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RE: The right body size - 12/23/2007 6:06:01 PM

azropedntied

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depending on where you get your clothes also determins how they fit .A woman's , say size 12 is not universal .I sell clothing and have had a woman try on 4 sized 12 pair of pants all different maker , the 4th one fit where the other 3 were too big or too small .Where as mens items a size 34/32 pants you get what you see for the most part .The whole body image and what the media says you all should look like is BS .To me its more the inner Goddess and how she carries herself and not so much if she has a roll of some extra pounds on her frame .I have known some drop dead hottie model types that when they open thier mouth they were just ugly .
Its not just the apperance in what you wear , its the fit , the texture , and the time a woman took to present herself ,well that is hot!As a male when a woman takes the time to wear something special , a nice scent added ,a bobble or two ,wow what an honor i think that she has done this .To all those that think they are too big or whatever to wear some soft silky article of clothing , let me say your not too big , your not to small just let your Goddess shine .
There was a clothing through time display a while back here at a musuem and i thought wow look at all that women have done through the ages , in all various cultures .just food for thought .So be it looking and feeling good about yourself or giving your signifigant other a treat i say go for it and thanks for all the eye candy !

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RE: The right body size - 12/23/2007 8:41:58 PM

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ORIGINAL: azropedntied

Its not just the apperance in what you wear , its the fit , the texture , and the time a woman took to present herself ,

I'm really on the side of "the fit" here. Bigger women can look like total dynamite in all kinds of things - as long as it FITS.

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RE: The right body size - 12/23/2007 10:04:44 PM

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ORIGINAL: azropedntied

To me its more the inner Goddess and how she carries herself and not so much if she has a roll of some extra pounds on her frame .

To all those that think they are too big or whatever to wear some soft silky article of clothing , let me say your not too big , your not to small just let your Goddess shine .

AZ you big charmer... I already agreed to a date, you don't have to keep schmoozing.

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RE: The right body size - 12/23/2007 10:09:05 PM

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id have to go along with thinking in saying ...nomatter the size shape or whatever ...there is "tasteless" and "classy"....and well just how you damn well want to dress....as long as you stick with those last two you can never go wrong ...

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RE: The right body size - 12/24/2007 12:13:31 AM

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wow Cali blushes heart races ,makes me wanna get to the beach that much sooner .
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RE: The right body size - 12/25/2007 12:46:56 PM

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Once you get your outfits check out some spanking toys at www.cane-iac.com. They even have some clamps.
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RE: The right body size - 12/27/2007 11:12:37 PM

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Sweetie - There are plenty of options... I am a fairly healthy sized girl myself but I am insanely creative at coming up with some hot things that make me feel great even in a fetish way.

My favorite place to start is the thrift stores as there are great vintage items that can be turned into fun fetish pieces. I will alter things so that something that starts out ??? ends up hot and fun - one of a kind and fairly inexpensive unless I have to take to a tailor to get whatever really overhauled.

Torrid is a great place for BBW fetish - I have a couple of corsets that I picked up from there and the underwear is fun too.

Next - ebay - My body is one that requires "try on" most of the time... but one piece bodysuits are a great foundation piece to start with. I bought a fishnet one and then thrashed it with holes... popped on a short jean skirt that I made from a pair of jeans I never wore, fringed the bottom of skirt then washed it, put a black corset over the fishnet bodystocking and then added some funky chain belts and tah-dah it's the most favorite outfit that my clients seem to like seeing me in.... You can see it in some of my profile photos...

Adult Shops that sell clothing have full figured stuff now and once in awhile it is cute....
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The secret I have found in finding clothing that you feel sexy in is making sure it fluants the good assets and doesn't draw attn to the less than .... which happens to be my ass. SO girl I play up my boobs like nobodys business and figure they may just stop at them and never make it down to my ass... Ha ha - okay nice thought. Reality is fit will always be easier to dress and ultimately the goal. But in the meantime you can be a sexy bitch even if you are not at your ideal weight. Don't forget to throw attitude around with your sexy outfits... It works !! I am proof to the pudding.

Good luck and it can be done.

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RE: The right body size - 12/27/2007 11:21:03 PM

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http://wickedtemptations.com/plus-size.html ooops here is right link

Woooo Hoooo! There are some sexy items on here. Thanks crouchingtigress. BTW, are you still in Maui? Can I come visit? I fell in love with that island and reallllllly wanna go back.

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RE: The right body size - 12/28/2007 8:44:16 AM

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I looooooooooooooooove Big Gals Lingerie! My only wish is that I could afford to get some stuff there!my only complaint about the site is that they have skinny chicks in some of the outfits. pfft

I personally prefer the stuff at plus sized stores and websites. And I ended up having to go to Women's plus sized stores to shop when I was a teen, but I consider that the best thing. Why? because there was a whole bunch of cute clothing, that I could fit into!

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RE: The right body size - 12/28/2007 9:12:28 AM

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A site:

http://www.biggalslingerie.com/index.html

And they don't have thin models at least not all. I had a wonderful gown made by them and it wasn't expensive at all.

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