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RE: Difficulty finding a Dom? - 10/4/2007 3:29:32 PM

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You're all the same to me
fuck you
fuck you
fuck you
fuck you

May I direct your attention to the "Partners on behavioural Meds..." thread.

You might find some useful information there.

Hahahaha. Why? Are you dysfunctional on that thread too?

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RE: Difficulty finding a Dom? - 10/4/2007 3:30:23 PM

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ROFLMAO

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RE: Difficulty finding a Dom? - 10/4/2007 3:31:45 PM

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ORIGINAL: Aileen68

You're all the same to me
fuck you
fuck you
fuck you
fuck you

May I direct your attention to the "Partners on behavioural Meds..." thread.

You might find some useful information there.

Hahahaha. Why? Are you dysfunctional on that thread too?

I think he was talking about you.

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RE: Difficulty finding a Dom? - 10/4/2007 3:33:39 PM

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No shit, Sherlock. How could men not recognize your intelligence?
I think people can make up their own minds who needs meds in these threads.

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RE: Difficulty finding a Dom? - 10/4/2007 3:39:26 PM

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How about this little tune....

Bilingual
The only aphrodisiac I need is your voice
Hearing you speak my name
Beckoning me to answer
Telling me you want me
So I tell you that you're the answer to every question I've ever had about love

Without words I use my tongue to tell the tale of us
Tracing your shadowscape
Kneeling before you my eyes feast upon your masculinity and
All its divinity and I praise you
Because all of that is for me

I begin to indulge myself of your delicacies
Digesting semi-sweet dark chocolate decadence as it melts
Dripping down my chin
Your taste is something Godiva couldn't re-create

Needing every atom of your anatomy
Necessity is placed upon me knowing you are the source of my serendipity
Dipping in and out of me stroking more than my consciesness
Subconsciously I find myself rewinding our love scenes
In my daydreams
Seeing that face you make when you're making me cum
And it makes me want you right there and then

Thinking of you in inappropriate places I get
Tingling sensations in private locations where I wish to be caught between a rock and your hard place

As wetness develops my legs begin to open and my spot turns to a backdraft and all I want you to do is extinguish it
You know my body like the back of your hands
And touch me and send me into ecstacy

My thighs quiver in anticipation of deep penetration which gets me high
Body rising
Sweating
Panting
Make-up melting
Pulling my hair and
Scratching my back
I get a temporary case of tourettes because all I can say are four letter words in a four octave-range screaming your name

(Spanish)

You fucking me makes me bilingual
You fucking me makes me bilingual
You fucking me makes me bilingual
You fucking me makes me bilingual
You fucking me makes me bilingual

I see your tongue pink between your lips and I want it between mine
And I struggle
As you lick torturing me
I try to get away but
Not really

Running out of room begging for more up against the wall that has been scuffed by my stilletos
Again
You pry apart my thighs and tell me to be still
And I willingly submit to you because I love the way you dominate me
Demanding that I cum for you so I do as I'm told

You've molded me so I'm good to no-one else but you
You've conquered this once orgasmicless world and multiplied it
Again and
Again

My face radiates with after-glow
My pillow scented by you
A fragrance which haunts me
My room smells of the best sex
I
Covered in body prints and finger prints and you above me
Your name written indelibly upon my body in your genetic history

You fucking me makes me bilingual

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RE: Difficulty finding a Dom? - 10/4/2007 3:41:37 PM

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Most subs want doms who are larger and older than they are, and most doms want subs who are younger and smaller.
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What?????????????on earth are you talking about?

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RE: Difficulty finding a Dom? - 10/4/2007 3:46:36 PM

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How about this little tune....
Bilingual

...

Did you write that, B?

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RE: Difficulty finding a Dom? - 10/4/2007 3:49:43 PM

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ORIGINAL: Bobkgin

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How about this little tune....
Bilingual

...

Did you write that, B?

Oh my no...I wish!...its a song I came across...and its just SMOKIN HOT!!!....I remember saying when I 1st heard the song..."Geez...I wish I could meet the guy she is singing about...and guess what?....I DID!!!!

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RE: Difficulty finding a Dom? - 10/4/2007 4:01:22 PM

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ORIGINAL: Skittishkat

Sorry, I am confused but then I'm a newbie. Is this thread about the difficulty of finding a dom?
We could go into that since it's a valid topic and the truth. From the sounds of some of the dom ads you'd think they were advertising for a domestic position and not a relationship or am I just getting old?
You can start throwing rocks at that while I make it worse by asking, is pain and bondage for correction then observe, if so, apparently it never works. Or is it for the pleasure of both D/s?
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hi Skittishkat ::wavin:: and welcome : )
it's a good question...but getting drowned out by the roar of this topic...
may I suggest you start a new thread and ask that question ? : ) I'm sure you will get lots of informative responses and insights : )

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RE: Difficulty finding a Dom? - 10/4/2007 4:19:56 PM

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Choking / Neurotic / Dysfunctional Family / Mental Illness / Family Vacation

Sounds like collarme. On a good day...

laughing!

