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RE: OMG WTF Do I do? - 1/6/2008 10:40:08 AM

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One of the reason that she is no longer with us was due to her inability to run. Poor thing. If she were still alive I am sure she would have appreciated all of your concerns and heartfelt messages.

In the future it might be of more use to respond to the poor lost saps who frequent this site that can still draw a breath.

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RE: OMG WTF Do I do? - 1/6/2008 10:57:37 AM

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perhaps she did the smartest thing and made a new profile because she might have meet him on here

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I now have a new rule for myself about reading or posting to threads on the message board.... in the future I will read the OPs profile before continueing to read or post ..and if it has disappeared I will assume it is a fake posted only to garner attention, and not waste any more time or thought on it.

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RE: OMG WTF Do I do? - 1/6/2008 12:03:12 PM

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Run!!! If this so-called Dom is threatening to commit suicide, he has major problems that he needs to deal with. Because of your youth, he is trying to use you. It is a trap. Imagine what will happen when the two of you are alone. Who knows what other mental poblems he has. One thing I have learned is to pay attention to the red flags. This is a red flag slapping you in the face.

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RE: OMG WTF Do I do? - 1/6/2008 12:35:28 PM

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Considering this thread is over 2 months old and the OP no longer has a profile, one can assume various things have happened in the interim:
a) she broke his other leg so he'd have something to really whine about
b) she told him to grow up and get a life
c) she grew up and got a life
d) she joined him on the bridge and, holding hands, they both jumped

Sheesh!

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RE: OMG WTF Do I do? - 1/6/2008 12:53:07 PM

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call him and tell him "its been nice knowing ya"

gawd....

Exactly how freaking pathetic...where did you meet this guy?

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RE: OMG WTF Do I do? - 1/6/2008 4:52:47 PM

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And you haven't asked to be named the beneficiary of his life insurance policy? What ARE you thinking?

Most insurance policies have a sucide clause and wouldn't pay out anyway/

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RE: OMG WTF Do I do? - 1/6/2008 5:47:34 PM

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Thats pretty sad actually. You will do what feels right in the end but I believe you shuld consider that if he cant keep himself happy how can he keep you happy?

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RE: OMG WTF Do I do? - 1/6/2008 6:11:49 PM

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K, I met this Dom (met like we started talking on the phone), and we've been talking for almost a month. He's a lot older than me, and he started threatening to kill himself if I don't move in with him. He says he's walking to bridges and he loves me and can't live without me. I broke my leg earlier this week and I'm 20, and he wants me to get two of my friends to drive me up to his house at 2AM. I don't want him to kill himself, and I'm all confused and stuff. I really like him a lot, that's not a question, and we're really compatible, but I just don't know.

Run. Do not talk to this person any longer. You are NOT responsible for their health of well being. This person is emotionally blackmailing you and manipulating you. Run. Avoid. I don't think he will harm himself but if this crazy soul does it will have utterly nothing to do with you or your actions.

Run.
Run.
Run.

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RE: OMG WTF Do I do? - 1/6/2008 8:21:45 PM

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was'nt meant directly at you tempting, I just hit reply you happened to be above me

Swtn...I know it was not meant to be directed solely to me..however...I am one of the "bored" who responded...and of course I do realize it was an old thread...but sometimes resurrection can still be an interesting topic, and frankly, this is not an inconcievable scenerio in many possible abusive relationships..so to my way of thinking it can be a learning tool or at the least, informative.But I do apologise for the snarkiness of my reply to you....Tempting

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RE: OMG WTF Do I do? - 1/7/2008 5:45:10 AM

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Turn around and run away from him as fast as you can. If you truly think he's suicidal, call the police in his town and tell them what you've told us and let them deal with it.

~stef

Perfectly said. Does not matter of his true intention. It still is nothing but emotional blackmail and nothing but harm can come out of it for you.

To servez & stef, very well said. There's nothing else to add except.............

To the OP, GOOD GRIEF Girlfriend!! DO NOT pursue a relationship w/this man. He's likely to be the type, "If I can't have her, noone can" then we'll be reading about a murder/suicide!

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RE: OMG WTF Do I do? - 1/7/2008 6:03:55 AM

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If some woman doesn't immediately submit to some really dirty sex...I am going to kill myself!!!..........anyone really ...........waiting................you know you are gonna feel bad...........and it all your fault...

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RE: OMG WTF Do I do? - 1/7/2008 8:38:23 AM

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But I do apologise for the snarkiness of my reply to you....Tempting

No apology needed. I did not take your response as snarky.
all is good

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RE: OMG WTF Do I do? - 1/7/2008 9:28:17 AM

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This is ridiculous. If this guy is going to punch his own ticket, he is going to do it. But this really sounds like some weird manipulation thing. Not to mention its really pathetic within the whole Dom/sub dynamic. "I want to be your Dom, but I'm so weak and helpless that unless you, the sub, don't take control over the situation my life just isn't worth living." LAME. If you actually ignored all this advice and knuckled under this douche would be threatening to kill himself if you burned his morning pop tarts the next week.
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RE: OMG WTF Do I do? - 1/7/2008 10:25:07 AM

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She's dead. She's an ex theletter12. No more. Kaput.

So many responses for someone who passed on over two months ago. Perhaps you could all send some advice to Anna Nicole, I'm sure she would appreciate the thought.

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RE: OMG WTF Do I do? - 1/7/2008 11:18:10 AM

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K, I met this Dom (met like we started talking on the phone), and we've been talking for almost a month. He's a lot older than me, and he started threatening to kill himself if I don't move in with him. He says he's walking to bridges and he loves me and can't live without me. I broke my leg earlier this week and I'm 20, and he wants me to get two of my friends to drive me up to his house at 2AM. I don't want him to kill himself, and I'm all confused and stuff. I really like him a lot, that's not a question, and we're really compatible, but I just don't know.

He needs professional help.

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RE: OMG WTF Do I do? - 1/7/2008 11:43:22 AM

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Your title speaks to your need for drama..... OMG WTF..... Even at 20 you have to know this guy is shy a few nuts and bolts. You don't need any of us to tell you the obvious.

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RE: OMG WTF Do I do? - 1/7/2008 11:49:45 AM

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i agree with what people are saying. it is NOT your responcibilty to let this so called DOM do this to you. one that can not control himself can not control any one else!!
he is weak, he is coniving, he is a jackass and a user, he is a fake!
Run, right after you call the police in his town and tell them.

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RE: OMG WTF Do I do? - 1/7/2008 12:02:31 PM

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RED ALERT!! This is a WARNING!
This is a DOM with serious mental and Codendency issues!!

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RE: OMG WTF Do I do? - 1/7/2008 1:53:25 PM

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Okay, seriously....i hate to have to do this....(damm it!!!) but i agree with domiguy.....She's dead....He's dead....They killed each other in a mass double murder suicide thing...And everyone's dead.....Well...everyone except for me, domiguy......oh yeah...and jefff....perhaps Ron to.....

Seriously though....FOR THE LOVE OF ALL THAT IS BOTH HOLY AND UNHOLY CAN WE LET THIS THREAD DIE!!!!????

You are no returned to Your normal posters.

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RE: OMG WTF Do I do? - 1/7/2008 2:05:02 PM

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go spank somebody and not reply..LOL

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