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RE: The right body size - 10/4/2007 10:52:39 PM

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Perhaps people might be more tempted to go to these meetings if they weren't worried about being judged by people like you alexfromsacto.

Personally I think that lingerie looks best when filled up.. especially when it's filled up with self-confidence.
Having said that, corsets and black are a girl's best friend when it comes to enhancing the right curves and hiding the others :)

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RE: The right body size - 10/5/2007 1:08:41 AM

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Pegnoir Set are fantastic - for example
http://www.alwaysforme.com/plusgown1.html
Also Bellydance costumes, though expensive are a turn on even if you have not taken dancing lessons.
http://bellydancestore.biz/gallery.php?catId=1
Harem pants/sets are available inexpensively by googling costumes

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RE: The right body size - 10/5/2007 5:51:41 AM

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Hello there all you sexy lovely large ladies , and the lovely slenderer ladies too.
I have to agree with NICouple regarding the shortage of manufacturers in NA regarding larger sizes, its horrendously bad. Most of the shops that sell plus sizes use one or two manufacturers. I know Ive looked all over the place for suppliers to my store and only come up with five that are willing to wholesale. And most of them only go up to a 3-4x. The companies are as follows

http://www.delicateillusions.com/gallery/plus-sizes

http://www.dreamgirldirect.com/catalog/2007-2008/Plus/collection.html

http://www.allureleather.com/category/diva-leather/

http://www.allureleather.com/category/diva-vinyl/

http://www.shirleyofhollywood.com/Intimate/intcatalog1.htm

http://www.coquette.com/coquette/

If I may suggest you look at these sites and then look for their retailers links (usually posted on the sites) as to where you can find resellers in your area. A good store should be able to order you an item thats not listed if they use that particular manufacturer. (shameless plug...I will do so quite happily)
I know the UK and Australia, Europe have other manufacturers, but shipping and taxes can often double your cost, so be careful.

There is a nice lil online magazine that caters to the plus size lady called "Skorch" and can be found here
http://www.skorchmagazine.com/
it has links to a lot of plus size makers, and I hope that it will be a growing concern.
There are many corset makers out there who will custom make, and go up to and above 3-4x.... probably the best for leather is http://stores.ebay.com/ALTER-EGO-EROTICS ...thats my personal opinion, and I want one of every style, purrrrrr

I would love to be able to find more plus size lingerie out there, Im a great believer that sexuality doesnt and shouldnt stop once you hit that magic weight (insert poundage here). . Yes a lot of it is in the mind, but feeling sexy and wanting to look it isnt wrong once you hit the plus sizes. bah to anyone who thinks it should. We are force fed the notion that sexuality is only for the skinny and beautiful, let me tell you that someof the most sexually interesting people Ive met have been over 200lb...and if that persons self esteem is like the OPs then it should be encouraged not be forced into the mumu state of mind...
To the young gentleman who is so worried about the state of other peoples fitness levels......this is YOUR issue, open your mind and your heart to possibilities, it has nothing to do with their abilities to be a loving, sexy and giving partner, and sweet bugger all to do with submissiveness and or dominance....of course this is just my humble opinion.

The link to my store, should you be interested is in my sig line... I sell regular lingerie and fetstuff, but my personal areas of interest are in the plus size and BDSM gear realm.
Have a great weekend
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RE: The right body size - 10/9/2007 6:22:51 AM

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iammachine: hope you brought your flame retardant suit, dude.

LOVE it .... :P

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RE: The right body size - 10/9/2007 6:36:01 AM

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I just bought this: I think I look pretty damn good in it.

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RE: The right body size - 10/9/2007 7:09:18 AM

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Right-on Red !...I however would look like Jaba the hut.....lol with all the flabby rolls and what not....for me...more is MORE in the clothing dept!

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RE: The right body size - 10/9/2007 10:30:38 AM

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Right-on Red !...I however would look like Jaba the hut.....lol with all the flabby rolls and what not....for me...more is MORE in the clothing dept!

Nah, don't talk about yourself like that; you are beautiful the way you are.

