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bethclaire1 -> RE: When should one cut all ties? (10/9/2007 1:13:54 PM)
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ORIGINAL: girlygurl
OK, so here’s the deal. Master and slave have a relationship that is nothing less than tumultuous. Master has released slave not once but twice in less than a year. The last “release” came after slave threw a fit due to choices Master made with regard to another sub. Shortly after release, ex-slave sends message to ex-Master and his sub that she has an infection and has been tested for STD’s, and she “suggests” they get tested. ex-slave states she will let them know what the test results are. Time passes…. sub asks slave “did you get the results back from your test?” slave responds, “have you been tested yet?” again, sub asked, “did you get the results back from your test?” and again slave says, “have you been tested yet?” sub communicates the obvious game slave is playing (cause she’s pissed at ex-Master) and sub removes herself from said game. slave proceeds to communicate in so many words that she is not going to tell ex-Master or sub what her test results are. AND (with a little prodding) slave fesses up that she’s playing ex-Master and this “getting tested” crap is all a game!
Of course there’s lots of detail that’s been left out, as they are sure to bore you all. Bottom line….. slave is contacting ex-Master again. She’s depressed, needs a friend??? Who knows…. Question. Where does one draw the line when playing the part of a concerned friend? Should the sub keep her mouth shut and not saying anything to Master of her feelings of this “trouble maker” ex-slave?
As a bystander who has heard alot of nonsense from this relationship, I feel as though the truth lies in the middle, but far away from Girly. You'll notice she kept sending messages to the slave. slave was told not to have any contact with sub and the sub knew that. Sub was the one who was jealous that the slave was taken back and worked daily to break them apart. When the Master didn't step in (and after slave caught him lying about it), slave finally realized he wasn't who she thought he was and ended it. If it was me, I'd end the friendship part too (liars disgust me), but it's not, so the bit of a tie remains.
Girly has been asked to stay out of slave's business, to not mention slave to others (so she goes to a munch that both are attending and tells slave's business to anyone who will listen), and never contact slave. She disobeys all of that and posts to this forum a bunch of lies and half truths to get some attention, then emails slave a bunch of nonsense. What sub seems to need is professional intervention and something else to fill her time. And to get tested. Hell, if i was in that sort of relationship, and i can't see myself going there, i'd get tested frequently, unprotected sex with a partner who has multiples that he doesn't tell you about is just spooky. There was a vaginal bacterial infection and then a yeast infection and either could be transmitted through sexual contact, though neither could really be called an STD.
I hate stepping in here, but my dearest friend is hurting and in a very difficult place. She is very private about her sexual life, well, actually about most things, and to have her dirty laundry aired and further covered in the filth of lies is more pain than she deserves, or than anyone deserves. I will never understand why people post things that seem to have no purpose but to hurt someone else and draw attention to themselves.
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