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RE: Difficulty finding a Dom? - 10/4/2007 4:23:22 PM

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fabio would be hot if he cut his hair and put some clothes on.

I need a man not a poolboy.

But you know...that's SO true...most of the people who complain about being judged for their looks also *gasp* judge people by their looks.

Could it be that people tend to want to have sex with people they are sexually attracted to?

I'm not quite sure but I'm sure Harvard will sink a few million into a study...and I'm pretty sure the study will say "yes they do."

I agree wholeheartedly fabio is disgusting and obviously physical attraction is very much a part of any initial getting together.
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RE: Difficulty finding a Dom? - 10/4/2007 4:30:14 PM

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obviously physical attraction is very much a part of any initial getting together.
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Not when what you are seeking is under the skin ... like a heart of gold.

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RE: Difficulty finding a Dom? - 10/4/2007 5:04:16 PM

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For as much as they whine about not being wanted-how many fat chicks do you think would be rushing out to date this guy?

http://3quarksdaily.blogs.com/3quarksdaily/images/fat_1.jpg

I mean, he has a wonderful personality.....................he should be perfect-right?

thats a man? i mean ima fat chick and all......but i find it hard to believe a mans body could shape like that

wtf do i know....

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RE: Difficulty finding a Dom? - 10/4/2007 5:06:15 PM

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personally, id fuck the fat dude (if its a dude) before id fuck fabio......but then im told im peculiar....

shudder

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RE: Difficulty finding a Dom? - 10/4/2007 5:15:44 PM

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obviously physical attraction is very much a part of any initial getting together.
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Not when what you are seeking is under the skin ... like a heart of gold.

I have to disagree with that...a heart of gold can't replace physical attraction completely just as physical attraction can't replace emotional compatibility. They're two separate requirements and I think both are important for an intimate relationship.

Obviously emotional attraction tends to make someone *more* physically attractive because you see them as a sexual partner, but everyone has their limits as far as this goes. The line may vary depending on the individual (and usually on how attractive the individual judging is) but there is definitely a line where no amount of emotional compatibility can turn the relationship into anything more than a friendship.

Besides...sex is important in a healthy relationship. Kinda hard to have a healthy sex life if both your bits are covered by 500 lb rolls

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RE: Difficulty finding a Dom? - 10/4/2007 5:37:22 PM

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personally, id fuck the fat dude (if its a dude) before id fuck fabio......but then im told im peculiar....

shudder

I was pointing up double standards.. Everyone does that sort of thing-to some extent.

I look at it this way-would YOU date an opposite sex (or same) counterpart of you?

If not, one has NO reason to complain.

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RE: Difficulty finding a Dom? - 10/4/2007 8:09:18 PM

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To unattached subs out there with not so perfect bodies, you're facing a definite double standard. There's a thread in Ask a Mistress about male subs desiring older bbw dommes that generated many positive responses (4 pages). I started a thread in Ask a Master about Doms desiring older bbw subs and there was only 1 response in 4 hours. I was wondering if any bbw subs out there ever considered becoming switches and ordering male subs to dominate them?

The theory of person who is naturally submissive becoming a switch in order to be able to order a sub to dominate her is “interesting” as well as disturbing, to my way of thinking. I would always be wondering if the male sub was very fulfilled in dominating me. I tend to think of the male sub as looking for a relationship in which he is submissive and not necessarily interested in dominating (just as I am a submissive female and not interested or fulfilled by dominating anyone), and probably not find fulfillment in a relationship in which he is frequently commanded to dominate his Domme. That would set lead to confusion and frustration, to me.

I am not interested in manipulating a sub into being something that does not jibe with who the sub truly is. No one is ends up satisfied or happy in that circumstance.

Switch with switch, I understand where that would work out, taking turns as sub and Dom.

I used to be concerned with being considered BBW, or an overweight, older sub, whatever. So what? I am not physically attracted to Doms who are shorter, or more slender, or younger than me. To each his/her own; and that realization is a freeing relief!

There are all kinds of subs and Doms and somewhere, along the line, I will meet a Dom with whom we will find fulfillment from what we have to offer, who we are, inside and out.

And Lord help me, if the OP is "older" at 34 years old, then I am most ancient at 47 years old. What in the hell does that mean… am I ready to be retired to BDSM convalescent home? Hell no!

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RE: Difficulty finding a Dom? - 10/4/2007 8:10:44 PM

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[And Lord help me, if the OP is "older" at 34 years old, then I am most ancient at 47 years old. What in the hell does that mean… am I ready to be retired to BDSM convalescent home? Hell no!

WAIT there's BDSM convalescent homes?????????? Sign me up!
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RE: Difficulty finding a Dom? - 10/4/2007 8:18:18 PM

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[And Lord help me, if the OP is "older" at 34 years old, then I am most ancient at 47 years old. What in the hell does that mean… am I ready to be retired to BDSM convalescent home? Hell no!

WAIT there's BDSM convalescent homes?????????? Sign me up!
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