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RE: Guilt - 9/25/2007 9:05:39 AM

MistressDolly

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ORIGINAL: Twice

I just need to talk to people who understand how frustrated I am right now.

It's only been a few days, but I am ridiculously sick and I can't do anything for my Dom at all. He's been having to do everything for me, actually, since I can barely even sit up. Another Dom friend of mine told me something to the effect of "this is what we sign up for, just relax and let Him take care of you," but I still feel horribly guilty. I'm sure He's going to get on here and read this and tell me it's all okay and everything, but that doesn't change the fact I feel horrible that I can't let Him play with me or do anything for Him or make Him happy.

Anyway, I just needed to vent to people who understand. I just... feel inadequate to Him right now.

Don't stress yourself out - you can't be perfect all the time :)

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RE: Guilt - 9/25/2007 9:12:03 AM

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It was incredibly inconsiderate of you to get sick....What a weak, useless and selfish subbie you must be....If I were your Dom I would throw you into a shelter until you got better. People who have the nerve to get sick are perhaps the most vile humans you could find on the planet.

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RE: Guilt - 9/25/2007 9:12:16 AM

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As Dominants we expect to care for our treasured possessions......so let him do so!! If he didnt treasure you he wouldnt do this.

You have to be healthy to serve him ... and accepting his care of you is part of becoming healthy .. its all a balance.

Would you deny him his desire to care for you ? I didnt think so <smile>

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RE: Guilt - 9/25/2007 9:19:25 AM

MstrSkyWoIf

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ORIGINAL: Domin8tingUrDrmz

Perhaps your Master is happy caring for you right now. Instead of the self-pity consider this does make him happy. Not that you are miserable and sick, but that he can also do for you...he doesn't have to, he wants to...so let him.

I agree 100% speaking for myself I take great satisfaction when I can be there for my sub/slave when she needs something from me be it she jest needs to talk or is sick and needs me to care for her for a change. remember this is a relationship and real life and in being so it is not always about you caring for him. We as Masters have a responsibility to care for our property at times as well. So let him take care of you and when your better show him how much you aprechiated it by doing something special for him.

If you think about it you probably would not feel as you do about being sick if he was the type of Master who acted as if your being sick was an impression so be happy you have a Master who is not so self centered it is all about him and enjoy making him happy letting him care for you for a change knowing it is what he wants to do not what he has to do.

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RE: Guilt - 9/25/2007 10:07:46 AM

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When you get sick, your only responsibility is to get well. A submissive in a relationship with me--beyond how I feel about her--represents an investment of my time and training. When the car breaks down I don't expect it to carry me to and fro in its usual fashion; no, it has to be repaired, and if it takes a few days then it takes a few days. Get better, and do the work you can only on what you are able to if you feel up to it. You'll get better eventually, and we take things from there.

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