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what is most desirable - 7/2/2004 8:15:34 AM

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**bows head in respect to all Mistresses/Goddesses**

Mistresses/Goddesses, what do you value most in a slave?

do You agree with or like my thoughts listed below?

a slave must always be willing to put his/Her best into whatever his/Her Mistress/Goddess has in mind for him/Her.

what is a good slave to me? "A winner is a looser that keeps on trying", so therefore, if you try hard enough you will become the slave that your Mistress/Goddess desires you to be, your only limit is you.

i can only hope that i will be excepted by a very strict Mistress/Goddess, so that i will be slow to error, and think before i act, unless the act be that of my Mistress/Goddess command.

a wise slave is quiet, and he/She does listen to the words of his/Her Mistress/Goddess, so that he/She will learn how to act, and know what is expected of him/Her in advance.

i seek to learn, so that i may better educate myself in the ideas of all FemDom's. help me to be perfected Ma'am's.

RE: what is most desirable - 7/2/2004 8:50:58 AM

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First of all Hello :)
All Dommes are different I have found and require different things from a boy. Some may love pain sluts others love a perfect serve. If I had to pick something that I think ALL Dommes like it would be an honest and sincere boy. I would say most also do not like Topping from the bottom.
My advice would to be putting more effort into finding your future Mistress rather than guessing what she might like. That of course is just my opinion. TO EACH HIS OWN Mistress Jenny

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RE: what is most desirable - 7/2/2004 9:29:45 AM

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thank you Mistress Jenny, for your reply.

what should i look for in a Domme? what would you suggest?

i am interested in your thoughts.

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RE: what is most desirable - 7/2/2004 12:37:33 PM

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quote:

i can only hope that i will be excepted by a very strict Mistress/Goddess, so that i will be slow to error, and think before i act, unless the act be that of my Mistress/Goddess command.

Just a meaningless correction. (Before the bad spellers get in a snit, this is THE WRONG WORD THAT MEANS THE OPPOSITE OF WHAT HE WANTS TO SAY.) "i will be accepted" and "i will be excepted" mean different things.

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RE: what is most desirable - 7/2/2004 12:40:08 PM

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First and foremost I look for a submissive mind set. The fact that you list what you CAN do, not what you want from a Domme, is a large plus. Next is manners, these are very very important, at least to the Dommes I know. Availability is another must. It does no good to have the perfect demeanor, and excellent manners if you are not obtainable. Honesty, hold nothing back, but only when there is a safe avenue to do this. No real Domme wants a little boy so reckless as to endanger himself physically or exposure to the vanilla world. Be disease free. Those I believe are the basic musts. Good luck, enjoy the search as well as the end results. Sundew

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RE: what is most desirable - 7/2/2004 12:45:25 PM

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Smiling at iwill, compared to the massive amounts of misused and misspelled words I have run into among the posts and the profiles, this little one is doing extremely well. But I am sure he appreciates the assist. Nice to see that you are covering his cute little backside. Have a safe and wonderful day. Sundew

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RE: what is most desirable - 7/2/2004 12:48:18 PM

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Befor you go looking for a Mistress that suits your fantasies
look to your self and see in detail what it is that you seek
in your serivitude. For Me the issue with American slaves
has been truthfullness to their selfs and hence to Me. Most
have come to Me with a vision of what they would like to be
but only see the end result in their minds with out recognizing
whats needed to get to that point. Most stated experiance in
concensual total slavery 24/7 and masocistic tendancies with
a willingness to learn but when faced with such direction on a
daily 24/7 basis and concensually forced to such a end always
ended up finding that it is not nessisaraly what they had desired
and about half found they were not actually masocistic but mearly
fantizied that they were and found the truth was not like the dream.
what is most desirable to Me is a slave whom simply lives up to what
ever a slave states they are. When I say 24/7 LTPE, I dont mean
a week end or a vacation once a year or 4 months then a total Switcharoo
of a slave into this all of a suddent Dominant Man whom has been brought
to their realization that they were NOT a slave. LOL. Games for Me are
not desired and at 45 yrs young I dont waste My time with temporary servitude and its disheartning to have slaves left and right say they are
one thing but become sumthing else. Ive found this to be a problem I
have only faced here in the USA. Dont ask Me why. Maybe no one has
integrity in their word and horor here or sumthing, I just dont know. And I
dident mean to lump everyone in that comment together, I know its not the fact but Ive had 9 slaves this year whom fit this just such sentance and
feel My right in stating such. When I say I am a Alpha Dominant BBW Poly Sadist Mistress, I mean it FULLY. And that is what any slave can expect to
encounter when serving Me at all times of the day or night on call with out word. So I hope I have taught you a bit on what as a slave you should not
do, and understand I am only One Dominant Woman with One Womans opinion, but Im sure many have had the same experiances.

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RE: what is most desirable - 7/2/2004 11:06:57 PM

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Thank you everyone for corrections and also for your help in better understanding and learning. i need direction, and i need help to learn more and more, so that i will be able to make a good impression. i do know that i have some problems with spelling, but i do my best to run things threw a spell checker, so that i don't offend the Goddesses/Mistresses/Domes's. if i spell something wrong, please do correct me, for how can i change something i do wrong without corrections. Correction and punishments is to teach, and mold not just a thing for pleasure, but can also be used for that purpose. Thank you so much everyone

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RE: what is most desirable - 7/3/2004 5:08:51 AM

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FYI
desires
I am
a Dominant
whom prefers
to see a persons
misspellings as
I prefer the real
persons mind to
the computer
corrected one.
~smiles~

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RE: what is most desirable - 7/3/2004 9:05:25 AM

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quote:

I am
a Dominant
whom prefers
to see a persons
misspellings as
I prefer the real
persons mind to
the computer
corrected one.
~smiles~

I am curious MistressDread, what does it tell you about someone when you read a post or email with a lot of mispellings and poor grammar?

