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RE: What Would You Do If Your Folks Found Out - 1/6/2008 8:08:38 AM

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Beside the obvious (that my parents have passed on); my father knew, my mother suspected.

My sister knows. My brother knew (and he has also passed on).

So, basically, if my family walked in, it would be my sister and three ghosts. And that just sounds like the beginning of a bad joke.

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RE: What Would You Do If Your Folks Found Out - 1/6/2008 8:34:07 AM

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My parents don't have keys to our home. My sister does but I've told her to always call before coming over.My ex-husband does have the keys he doesn't come visit uninvited either. We're careful when and how we play if my son is here (he's three and it'd be a bit hard to explain why it's ok that mommy is being "hurt").

I did have a sort of situation when I was visiting at my mom's house and went to sauna with my mom. I usually wear this velvet choker with a small lock (I have another collar for other situations as well). I take it off when I sleep or go to shower or something like that but this time I'd forgotten to take the key with me. So I wore it at sauna. My mom looked at me weird and asked what on earth is the collar thing I'm wearing. I most certainly did not tell her what the "Collar thing" I'm wearing is. She's already convinced that I have mental problems and should see a therapist. I don't want to add oil to the fire.

I told her that it's in fact a choker and I'm wearing it in sauna because I forgot the key.

I think my mom's already used to me wearing what she thinks are terrible clothes, so she didn't ask anything more.

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RE: What Would You Do If Your Folks Found Out - 1/6/2008 8:42:36 AM

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my folks know...

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RE: What Would You Do If Your Folks Found Out - 1/6/2008 8:50:38 AM

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ORIGINAL: Badpunzel

Beside the obvious (that my parents have passed on); my father knew, my mother suspected.

My sister knows. My brother knew (and he has also passed on).

So, basically, if my family walked in, it would be my sister and three ghosts. And that just sounds like the beginning of a bad joke.

LOL not to minimize the loss; but that was actually pretty funny

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RE: What Would You Do If Your Folks Found Out - 1/6/2008 8:57:06 AM

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My father's elderly and in poor health. He wouldn't understand. Which is why whether he's here or we're staying there, we use the bedroom lock.

We play heavily only when the ums are out for the day because if home, we don't want them overhearing exuberant screaming.

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RE: What Would You Do If Your Folks Found Out - 1/6/2008 9:32:57 AM

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I'd call 911 because my mother would definitely have a heart attack.

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RE: What Would You Do If Your Folks Found Out - 1/6/2008 10:50:21 AM

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My folks already know. My mom walked in on me just after I started college. I was completely encased in rubber, hooded and gagged, and self-hogtied. My mom and dad were supposed to be gone for the whole day, but decided to come home early. Goody! I never heard them drive up. All of a sudden, I hear an, "Oh my God!" and my bedroom door slam shut. I was more amused than embarassed. I untied myself, stripped off the rubber, and strolled into the livingroom like nothing happened. Hell, I didn't care. For three days, neither of them would look at me...LOL. They survived the initial scare and while my dad thinks I'm a loon and doesn't understand it, my mom is much more cool about it. In fact, when she found out I was talking to a new domme and knowing I was a serious rubber lover, her first question was, "Is she into rubber, too?" It was fucking priceless!

They both know I'm submissive, they both know I'm a huge rubberist, they know my girlfriend is also my domme and goes by the name Mistress, and they know I consider myself owned property. Life is good!

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RE: What Would You Do If Your Folks Found Out - 1/6/2008 10:55:09 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Badpunzel

Beside the obvious (that my parents have passed on); my father knew, my mother suspected.

My sister knows. My brother knew (and he has also passed on).

So, basically, if my family walked in, it would be my sister and three ghosts. And that just sounds like the beginning of a bad joke.

LOL not to minimize the loss; but that was actually pretty funny

No worries, IrishMist. Sometimes life works out to be funnier than I could even begin to imagine, you know?

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RE: What Would You Do If Your Folks Found Out - 1/6/2008 11:52:13 AM

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I have a situation where this very thing could easily happen - not with my folks walking in on us, but my sister and her family or my brother and his.

My parents are snow birds. They leave Michigan in November and don't come back till May. I live 3 miles from their house. Consequently I get the job of taking care of the house till they get home.

I have their full permission to use the house as I see fit so long as I clean up after myself. This means I can have parties, or whatever there. All of us have that privilege.

Because I have other family members who live with me and don't want to make them leave, my Master and I frequently use my folks' house. It's nice. It's close. I can make dinner and we can do what we want while at the same time, I can be close to home in case the people there need me. We don't rack up hotel bills and it's a lovely time.

The fact is though that my sister or my brother and their respective families can roll up at any time. All of us have keys. Because my brother lives in IL, when he comes to see his daughter, he stays at my folks' house. He's likely to come in at any time of the day or night, but doesn't come often enough for me to be "too" worried. However, precisely because he arrives late at night, he's the one I am most concerned about but also have the best handle on

I have an arrangement with his ex-wife. When he's due to come in to see his daughter, she calls me to tell me he's on his way that weekend. We stay away. She knows about me and is very cool with it.

However, my sister is another story altogether. My only saving grace there is that we're there most often in the evening and that's the time she's most often home all tucked in for the night. The biggest problem would be mornings and/or afternoons. Mornings, we're not really doing any sessioning, but the afternoon is an entirely different story.

