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subspace - 9/29/2007 3:35:08 AM

AGRTDOM

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What gets you there and what was your first experience?

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RE: subspace - 9/29/2007 6:19:21 AM

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Not endorphin release, I have zero interest in pain play.

I'm a bondage bunny. Blindfold, secure bondage, gag. Sit back and watch. Even faster in pallet wrap since there rarely is a bit pinching that I need adjusted or have to slowly get used to.

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RE: subspace - 9/29/2007 10:19:15 AM

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I've only been there once and it was a session of rope bondage that did it for me.

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RE: subspace - 9/29/2007 12:12:57 PM

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hairpulling and restraining

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RE: subspace - 9/29/2007 1:21:09 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: AGRTDOM

What gets you there and what was your first experience?

I need pain to get to subspace. Not just any pain, but pain that's built to a certain level where my body can't process it anymore so my mind takes flight. As Rachael Ray says.. Yummo!

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RE: subspace - 9/29/2007 2:23:57 PM

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quote:

Yummo!

Indeed

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RE: subspace - 9/29/2007 2:26:39 PM

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Anything that stresses the fact that He can do anything He wants to me and i have to trust that He wouldn't go too far.

A demand for sex out of the blue can do it instantly sometimes.

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RE: subspace - 9/29/2007 5:10:38 PM

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Almost anything will put me into some level of subspace. Bondage especially, suspension definitely. But only pain will make me fly :)

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RE: subspace - 9/30/2007 2:26:11 PM

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I think for everyone its different. Some people react to the pain, some to the immense pleasure and others to the sheer humiliation of enjoying what is happening. Everyone has their own space and everyone has something different. I find mine is in the control and the immense pain, the kind of pain that is beyond hurt.
Good luck!

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RE: subspace - 9/30/2007 8:16:35 PM

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Pretty much anything that causes an endorphin release. That can be pain, tickling and orgasm.

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RE: subspace - 10/1/2007 11:18:30 AM

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For me it is the intende pleasure Master gives me. Pain just plain hurts.

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RE: subspace - 10/1/2007 11:29:47 AM

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Doncha just love all the different responses? I do.

Long ago I read a book titled "Positive Addiction" by William Glasser, MD. He pretty much explains the why and how if it....if that is what you are interested in. I believe the book is still available at bookstores; it's quite good.

As far as my own experiences... one memorable one was while tied spread-eagled, standing on the deck of my cabin. I’d been playing with a trusted friend…we’d decided I was finally going to experience needles; in my breasts.

I remember the first three and then nothing until I heard him ask if I was ready to have them through my nipples (which I had begged him not to do). I remember sort of pulling up, or …coming back… and looking down to see a couple dozen down my chest. I said no; please no…not there! He continued to be very supportive of me and what we were doing…thumped or wiggled some of the needles a bit and then began removing them. I remember feeling so light; like flying! …and awed to see two or three drops of blood fall on the wood beneath my feet.

Anyway, it was the most awesome experience…even though I had no idea ‘where I went’ while he’d been inserting needles. I wish I’d thought to ask if I had remained standing while he worked; I have no idea if I did, or was hanging in my restraints. I’d like to know…

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RE: subspace - 10/1/2007 11:41:27 AM

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What gets me there is not the pain itself, but the combination of pain followed by immediate aftercare. This seems to be fairly uncommon, as I have yet to meet anyone like me in this regard. Of course I always have been a little on the strange side.

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RE: subspace - 10/1/2007 1:29:13 PM

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My first time was at 13 (yikes) with a girlfriend who loved to make me stay stationary while she teased. She liked feathers, but she would do anything to get me all hot and bothered, then she would put cold water on me. The key was that it would reach a point where I would do anything she wanted, and I was as focused on the moment as is possible, not even hearing the phone ring or being aware of anything else going on. The experience was repeated in different ways on and off for about 5 years.

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