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NLitendLady -> Dear Kinky Abbey (10/10/2007 9:04:15 PM)

Hi don't know if this fits here or not. A friend of mine thought we should have a "Dear kinky Abbey" and we thought we'd post and see what you all would ask if there were a Dear kinky Abbey. So send your silliest or even serious questions and we'll see what answers we can come up with.......................



cautiousiasub -> RE: Dear Kinky Abbey (10/10/2007 9:08:07 PM)

Dear Kinky Abbey,

My Dom has decided to introduce watersports during our next session. How much fun can playing with water really be?!?!?!?  [;)]



NLitendLady -> RE: Dear Kinky Abbey (10/10/2007 9:10:22 PM)

lol watersports can be lots of fun   depending on whether the water is cold or hot or ice, how much you can hold from the tubing, how long you can hold your breath and how well you can float   

(yes I know what watersports really are lol)



NLitendLady -> RE: Dear Kinky Abbey (10/10/2007 9:11:38 PM)

on a more serious note   watersports is activity introducing urine into play in various ways  some can't handle it some love it you have to choose



slaverosebeauty -> RE: Dear Kinky Abbey (10/10/2007 9:23:37 PM)

Dear Kinky Abbey,

My Top-Type pisses me off sometimes, is it ok to tell another Top-type to punish him??



NLitendLady -> RE: Dear Kinky Abbey (10/10/2007 9:30:05 PM)

no because that would be very unsubmissive try a more covert attack to make yourself feel better  little things like adding a little something to his food or having an "accident" and breaking the remote or oh gee I'm sorry I thought those batteries were for the toys lol


seriously no you cannot tell another top to punish a top   you must look at the issue and see what is bothering you about it and then discuss it with your top   keep communication lines open as he needs your input. Take time to get your head in the right place. if you feel he is still not getting it  evaluate your feelings again see what is bugging you and if you can adapt and if not possibly find someone he respects and ask them to mediate for you.



crouchingtigress -> RE: Dear Kinky Abbey (10/10/2007 9:33:01 PM)

dear kinky abby do you think horatio cane is a dom?



NLitendLady -> RE: Dear Kinky Abbey (10/10/2007 9:36:34 PM)

with cane as a name I'd hope he'd be a skilled sadist with one lol

and he seems like he leans that way



cautiousiasub -> RE: Dear Kinky Abbey (10/11/2007 9:57:09 AM)

Dear Kinky Abbey,

I had a bad case of PMS last night, got mad and locked my Dom in the basement (I'm blaming it all on the hormones [:D]). He sounds really pissed--keeps banging on the door and telling me to let him out. What should I do?



NLitendLady -> RE: Dear Kinky Abbey (10/11/2007 1:46:11 PM)

Have you considered changing your identity, maybe even plastic surgery and moving out of the country?  He's had a lot of time to come up with very creative consequences for this act. Must have been hormones causing a case of temporary insanity. You need help for that soon.  Unless you have a very understanding and very forgiving master preferably one with short term memory loss I'd really consider leaving the key in the mailbox and after a couple hours of fast travel call someone to let him out.



Babybass -> RE: Dear Kinky Abbey (10/11/2007 2:20:40 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: cautiousiasub

Dear Kinky Abbey,

I had a bad case of PMS last night, got mad and locked my Dom in the basement (I'm blaming it all on the hormones [:D]). He sounds really pissed--keeps banging on the door and telling me to let him out. What should I do?



Open the door and hit him on the head real hard - if you are lucky you will induce a bad case of short term memory loss - and if not you will have time to run - he'll be dazed from concussion!!! 



beargonewild -> RE: Dear Kinky Abbey (10/11/2007 2:25:12 PM)

Dear Kinky Abbey,

I've gotten this reputation of being a man whore and not sure if it's a good thing or not. I am wondering is this is hurting my chances of finding a Dom who is willing to claim me as his own?



NLitendLady -> RE: Dear Kinky Abbey (10/11/2007 4:43:29 PM)

a man whore? is the reputation earned?  if so, it may be an issue. Not many like to wonder where their sub is and with whom.  Many may wonder at loyalty and fidelity. 

On the other hand some want subs they can whore out or watch with others or know that their sub will pleasure others at their command.

Um, to stay out of jail stop at any sign of money or expensive gift exchange for services.



slaverosebeauty -> RE: Dear Kinky Abbey (10/11/2007 9:48:47 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: cautiousiasub
Dear Kinky Abbey,

I had a bad case of PMS last night, got mad and locked my Dom in the basement (I'm blaming it all on the hormones [:D]). He sounds really pissed--keeps banging on the door and telling me to let him out. What should I do?


Send a tray of food down to him while he is sleeping and tell him you will let him out in about a week for good behaviour. Oh, a few blankets, a bucket and a roll of toilet paper are good gestures as well.



LivingInSin -> RE: Dear Kinky Abbey (10/11/2007 10:20:56 PM)

Dear Kinky Abbey,

I am curious to find out how far I can be pushed when it comes to pain such as floggers, clamps, ect.

What is the best way to approch a Top for this?

Signed,

Curious Cat

ps....this is fun. i hope you keep up with it :)



Saratov -> RE: Dear Kinky Abbey (10/12/2007 7:34:30 AM)

Politely, or you may find your limits faster than planned. [8D]



LivingInSin -> RE: Dear Kinky Abbey (10/12/2007 9:38:19 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Saratov

Politely, or you may find your limits faster than planned. [8D]

ROFLMAO!!



NLitendLady -> RE: Dear Kinky Abbey (10/12/2007 11:54:30 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Saratov

Politely, or you may find your limits faster than planned. [8D]



I like that answer.

I would agree with politely and slowly.  I don't think saying test my pain limits as far as you think I can go, or Beat me til I pass out, or don't let the blood stop you would be in your best interest.

Getting him angry right before or during a session, NOT a good idea. Make sure you ask at a time you've been very good and not annoying.

Avoid saying things like, "Is that all you've got, or You're such a wuss, or Can't you hit harder, or my six year old niece hits harder."  They would probably help you find your limits but in a less than pleasant way .

On a serious note, merely stating to him that you feel you are ready to go a LITTLE further to start seeing where your limits are but not too far too fast would be a good start.

Always remember circulation is a good thing, numbness is bad. You will want those appendages to stay intact. If you are already to the place where blood flows freely from your beatings, um you've probably surpassed the limits healthy for your body.



jesiul -> RE: Dear Kinky Abbey (10/12/2007 12:41:20 PM)

Dear Kinky Abbey:
Recently I pushed the Dom I was seeing outside naked and then locked the door. When he started banging on the door and screaming for me to let him in I dialed 9-1-1 (He was a little upset)
After the police took him away I went home...He says he has forgiven me and all is well. Should I go back over for a visit?

~jesi~



NLitendLady -> RE: Dear Kinky Abbey (10/12/2007 3:10:38 PM)

You lock him out of HIS OWN HOUSE  naked (why was he outside naked?) ,give him time to be very thoroughly and creatively sadistic in his thoughts and plans for revenge or punishment while he's in jail and you are considering going to his house. 

Sure if you want to never be seen again while he's reminding you constantly for weeks how you locked him out and got him arrested or if you love the idea of total and restrictive bondage and EXTREME punishment.

I think NOT!



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