sarbonn
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Joined: 3/23/2004 Status: offline
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I was communicating with a female dominant through email. She had contacted me, so I wasn't trolling anyone or anything. We communicated for several days, and we were asking all sorts of personal questions of each other, but nothing really all that intimate (her questions were a lot more personal and intimate than mine as I try not to go overboard looking like some horny net geek). At one point, she wrote me, bluntly, that she didn't think we were compatible because she didn't think I was real or serious. I asked why, and she said something along the lines of "a real submissive would have asked me for a picture by now." And then she cut off further communication. Okay, this is a first for me, but am I supposed to turn into something I'm trying to avoid in order to be taken seriously? I mean, it didn't matter whether or not the relationship went anywhere, but we were having such friendly conversations, and it seemed strange to be cut off because I wasn't going out of my way to get pictures. I wouldn't have thought much about it, but in a few other conversations, I've had women tell me that even though their pictures show how attractive they are, they are looking for someone who isn't intersted in them based only on their looks. This has come from women I've never seen before, have no idea what they look like, and never even hinted about looks in any way, shape or form. I'm wondering if maybe there's some strange picture archive somewhere that they expect most submissive guys to know about, and that I'm automatically assumed to have perused that archive before ever communicating with them BEFORE they contacted me the first time. It's just kind of strange. I'm wondering if maybe I should just learn to become a HNG because it seems to be expected of me anyway.
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