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RE: what is most desirable - 7/3/2004 10:22:40 AM

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The written word is after all a form of communication and is just as much a two-way street as any verbal discussion, and deserves the same respects we would pay anyone if we were speaking to them face to face. I wouldn't be so unkind as to blow off a sutterer as being an idiot, or the shy or socially inarticulate, or someone with English as a minor languag...if part of the problem is I'm not willing to make an effort into understanding what it is they are wanting to say.

Go hard Mistress Dread :) ... I'm with you, everything said or done on these boards by anyone of us at any given time...subtle and the not so subtle adds another layer to the *personality* behind the screen...and the use of incorrect words or syntax...doesnt always have to instantly scream stereotypical thoughts of *dumb* ... I tend to see a lot of these 'errors' as passion for a subject.

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RE: what is most desirable - 7/3/2004 12:04:57 PM

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a)"I was accepted for teaching position at Bristol Community College."

b)"I was excepted for teaching position at Bristol Community College."

One means I was hired by B.C.C. The other means they will anyone BUT me. It is not like spelling "teaching" as "teeching" or "teechin". I think he wanted to be accepted by a Domme, not be the last man on earth she'd see.

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RE: what is most desirable - 7/3/2004 3:50:06 PM

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I will put this in vanilla terms that can explain quite clearly why spelling is of importance to anyone seeking acceptance by another person. As iwill has stated, an incorrect letter can totally change the meaning the person is trying to convey. OR they may have a learning disability, ie dyslexia. Why should a person who was taught to sight read be penalized? It does not show a persons personality, nor their level of education to have copious amounts of incorrectly spelled words, as I know at least 20 PHDs that cannot spell peanut butter. So what do these highly educated people do when they are required to submit aritcles for publication? They use an editor and spell check TO communicate what they are really thinking. As always this is just my opinion. If you care enough to wish to communicate your thoughts, then do so as clearly as possible. Sundew

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RE: what is most desirable - 7/3/2004 3:50:08 PM

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You are telling me that you would give a well written letter and a poorly written letter the exact same attention? I find that hard to believe. When you are talking to someone in person, there are many factors that come into play. Body language, looks, sound of the voice, eye contact, etc. The written word has to stand all by itself. If you have something to say but can't say it in a way that is effective, fairly or unfairly it makes a difference.

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RE: what is most desirable - 7/3/2004 4:54:40 PM

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i am so sorry i miss used or spelt something wrong, i didn't intend to start a war here. please forgive me ill do myself and everyone else a favor and not post in this forum anymore. sorry everyone

PS: i do use a spell checker, and i do so out of respect to the Goddesses/Mistresses that could have an interest in me. i never judge anyone for spelling or if they use a spell check, but for me i believe if a slave is to lazy to at least run it threw a spell check, then he/She is not worthy. please keep in mind, this is my thoughts, and i am truly grateful for having someone correct me, as correction is always welcome. i have also corrected the miss used sentence in my profile, if anyone sees other errors please correct me. i am poor in my grammer :( and im not good with words sometimes.

< Message edited by Desires2BeOwned -- 7/3/2004 4:56:55 PM >

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RE: what is most desirable - 7/3/2004 5:09:41 PM

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warm smile, you did not start a war, this is an ongoing debate. Please post. Think of all the interesting people you can meet this way. Also in the boards is a discussion of a real time meet. No one is angry. Remember you came to learn, wicked smile. Now you know Dominants and submissives alike have opinions and are not backward about sharing them. Oh, and sweetpea? "run it through a spell check"

. You threw the ball through the door. Good luck and keep typing!!! Sundew

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RE: what is most desirable - 7/3/2004 5:17:54 PM

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Hello,

I stopped using spell checkers after I would discuss (for example) peurile antics and it would tell me that peurile was mispelled and not offer any suggestions as to the correct spelling for that words.

The only thing more irritating than that is when a grammar checker tells me there are no such thing as peurile antics.

Sinergy

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RE: what is most desirable - 7/3/2004 6:09:26 PM

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Don't worry about it. You made an honest mistake. We all do that. Hell, my first experience was disaster because I did not hear the word "not".

I can't count the number of times on various boards I've seen "oops, I meant to put "n't" on "can"" or I forgot the emoticon. No blood, no foul.

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When the Lady smiles i can't resist her call. As a matter of fact, i don't resist at all. Well that depends if it is a smile or a grimmace.

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RE: what is most desirable - 7/3/2004 6:16:07 PM

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My three favorite mistake of spell checkers are:
1) when I meant "from" but typed "form" and it doesn't catch it.
2) when I type "We do what we must. Must we not?" or some such and it asks if I meant to use the doubled word.
3) anything with poetry makes grammar checkers nuts.

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When the Lady smiles i can't resist her call. As a matter of fact, i don't resist at all. Well that depends if it is a smile or a grimmace.

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RE: what is most desirable - 7/3/2004 6:20:03 PM

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quote:

No blood, no foul

*soft laughter*

How true.

M. St Cyr

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