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RE: Proactive vs. Radioactive subs - 11/10/2007 8:27:41 AM

MystressDream

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As a submissive, i can certainly see such a difference between "radioactive" and "proactive". Almost an evolution, a mental and emotional progression possibly, well maybe for me as i matured into submission.
i believe the "proactive" kind is where the true submission lies, and where the exhange of Power can begin. To reach this "proactive" stage, i feel one needs to "let go" of pre-conceived beliefs and wants and desires about what a D/s relationship "should" be, about how his/her Dominant "should" interact. By letting go, one embraces his/her true self, and exposes his/her bare emotional canvas for the Dominant to better know him/her.
This "letting go" takes time and efforts, but nothing has been more worth it (to me). Embracing your submissive self to then truly be able to serve your Dominant and please Him/Her, not the other way around.
Thank You for this thread, it was refreshing!
unravel

Mmmm... a post from a submissive who understands... <smile> How wonderfully refreshing.

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RE: Proactive vs. Radioactive subs - 11/10/2007 9:07:20 AM

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Here's a little different perspective.

Proactive: asks if I would like to see a picture, then sends a few recent snapshots.
Radioactive: Sends me a glamour or porn pic found on the Internet somewhere.

Proactive: shows up for a daily chat session at the promised time.
Radioactive: Fails to show, then sends an IM with a buzz at 4 AM, even though my status is "Not here now".
Dangerously radioactive: Sends me an IM every hour

Proactive: asks about my favorite play styles.
Radioactive: Asks how big my cock is, then asks for a picture of it

Proactive: Says she will undertake whatever tasks I wish of her, including holding down a job to help support the household.
Radioactive: Asks if I will keep her naked or in bondage in my house all day and night, so she can serve me better. Reminds me that she doesn't do housework.

Proactive: Says that she will be open to any sexual activity that pleases me.
Radioactive: Wants to know if I will arrange gangbangs for her, and share her with my friends, because she is too horny for any one man to satisfy.

Proactive: agrees to a first meet somewhere between our homes.
Radioactive: Asks me to get her a plane ticket, and pay a bribe so she can get a visa.

Proactive: asks about job opportunities in her field in my town.
Radioactive: asks if she and her three kids can move in next weekend.

< Message edited by GrizzlyBear -- 11/10/2007 9:09:12 AM >

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RE: Proactive vs. Radioactive subs - 11/10/2007 11:00:37 AM

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Practive: opens the door
Radioactive:walks through it first

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