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MaitresseEden -> RE: discipline during pregnancy (8/27/2004 12:54:56 PM)
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I believe a woman can control her hormonal emotions .
To say this is possible, implys that people have total control over the chemical states of their body, if this was true mental illness and chemical imbalances would be self correctable. While it is true that meditation and general healthy practices can contribute to well-being, Woman and Men are incapable of controlling the biological output or lack thereof of Hormones into the blood stream. Pregnancy is a particularily difficult time hormonally, and some traverse it easily and others not so well. Conditions such as Post-Partum Depression, and loss of libido stem from hormonal changes. To imply that these are always within a persons control is bit far fetched. Further more... Men to have hormonal changes and often times experience a lack of testerone or Androgen and have diminshed sex drives, and other maladies. If it was as simple as thinking oneself well, there would be a lot of doctors and pharmacutical companies out of business.
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What she is failing to tell you is she HATES when she has toe be spanked, because I do not spank lightly. And when I use the Lexan or Oak paddle she almost cringes. But until then, I love lisa very much, despite her ability to step in it.
I understand the gist of what you are both trying to say, The question I have is why are you limiting her instruction and discipline to solely the paddle? Are there not other means of accomplishing the same thing?
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And I by no means, want her hurt or the baby, so I will play it safe, and let her get one by me, but remember lisa, I have a very good memory!!!!
Please do not take this as a personal slam or attack. It is not meant to be that way. I think what I and perhaps others are bothered by in this comment is the whole concept of "Getting one by you". I don't think of pregancy and the hormonal crankiness as something that someone is trying intentionally to "pull" on you. Carrying and kicking baby, the extra fluid and the mass of hormones that have not been present in the body any other time, takes getting used to and are often beyond comprehension to anyone who has not experienced it. You and yours are free to live your D/s however you choose, and that is to be respected. Personally speaking I find keeping a score card of infractions incurred while under the influence of pregnancy, to be addressed at a later date to be rather unjust.
Just my .02
Ms. Eden
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