BlkTallFullfig
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Nice post... Conversation is great, but I could have great conversation with almost anyone. With a man who is interested in me, I expect more... I'll take pieces of beachmystress (hope it's okay to borrow from her, and show what I mean). A)Read the link quote:
http://www.femalesincontrol.com/courtship.htm B)I observed him actually SERVING rather than partying like the other subs. He was attentive to the women, entertaining when engaged in conversation and never presumptuous. C)he made it clear he was interested in me D)Yes, he paid Don't pay so that she can owe you something; pay to show her you're a gentleman, to show that you're a generous human being (Don't skimp on the tip), and to show that you will do everything in your power to be a good provider should she ever need one. quote:
E) I'm just naturally controlling and take charge I too am pretty controlling, but very reasonable; If I happen to give you directions/suggestions with which you disagree, you state why you disagree, you don't just do something else without first consulting moi. F)quote:
I DO expect to know that I'm not just life support for a strap-on or flogger to him and for him to be eager to see me That does not equal once/month, unless we're more than 3 states apart, or in different countries (but you should express your desire to see her often if you feel like, than she'll tell you how often is feasible/good for her. G)quote:
Our marriage resembles 1950's traditional marriage, with me in the husband role. Other than the fact that my [b]"wife" works and I don't.) We're both very comfortable with this and don't even consider it to be Power Exchange. It is just the way we are. If you love or are seriously interested in someone weather or not she is wealthy or has a job at all should not matter to you. Never, ever ask her why she works part time (unless she's asking you to get a second job to pay her bills). If she expresses being stressed in any way, ask if there is something you can do to help, and do it! Don't just make idle conversation like "I wish there was something I could do." I have Never met a woman in any country/continent (I've been to several countries and 3 continents thus far) who loves cheap men. So practice generosity however you can, and whenever you can (obviously not to your detriment), it's good for the soul, and will probably get you loved or at least laid en route to potential love. ...Before anyone decides to flame me for this, remember these are my thoughts and experiences, my ways, and my advice based on that.. M
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