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RE: The right body size - 10/9/2007 10:35:30 AM

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Hi! You might check out biggalslingerie.com. They have got a huge selection, all the way up to size 12!! Many, MANY sexy items to choose from.

I never knew size 12 was a plus size. I read that is the average size of a woman in the US though.

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RE: The right body size - 10/9/2007 10:49:55 AM

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If you don't have any help to add, why would you post just to put someone with a large size down about wanting lingerie, why can't you just keep your negative comment to yourself. What do you add to this thread telling her large w*omen don't look good to you in your mind in lingerie?

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Wish I could help...but I personally don't feel like "large" women look good in lingerie, that would include myself.

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RE: The right body size - 10/9/2007 10:56:24 AM

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Personally I think just about anyone looks more attractive if they are fit. I'm not saying people that have a few extra pounds are not attractive, but they could be more attractive. I think people could make more of an effort than they currently are to get into shape in the BDSM community. One thing I don't like is that when I attend meetings, and I've attended them in a few different places in the US, almost the majority of people who attend are substantially overweight. Now, what they do with their own body is none of my business, but I think it would encourage more people to join the lifestyle if they didn't see so many unfit people. There are so many unfit people in the lifestyle that it is becoming stereotypical, and that stereotype discourages many people from developing an interest they might otherwise naturally have had. Anyway, I will await the flames about "big people are beautiful". I'm just saying, if 99% of people in the community kept themselves fit, we'd have a lot more interested people coming to meetings.

oh my god get a clue .... here ... have one of mine

will take my big fat unattractive, unfit, offputting and community degrading ass out of here and eat some cookies because obviously i dont care a thing for myself or my community .. otherwise i wouldn't have let myself get fat

oh my god .. that must be why i am not owned .... its because i am a lard arse!

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RE: The right body size - 10/9/2007 11:17:29 AM

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Hi! You might check out biggalslingerie.com. They have got a huge selection, all the way up to size 12!! Many, MANY sexy items to choose from.

I never knew size 12 was a plus size. I read that is the average size of a woman in the US though.

Size 12 is not plus size, maybe in NY or LA. Then again, some people think a size 10 is plus size...go figure.

The average size of a woman in the US is about a size 14. Plus size stores start at 14, not 12.

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RE: The right body size - 10/9/2007 11:22:04 AM

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Right-on Red !...I however would look like Jaba the hut.....lol with all the flabby rolls and what not....for me...more is MORE in the clothing dept!

Nah, don't talk about yourself like that; you are beautiful the way you are.

Awww...you are a doll...so....we gonna see any pics of you modeling your new outfit?...Hmmmm?

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RE: The right body size - 10/9/2007 11:24:34 AM

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Not a huge selection, but some nice things...especially in bras, panties and hosiery- especially if you like a retro feel at all. Been very pleased with my experiences and purchases:

http://www.cameo-intimates.com/lingerie/index.html

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RE: The right body size - 10/9/2007 11:34:13 AM

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Right-on Red !...I however would look like Jaba the hut.....lol with all the flabby rolls and what not....for me...more is MORE in the clothing dept!

Nah, don't talk about yourself like that; you are beautiful the way you are.

Awww...you are a doll...so....we gonna see any pics of you modeling your new outfit?...Hmmmm?

Eh, it would help if I had someone fabulous to wear it for!! Boo hoo....

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RE: The right body size - 10/9/2007 11:58:34 AM

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Of course it would, but in the mean time wear it cause ya deserve to!

Eh, it would help if I had someone fabulous to wear it for!! Boo hoo....

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RE: The right body size - 10/9/2007 1:09:56 PM

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iammachine: hope you brought your flame retardant suit, dude.

LOVE it .... :P

You're welcome :)

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RE: The right body size - 10/10/2007 3:16:17 AM

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Ok, I am plus size and beautiful to many. As to "too many fatties in the lifestyle" the average American woman is a healthy size 12, and approx 70% of woman are size 12 and up! So, to the OP you seem to say only a slim minority are welcome. I vote for fewer SMALL MINDED men, such as you appear to be.

Here are some great links for plus size wear...

http://www.batgearbeyond.com/links.asp?ID=GothicP a list of Goth/Fetish to Work and Evening Wear!

