worththeeffort
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Joined: 6/4/2007 Status: offline
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"We need to talk" should be striken from people's vocabularies. It 's just one of those things no one needs to say. Either there's some terrible news they're gonna drop on you or it's nothing and they're just a dingbat, and gonna let you dangle on those words, not realizing it's gonna drive you nuts til you know what it is. (Apologies for calling your Toppy-type a dingbat) If someone uses the "we need to talk" line on me, they have to tell me what about, right then. i don't care who it is. If whatever it is, is SO important, tell me now. There's no reason to tell me ahead of time that we need to talk at a later time, if we can't talk about it right then. All it's gonna do is make me crazy, and by the time we actually talk, i'm no nutso, i can't have a sane conversation about anything. "Hon, we need to talk about something, but I won't tell you what right now. I just wanted to let you know, that later we're going to be having a conversation." noooooooooooooooo!!! ~kitty (sorry, that got a little ranty/babbly right there, this is one of those things that just drives be batshit)
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