Najakcharmer -> RE: Your vanilla persona (11/9/2007 3:30:49 PM)
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There are many people who are "balancers", with a higher drive to dominate or to submit in their personal lives depending on how much or how little they are expected to express those tendencies at work. These people aren't necessarily all fixed at the same level of dominance or submission, but when the environment at work or at home pushes them further in one direction, they may feel a higher drive to go in the other direction. Personally, I'm fine with situationally deferring to someone who has practical reasons for needing to be in control of a situation or a task, and to some extent to someone who is paying fairly for my time, energy and expertise. They'll get what they pay for, which is to say my best efforts to perform competently and do the job well. I'm not at all comfortable with personally deferring on the job or anywhere else, so I don't. I generally try to keep my demeanor to "neutral, polite professional" outside of my personal environment, which is to say neither submissive nor dominant.
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