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ORIGINAL: TakenPet

Fellatio is not as fun with a condom, but you have to play safe especially if you are playing with more than one person.  Like stated earlier there are risks to any sexual act that is "unprotected" but the risk goes up exponentially when you actually start taking the cum in your mouth and swallowing.  There are risks really in anything you do, so the choice is yours.
Good luck 
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this touches on something that's really bugging me.  i'm a bit new to S/M and am being Dommed at a distance by an incredible uber-Dom..  He has told me exactly what He intends to do to me when He comes here to claim me in March....it doesnt leave much out!  i  would be scared enough but i'm not sure i'm getting thru to Him about safe-sex.   its not that i dont want to have unprotected sex with Him...i'd love to...and He knows it!  it's just i'd like this bod to be a source of pleasure for me and Him...not to pick up some disease.  i respect Him so much and want to surrender to Him so much.... but do i want to die or risk some ghastly illness?....

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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

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ORIGINAL: new4U2use
Thanks for all the advice. I doubt any guys will agree to have BJ's with condoms. So be it... I am learning to be a sub but I prefer to be a safe sub and not end up with something I dont want.

So here is a tip on how to get a condom on a guy for a blow job without even asking.  Unwrap the condom before you have the date, stick it in your bra or somewhere easy to get too.  Make sure you remember which side is up.  

Before you put your mouth on him, slip the condom into your mouth.  Hold the condom in front but against your teeth with your lips.  When you slide his cock into your mouth, hold the rim of the condom in place with your teeth and suck his cock into it and your mouth at the same time.  If he is excited at the time, he won’t even notice you slipped a glove on his love for a while… sometimes, they don’t know until after they cum. 

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ORIGINAL: mya75

I am glad you are here asking for advice ...but I really have to ask are you even an adult?..........Please get educated on sex and diseases and proper ways to protect yourself..In fact take a class  or go speak to someone..Health Dept,Doctors Office,Local Clinic...your local College......*is amazed*

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ORIGINAL: malloves69

a hand job with no condom is better then a blow job with a condom as far as im concerned ..thats like doing daty using a dental dam ..if you have to do it that way why bother ??? mal