying the flag curious, I do not automatically condemn them. Havinf lived in India for almost 2 yrs, I became acutely aware of the ubiquity of the swastika, a prominent symbol in Hinduism. Obviously, for a Westerner, the association with Nazism was still lingering in my mind, but that was clearly not the intention of those displaying the symbol. Instead of making knee jerk judgements, perhaps we should assess the individual's motives and reasoning before condemning them. I believe that is a hallmark of "tolerance". As ridiculous as it sounds, I doubt anyone would harbor any ill sentiments towards the Dukes of Hazard and the General Lee, an amusing icon of the 1980's.




It may surprise you, but I always had a problem with a television show where the stars drive a car called the "General Lee" emblazoned with a red confederate flag on the hood!  I know who General Lee was, what he fought for, and what that flag represents!

However, because Daisy Dukes had such nice legs, I was in a forgiving mood...



The question was is a confederate flag t-shirt offensive?  I think you can see from the posts on the subject that it is, at least to many African-Americans.

To me, that case is closed!

If you don't want to see that, I can't make you, and I wouldn't bother trying.  You'll see what you want to see, and you won't see what you would prefer not to see!

With respect to many of you, I can't help but wonder, why it's so damned hard to see what's right in front of your face?










   

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RE: Heritage or Hate? - 9/19/2007 2:04:07 PM   
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It is perhaps far better to keep one's banner in a box and be thought a fool, than to fly it for all to see and thus remove all doubt.

Dont suppose many will get that one, but hey, Ron gets away with coded remarks of similar nature.

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