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LittleSkylark -> RE: How can I dress dominantly without looking like an idiot? (11/11/2007 11:01:06 AM)
You should try a victorian suit with cane, sort of dandy, very very very hot, and oh the things you can do with the cane! drool

SteelofUtah -> RE: How can I dress dominantly without looking like an idiot? (11/11/2007 12:29:48 PM)
Always been a fan of the Black Slacks Pleated with a tight fitting shirt or a completely black suit tie and shirt also black with a red Hankie. Honestly I like anything that looks good I assume my lack of care in astenics does not help you much. As Always Steel

TheJoker69 -> RE: How can I dress dominantly without looking like an idiot? (11/11/2007 2:26:08 PM)
This has been an excellent forum thread. Some good points. I like to dress preppie... spook/james bond ish (I don't do the tux). Although I stick out like a sore thumb against the fetish and leather dress crowd, I have never had a problem.

TheJoker69 -> RE: How can I dress dominantly without looking like an idiot? (11/11/2007 2:29:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LittleSkylark You should try a victorian suit with cane, sort of dandy, very very very hot, and oh the things you can do with the cane! drool I like that idea... I have a victorian style jacket, but I think I'll do some research and try the whole look out.

SoulPiercer -> RE: How can I dress dominantly without looking like an idiot? (11/11/2007 2:34:04 PM)
Make sure your fly is zipped, there is no TP sticking out of the back of your pants and never, ever, ever wear Air Jordans with a tux.

SimplyMichael -> RE: How can I dress dominantly without looking like an idiot? (11/11/2007 2:41:19 PM)
People would know I was dominant if I showed up in a shorts skirt and heels... As for other alternatives, I don't care what the doormen say, wearing a tux to a BDSM event is sure to get the ladies dripping.

Eurolymius -> RE: How can I dress dominantly without looking like an idiot? (11/11/2007 9:03:05 PM)
Is it possible that bondage and steampunk go together? There seem to be a lot of fans of both in this thread, including myself.

MasterCurios -> RE: How can I dress dominantly without looking like an idiot? (11/12/2007 5:50:17 AM)
its not in how you dress but rather your attitude towards others that count. if you exude your Dominance than it shows no matter what you wear if you try and super impose who you are then it is rather apparent to others as well.when attending the munches or sloshes i tend to dress myself in my (myself clothes,)(whatever i wear day to day)and let my talking and actions do the rest then when we go to the dungeons i will dress in whatever fetish wear i see fit for the ocassion. Master Curios

LaTigresse -> RE: How can I dress dominantly without looking like an idiot? (11/12/2007 7:34:50 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael People would know I was dominant if I showed up in a shorts skirt and heels... As for other alternatives, I don't care what the doormen say, wearing a tux to a BDSM event is sure to get the ladies dripping. Even I, can appreciate a man in a well fitted tux.....ohhhh myyy.

Leonardo -> RE: How can I dress dominantly without looking like an idiot? (11/12/2007 1:17:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MstrssPassion it isn't what you wear it is how you carry yourself yup. Well stated.

Eagles -> RE: How can I dress dominantly without looking like an idiot? (11/12/2007 10:27:53 PM)
I have found that no matter what a Dom is dressed in , He will be seen as such by the way He presents Himself. I have been sitting in a resturant in shorts & tank top and have been approached by management ( in several establishments). As far as going to parties, I have a high quality black Leather vest that I wear with a good shirt. So, the manner of dress does not make a Dominant, it accents Them.

ellesilver -> RE: How can I dress dominantly without looking like an idiot? (11/14/2007 1:02:39 AM)
It's all about attitude, if you're confident and think you can pull it off, then go for it. Confidence is sometimes more important than what you're wearing.

deliciousmorsel -> RE: How can I dress dominantly without looking like an idiot? (11/14/2007 5:27:05 AM)
Well cut, well tailored, dark grey or black. What exactly is up to you- great black jeans with a silk sweater and cowboy boots, a suit... The hottest, most oh please may i kneel to Your Amazingness Sir Dom i ever met was wearing amazingly cut slacks- probably wool and silk gabardine with a high neck sweater of some sort, vry nice fabrics and cut, very graceful movement on a very amazing Man. I can't give as much detail as I could on a fellow subs fake Chanel bag (snicker) because the clothes made one look at Him, which great fashion does! Very different things work for different people, but once a Man finds his comfort zone there's a sort of explosion of thew mind there...

demondchild21 -> RE: How can I dress dominantly without looking like an idiot? (11/16/2007 6:40:53 PM)
SEEK OUT A PERSONAL DESIGNER LIKE AN UP AND COMMING UNDERGROUD DESIGNER, A LOT OF COLLEGE STUDENTS WOULD BE ABLE TO HELP. NOW A DAYS IT SEEMS PEOPLE ARE MORE OPEN AND RECEPTIVE TO DIFFERENT LIFESTLYES, OR IF YOU HAVE IDEAS OF YOUR OWN TAKE THEM TO A SEAMSTRESS/TAILOR.

unravel -> RE: How can I dress dominantly without looking like an idiot? (11/17/2007 7:47:37 AM)
Well i am no Dominant, but i can offer for advice is that while sticking to any sort of dress code (if any at all) required by the club/party/event You are going to, the key is to wear something You feel confident in. If You think You look the part, You likely do, and exhale a confident vibe that You are the part. Good luck! unravel

MistressPav -> RE: How can I dress dominantly without looking like an idiot? (11/19/2007 12:52:39 PM)
It's not the clothing, honey, it's the Dom inside them that makes women turn their heads. The way he walks, the way he carries himself, the way he always makes and holds eye contact....the fact that he is NEVER afraid to walk up to a total stranger and start a conversation. The self confidence he oozes. And especially if the Dom is bisexual and will ADMIT it, that is a FUCKING HUGE turn on for me, because a weak man won't admit it if they are Bi. I admire a man who has the self confidence to admit he is bi without blinking an eye. However, if I must specifically say what turns MY head is a Dom that dresses for success. Yes, every girl is crazy about a sharp dressed man....I agree. Especially a man in uniform drool the Highway Patrol or Marine Uniform usually makes me have to excuse myself to the restroom to get a tissue to wipe the extra juice from my pussy. I can pick out a Dom in a crowd of people if he has any type of masculine silver ring on his pinky. That's a turn on to me. I love those males that wear pinky rings! Just my 10 cents worth, Mistress Pav

MistressPav -> RE: How can I dress dominantly without looking like an idiot? (11/19/2007 12:57:03 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: unravel Well i am no Dominant, but i can offer for advice is that while sticking to any sort of dress code (if any at all) required by the club/party/event You are going to, the key is to wear something You feel confident in. If You think You look the part, You likely do, and exhale a confident vibe that You are the part. Good luck! unravel I totally agree!

grlneedstolearn -> RE: How can I dress dominantly without looking like an idiot? (11/20/2007 4:05:58 PM)
My Dom dresses casual, jeans and shirt, and he doesn't look like an idiot. It's just what your comfortable in. Best of luck

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