Her husband has known for years. She's gone to vanilla events with me that were attended by mostly lifestyle people. If she hasn't figured it out by now, well then... HELLO!! (only problem is that her husband is not exactly the step up to the plate and tell her to shut up kind of guy...he'd go along with whatever she wanted to do.

And the repurcussions? I'd probably never see my nephew again.

juliet

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RE: What Would You Do If Your Folks Found Out - 1/6/2008 12:31:25 PM

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my apologies to the respected MadameCris for the abuse, (and between us i love the vanilla cone next to Your name..) Should i mention to the world that You where my ex Mistress who brought me out of my shell first?? Honestly its not fair that She gets the vanilla cone and me the handcuffs with the twisted remark.. Anyways going back to the topic, i would say this to the relative that would have me before there sight... : If they have survived the stroke shock or unexpected heart attack.. Mine due there are some people who would love to see me in this state they would just grab a seat by the couch get the pop corn and coke and enjoy the session, (nothing to do with BDSM but just for the fact they see me suffer). To the others who would be shocked i would just explain by : i just have these erotic feelings at time to be subjected to demeaning tasks... While i'm on that i might as well add some weights on my genitalia, maybe wear some handcuffs so i cant escape, OH!! the rack came with the TV set as part of the furniture but its only in black IKEA didn't have a yellow version... Do you like my new cbt3000??? Cool isn't it?? it even comes with prickles to hurt me when erected... When i'm asked of who my partner is, thats the easiest of explanations : She is my Mistress that i worship and really She just comes to whack me receive Her tributes and then goes back to Her boyfriend to have real sex.. How would one understand all this before they suggest i seek help?

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RE: What Would You Do If Your Folks Found Out - 1/6/2008 12:34:04 PM

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Tell them to knock next time.

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RE: What Would You Do If Your Folks Found Out - 1/6/2008 12:38:21 PM

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ORIGINAL: Badpunzel

Beside the obvious (that my parents have passed on); my father knew, my mother suspected.

My sister knows. My brother knew (and he has also passed on).

snipped

So, obviously, has the OP. Sheesh! January must be re-hash old thread month. There are dates in the upper left corner there for anyone to read.

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RE: What Would You Do If Your Folks Found Out - 1/6/2008 12:50:17 PM

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They'd just walk into the door and be like, "Ooh your busy, excuse me"

lol Here too!

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RE: What Would You Do If Your Folks Found Out - 1/6/2008 3:34:31 PM

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What would you do if your family walked in on by accident in the middle of a scene?

Mine are in Heaven so they probably watch everything we do.

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RE: What Would You Do If Your Folks Found Out - 1/6/2008 4:00:01 PM

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My mum did the same thing when she didn't announce/warn she was in the city and saw a sub she thought was 'just a friend of Mine' kneeling in a tux and suckling My breast to say 'good night' after an evening at the symphony, as I did when I walked in on Dad grabbing her ass and french-kissing her:

get the hell out of there, feel embarrassed about it but realise it's normal, and never speak of it!
Works for us ;-)

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RE: What Would You Do If Your Folks Found Out - 1/6/2008 4:34:02 PM

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I have had a recurring dream that my dad and his gf (my dad is adamantly opposed to the the lifestyle. he doesn't know.) get invited to a play party, his gf,(who seems to be more openminded sexually.) knows a couple that are there. Just when I am about to end a pretty hot scene,(different one everytime.) I see them, eyes wide and jaws to the floor. Another version is that a friend of the couple (who turns out to by my Mistress.) introduces herself, and says I am her new sub. (without a stitch of clothing on, of course!)
*shudders*
I think my brother already knows. A few months ago I decided to talk about my interests on a vanilla dating site. (more on the topping end though.) a day or later, I was looking at the "who has viewed me list, and came across his profile, considering it only had the date of when he looked and not the time, I saw that he looked on the same day that i changed it. Of course then again he works some strange hours! He hasn't mentioned anything about what he saw. Though my dad did casually mention that my brother has seen a few of my profiles on various sites.

Another dream I had was that my bf/sub and I were visiting my mom for dinner, and at one point, she notices the restraint marks on his wrists. she gives me a raised eyebrow. I just smirk and wink. she rolls her eyes. lol.

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RE: What Would You Do If Your Folks Found Out - 1/6/2008 5:53:17 PM

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I would hate to be a dirty secret therefore I already have plans to inform my parents of my lifestyle choice..

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RE: What Would You Do If Your Folks Found Out - 1/6/2008 5:59:52 PM

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Mom: "My little baby boy! How could this have happened? Why?"

Me: "I don't know. Probably because of something you did raising me."

I laughed at this because this was the exact answer I gave my mom when she saw I got my first tattoo. It was a joke of course, but I told her that if all four of her daughters had gotten tattoos, she probably didn't raise us properly. hehehe...

She eventually laughed, too, while shaking her head in that "mom" way.

If my family walked in on us, dear lord... I would just die a thousand deaths.

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RE: What Would You Do If Your Folks Found Out - 1/7/2008 1:04:52 PM

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What would you do if your family walked in on by accident in the middle of a scene?

Wonder what on earth they were doing with access to my house.

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RE: What Would You Do If Your Folks Found Out - 1/7/2008 1:07:11 PM

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Easy... ask them to shut the door please.

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