Amazing leather, steel bone corsets from Alter Ego Erotics sizes xxs to 8x!! AMAZING PRICES, best quality!

From a post regarding plus size stockings..

My experience is a little different. I am taller, 5'8" but plus size. I prefer my thigh highs to be much above the knee. I find that the plus size do "fit" but usually are a tad more than knee highs on me!!! NOT sexy!!

So, in stockings size charts you might notice they create a graph of height and weight. Generally the larger size will stretch to length or height. So try a larger or even plus size for ease in length. I found that the higher Lycra content makes for smoother feel, and are more form fitting which also helps retain their shape.

Just my size makes thigh highs in sizes up to 6x which are very affordable. I found some at Walmart, and ordered more from the JMS website.

Ascanty sells unisex hose, and plus size, including tall as well. I also found nice, albeit expensive stockings and lingerie at secretsinlace.com. Not sure if I still like what hipsncurves.com has. Any fine web or brick retailer will carry DreamGirls lingerie, which I find more appealing than Shirly of Hollywood's line!!

Happy Shopping!

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RE: The right body size - 10/10/2007 3:21:35 AM

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Personally I think just about anyone looks more attractive if they are fit. I'm not saying people that have a few extra pounds are not attractive, but they could be more attractive. I think people could make more of an effort than they currently are to get into shape in the BDSM community. One thing I don't like is that when I attend meetings, and I've attended them in a few different places in the US, almost the majority of people who attend are substantially overweight. Now, what they do with their own body is none of my business, but I think it would encourage more people to join the lifestyle if they didn't see so many unfit people. There are so many unfit people in the lifestyle that it is becoming stereotypical, and that stereotype discourages many people from developing an interest they might otherwise naturally have had. Anyway, I will await the flames about "big people are beautiful". I'm just saying, if 99% of people in the community kept themselves fit, we'd have a lot more interested people coming to meetings.

Hey I think the lifestyle would be better represented if geeky looking skinny guys with bad haircuts and crappy clothes, an idiotic look on their face on their pic and obviously outdated glasses got a clue on how to present themselves better. But you know...who I am to judge you? Shoe's on the other foot buddy....get the drift? Get over yourself.
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RE: The right body size - 10/10/2007 3:29:33 AM

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I'm not saying people that have a few extra pounds are not attractive, but they could be more attractive. I think people could make more of an effort than they currently are to get into shape in the BDSM community. One thing I don't like is that when I attend meetings, and I've attended them in a few different places in the US, almost the majority of people who attend are substantially overweight. Now, what they do with their own body is none of my business, but I think it would encourage more people to join the lifestyle if they didn't see so many unfit people. There are so many unfit people in the lifestyle that it is becoming stereotypical, and that stereotype discourages many people from developing an interest they might otherwise naturally have had. Anyway, I will await the flames about "big people are beautiful". I'm just saying, if 99% of people in the community kept themselves fit, we'd have a lot more interested people coming to meetings.

Hmmmmm, I like to see well built guys without glasses and with a decent haircut. If we had more of them, I'd go to more meetings.

I think all chickies can look gorgeous and sexy in horn creating lingerie. The skinny ladies look great in some things, the curvy ladies fabulous in other things.

The main thing is that YOU feel good in what you're wearing. If you feel sexy, guaranteed others will see you as sexy. It's all in the 'tude!! And for those who don't like it, take a good look at yourself in a mirror before making judgements on others.

edited to say great minds think alike laurell

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RE: The right body size - 10/10/2007 3:33:26 AM

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I'm actually thin with small breasts and a very short torso, but very long legs....trust me when I tell you that a corset and alot of other fetish wear would look better on you regardless of weight than me. But you know what, if you're trusting someone to have sex with them, I think you have to give them the benefit of the doubt that they are turned on by your body the way it is and lingerie and/or fetish wear only adds to the package. Flaunt it even if you ain't got it, attitude is sexy.

MissMagnolia if you ever find the hot guy meeting, let me know.

edited to say: haha yeah we were both on the same thought at the same time, thanks.
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