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RE: Why is Punishment not seen as Abusive? - 10/1/2007 8:38:18 AM

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Damn, and me without my passport. Guess its back to the land of screw-ups for me. Actually, thank god for the fallible. Perfection is boring.

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RE: Why is Punishment not seen as Abusive? - 10/1/2007 8:52:13 AM

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I'm sorry, Bob. But I simply cannot take you seriously any longer. You've gone beyond the boundaries of a sad lonely man who simply wants to find love, into the realm of an egotistical bully, summarily dismissing and insulting people who do not bow, cow-tow and worship your overblown and unrealistic arrogance. When and if you are capable of engaging YOUR intelligence and setting aside your OWN ego, I might find you someone I could enjoy discussing a topic with. I wont' hold my breath, however.

I do still wish you the best, and while I can't agree with you - nor would I wish to even try - I have no ill will.

I just find you, amusing.

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RE: Why is Punishment not seen as Abusive? - 10/1/2007 9:00:10 AM

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I'm sorry, Bob. But I simply cannot take you seriously any longer. You've gone beyond the boundaries of a sad lonely man who simply wants to find love, into the realm of an egotistical bully, summarily dismissing and insulting people who do not bow, cow-tow and worship your overblown and unrealistic arrogance. When and if you are capable of engaging YOUR intelligence and setting aside your OWN ego, I might find you someone I could enjoy discussing a topic with. I wont' hold my breath, however.

I do still wish you the best, and while I can't agree with you - nor would I wish to even try - I have no ill will.

I just find you, amusing.

And you figure people come to this thread to watch you and your freinds heckle me?

I'm really not going to miss anyone who finds that to be "mature", Charlotte.

Public heckling makes determination of maturity quite easy: those who join in have none.

So don't feel in any way inhibited by my statements. Heckle away.

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RE: Why is Punishment not seen as Abusive? - 10/1/2007 9:01:25 AM

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Oi vey

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RE: Why is Punishment not seen as Abusive? - 10/1/2007 9:02:49 AM

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wow, you are so full of surprises WD.

your middle name isn't Mass, is it?

LOL
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RE: Why is Punishment not seen as Abusive? - 10/1/2007 9:06:01 AM

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Right now, I'm feeling like my middle name is ...ahh never mind! But no, I'm not massively defiant, in general.

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RE: Why is Punishment not seen as Abusive? - 10/1/2007 9:06:58 AM

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the idea was it would then be WMD...........'cause I could kinda see that.....nobody gets me-----
*sigh*

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RE: Why is Punishment not seen as Abusive? - 10/1/2007 9:10:17 AM

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I don't get you, but you keep dodging me because I wont' give up "that crap about switching" if you'd just hold still, Ron I could catch you!

By the way, I do rather like the whole, W.M.D....playing doctor could be fun.

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RE: Why is Punishment not seen as Abusive? - 10/1/2007 9:12:37 AM

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(hears a latex glove snap and W.MD saying,) Bend over Bob, and cough.

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RE: Why is Punishment not seen as Abusive? - 10/1/2007 9:21:23 AM

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To the audience at large:

I am wondering how much of a role the d/m's ego plays in choosing the punishment paradigm.

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RE: Why is Punishment not seen as Abusive? - 10/1/2007 9:23:22 AM

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I don't get you, but you keep dodging me because I wont' give up "that crap about switching" if you'd just hold still, Ron I could catch you!

By the way, I do rather like the whole, W.M.D....playing doctor could be fun.

I am thinking about beating that fucking switch outta you, and getting on with my life, I will get you an ant farm to run or something.......

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RE: Why is Punishment not seen as Abusive? - 10/1/2007 9:25:08 AM

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Shush, Bob. I'm still trying to find that item lodged up there......If I can just get a good grip I may be able to ....ohh wait. Never mind, that's your ego and it would have to be removed surgically. Sorry.

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RE: Why is Punishment not seen as Abusive? - 10/1/2007 9:27:47 AM

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You are too good to me, Ron (beams). If the switch could be beat out of me, I'd probably be the first in line for it. Please don't get me anything that needs to live outside of its natural environment. I kill all potted plants and ants in antfarms....

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RE: Why is Punishment not seen as Abusive? - 10/1/2007 9:30:55 AM

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To the audience at large:

What does the d/m get out of choosing the punishment paradigm?

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RE: Why is Punishment not seen as Abusive? - 10/1/2007 9:32:17 AM

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quote:

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ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance

I'm sorry, Bob. But I simply cannot take you seriously any longer. You've gone beyond the boundaries of a sad lonely man who simply wants to find love, into the realm of an egotistical bully, summarily dismissing and insulting people who do not bow, cow-tow and worship your overblown and unrealistic arrogance. When and if you are capable of engaging YOUR intelligence and setting aside your OWN ego, I might find you someone I could enjoy discussing a topic with. I wont' hold my breath, however.

I do still wish you the best, and while I can't agree with you - nor would I wish to even try - I have no ill will.

I just find you, amusing.

And you figure people come to this thread to watch you and your freinds heckle me?

I'm really not going to miss anyone who finds that to be "mature", Charlotte.

Public heckling makes determination of maturity quite easy: those who join in have none.

So don't feel in any way inhibited by my statements. Heckle away.

Nobody comes to this thread to watch people heckle you bob because nobody is that interested in you. You have displayed the maturity and logic of demented goat so far. When you grow up and get back to living in the real world instead of this fantasy land you are living in then perhaps you can discuss things in a reasonable manner with people that actually live this lifestyle day to day.

You have shown yourself to totally misunderstand the human character. If you really want someone so perfect then I suggest you get yourself either a blow up doll or some robot becuase NOBODY in this world is perfect. Not even you much as you would like to think you are.

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RE: Why is Punishment not seen as Abusive? - 10/1/2007 9:34:01 AM

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To the audience at large:

I am wondering how much of a role the d/m's ego plays in choosing the punishment paradigm.

In the case of choosing it for others, that takes an enormous ego - and not in a good way.

Sound like anyone we all know?

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RE: Why is Punishment not seen as Abusive? - 10/1/2007 9:36:31 AM

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To the audience at large:

What are the ethical/moral foundations for the punishment paradigm?

"I don't like what your doing so I'll beat you for it" ?

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RE: Why is Punishment not seen as Abusive? - 10/1/2007 9:42:07 AM

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You are too good to me, Ron (beams). If the switch could be beat out of me, I'd probably be the first in line for it. Please don't get me anything that needs to live outside of its natural environment. I kill all potted plants and ants in antfarms....

What exactly is that you are sportin' in your avatar? Some sort of frock tidied up from your kkk days?....Now, just replace that thumb with the Domidong and life would be all roses....How far away is Greenville from Chicago anyways?

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RE: Why is Punishment not seen as Abusive? - 10/1/2007 9:42:52 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Bobkgin

To the audience at large:

I am wondering how much of a role the d/m's ego plays in choosing the punishment paradigm.

In the case of choosing it for others, that takes an enormous ego - and not in a good way.

Sound like anyone we all know?

I don't know anyone who has chosen the punishment paradigm for others.

I don't see how anyone could force others to live by it.

Perhaps you'll explain further.

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RE: Why is Punishment not seen as Abusive? - 10/1/2007 9:49:10 AM

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I would, but as you've proudly announced, you have me on block, and cannot see anything I write.