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Stephann -> RE: "We need to talk....." (9/19/2007 7:17:41 PM)
Dammit, I'VE been worrying all day about her too! I didn't consent to being put through this either.[:@] Hope it goes well Ghita. Stephan

grlneedstolearn -> RE: "We need to talk....." (9/19/2007 7:18:48 PM)
i feel the same way, but it's usually something that i've done or that i don't know what i did. And yes it messes with my day as well, nervous and anxious is how i get.

WinsomeDefiance -> RE: "We need to talk....." (9/19/2007 7:30:08 PM)
I'm feeling kind of silly sitting here and waiting for Ghita to come back because I'm worried about her.

bandit25 -> RE: "We need to talk....." (9/19/2007 7:33:16 PM)
Silly, but sweet.

heartcream -> RE: "We need to talk....." (9/19/2007 7:35:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GhitaAmati So....if your Sir/Top/Master/SO of any sort called you from work during the middle of the day to say "when I get home we need to sit down and talk" would you get worried? I asked if I did something wrong and he said no, he still loved me and I hadnt done anything wrong but something was bothering him and it was a serious discussion that he needed to have with me. AAAAAAAAARRRGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHH I want so badly to sit back and go..ok, he said it was nothing bad I need to keep treating my day like normal, but in all honesty all I really want to do is crawl into a dark room and cry. Yes I know that makes me sound a bit immature and insecure...but I always get weepy and over-emotional during this time of the month and after a rather hectic weekend filled with some drama and an emotial rollercoaster we had to ride out with some friends (or not so friends) of ours....my head is spinning.... So yea...Im gonna be whiny and ask for someone to just placate me and pat my head and tell me everything is gonna be ok.... Hey...at least I admit it when Im being irrational. ghita~ going off to cry can be a good thing, a very good thing. no one has to see you, no one has to know, but ya get to discharge some of the emotional build-up and get to some real relaxation, not some mental type, where you tell yourself to calm down. the difference is when you allow yourself to not judge yourself as immature or any other word cuz your feelings is jumping up and sit with them, allow them they have many things to teach. we are all insecure about something or other no matter how 'confident' someone appears to be or even says they are. there is no reason to shame yourself or anyone else for these feelings either.

Bearlee -> RE: "We need to talk....." (9/19/2007 7:51:13 PM)
I hope she asks him to read this thread!!! <sigh> I'm worrying too...

DiurnalVampire -> RE: "We need to talk....." (9/19/2007 7:52:22 PM)
At least I am not the only one waiting to see what Ghita comes back and tells is it was all about.

WinsomeDefiance -> RE: "We need to talk....." (9/19/2007 7:56:57 PM)
I'm starting to think after this, we are going to have to form a Ghita Chapter of White Knights Anonymous. Hello. I'm Charlotte A. and I'm a worrier.

earthycouple -> RE: "We need to talk....." (9/19/2007 7:58:04 PM)
Ghita? Darlin girl....ya gotta keep us informed!

secretagentgirl -> RE: "We need to talk....." (9/19/2007 8:06:00 PM)
Just a random stranger here wanting to make sure you're OK. And hoping it wasn't too bad.

SolarAndViolet -> RE: "We need to talk....." (9/19/2007 8:06:11 PM)
I always thought "We need to talk." was roughly translated as "You need a lawyer." -S

completenz -> RE: "We need to talk....." (9/19/2007 8:12:51 PM)
hon so here i am, sitting at work, in another part of the world hoping that all is ok with you. i have always enjoyed your posts and seeing the part of you that you share with us. You are gorgeous hon take care of yourself kiwi hugs chrissie

angelic -> RE: "We need to talk....." (9/19/2007 8:14:45 PM)
~FR~ ok after reading the thread... does anyone know how she is????

NefertariReborn -> RE: "We need to talk....." (9/19/2007 8:59:24 PM)
This is as bad as who shot J.R. The suspense is killing Me. If He tells her something banal like "I've decided where Wwe're going for vacation," I'm going to die of laughter.

camille65 -> RE: "We need to talk....." (9/19/2007 9:08:27 PM)
It's the middle of the night for me, I woke from a nightmare and thought I'd see how it went. It's hard not knowing and worrying a bit!

cuffnspankme -> RE: "We need to talk....." (9/19/2007 9:34:39 PM)
Worried about you Ghita, but I am sure you are asleep now and will let us know in the AM what went down. hugs and kisses for you to wake up to

BossyShoeBitch -> RE: "We need to talk....." (9/19/2007 9:41:52 PM)
Ghita, Here's hoping the talk was that the couple who left mad this weekend sent your Sir a bill for the hotel room and gas...

favesclava -> RE: "We need to talk....." (9/19/2007 9:54:54 PM)
hope all's well with you Ghita. HUGS HUGS HUGS

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: "We need to talk....." (9/19/2007 10:11:59 PM)
Unless it's immediately followed by a "No, it has nothing to do with you, it's just work stuff" or "I'm really not sure about our relationship and want to try and talk it out later when we're together" then no, it's not a cool thing to say. It's something you want to avoid anyway, but sometimes you really do just need to let the person know they need to cancel an outing for the evening for a serious talk. But you don't just say "We need to talk" you say "We need to talk about X because of Y."

ocilla -> RE: "We need to talk....." (9/19/2007 10:51:33 PM)
Holy shit Ghita! Someone saying that to me would totally not fly. I am kind of tough but that situation would make me do things that would lead to a serious talk wit ramifications. Now thinking...of all the details, lots going on in your life and works been grueling lately.... So yeah, he just needed to choose his words better - a "talk" is not always a bad thing - think about going to pick up the car the other day when you left the company and had a talk....that worked out rather well. So communication - he needs some and you do too - you will have to let him know that the "we need to talk" phrase being left over a series of hours is counterproductive. Let him know how best to manage you....Yall can work out how to adjust the phrase, come up with something different so that it is not so loaded. Ghita I'll send good juju too (juju is one of my nicknames so my juju is the twue stuff) although like Cuffs and BSB I am sure all is passed and you are snug in you Sir's arms sleeping away. Thinking about ya - you are an awesome partner - I mean you mowed 3 acres just the other day through hell and high grass and broken belts and still managed to plan and inspite of all odds have a wonderful weekend. ;-)

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