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MadameMarque -> RE: One Night Stands (10/16/2007 10:21:08 PM)
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ORIGINAL: FatDomDaddy
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ORIGINAL: laurell3
exactly what I was attempting to point out IN GENERAL, unfortunately it's usually women perpetuating it against women.
And more to the point, its usually unhappy, bitter, fearful and often jaded women, who pounce the hardest.
Why is it the point to randomly cast aspersions on others? It doesn't help make a point, it just increases the animousity. Do you think that these remarks will make them any happier, less fearful, less bitter?
Besides, personally, I don't want to hear a man dump on women, as a group, for not being quicker to overcome the fear of being sexual that men have inculcated in them, for centuries. You can find plenty of examples of it, even right here, on this forum, despite the fact that it should, theoretically, be a bastion of sexual liberation; this thread is just one case in point. Easy for a male to sit back and say what women should do about sex. Next time you grow up female, in this world, you can share about that with some understanding of it.
How easy it is, to insult a female. Females are damned if they're sexy and damned if they aren't. We're made ashamed and afraid to be sexual, yet encouraged to feel we must be. If she's sexy and sexual, she's a slut, an airhead, immoral, inappropriate, "asking for it," a threat, a dirty secret, not worthy of respect or dignity; if she's not, she's a prude, bitter, fearful, cold, a b_tch. Either way, she's the object of scorn.
It is sad that women carry on the persecution, against each other. But this is what happens, in any group of people who are persecuted long enough; they begin to carry it out, against themselves and each other.
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