TiNeedsHouseboy
Posts: 145
Joined: 4/24/2005 From: Big Apple blossom blown to The Windy City Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: onceburned In other words, vanilla is the opposite of kinky. quote:
LadyAngelika replied: For the record, I use the word vanilla here at times though I try to avoid it and use non-kink. I find people fling the word vanilla around way too much. People talk about their kink life and their vanilla life. I included "vanilla" in my profile as a qualifier, to let readers know that I'm not merely focused on scening... that there's more to me than a seething cauldron of libido. In actuality, I don't even tote around a self-perception of being kinky or dominant. Those are externally imposed labels. I just consider myself me. Because I don't turn what's labeled "dominance" on and off, it's part of the package for anyone who interacts with me. That does not mean I'll share my libido with any Tom, Dick (lotsa dicks dropping onto my doorstep) or Harry. ~ Ti ~
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