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RE: Your biggest high! - 11/12/2007 3:59:01 PM

Majik

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The look of love, trust and contentment on my boys face.

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RE: Your biggest high! - 11/12/2007 5:36:15 PM

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Oh my ...hmmm...tough choice there. My biggest high? Watching rook's eyes roll back in his head from pleasure.....or if I am being sadistic,the pleading in his eyes as he stands still taking what I dish out (secretly hoping I stop before he cries out)...now if he is hooded I just have to "feel" what I can not see. I adore feeling him through the hoods.

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RE: Your biggest high! - 11/12/2007 6:11:27 PM

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When shame/humiliation/fear mix fully with undeniable arousal and he can convey that with his eyes alone.

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RE: Your biggest high! - 11/12/2007 10:18:38 PM

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Do you enjoy the look for fear in your subs eyes?

My subs/slaves never submit to me out of fear. They submit to me out of respect and love.

Now.... a look of anticipation is fun to see... The "OMG, Mistress... what are you going to do to me now?" look. LOL

But, I agree with many others posting here.... The look in a strong man's eyes as he kneels at my feet, gazing up at me as I place my collar around his neck.... <sigh> What a wonderful feeling....

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RE: Your biggest high! - 11/20/2007 2:37:29 AM

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Ooo, I'm having a small internal bottleneck of responses to this question!

I get a huge thrill from seeing physical reactions to whatever I'm doing -- goosebumps, dialated pupils, engorgements of various sort. I also love that sharp intake of breath thing, love love love *love* it. I adore being the catalyst for a deeply cathartic experience. When I know I've helped someone work through something internally by what I've done externally, it leaves me bubbly for days.

A high of a different sort is when I see my girl holding the tag on her collar. She does it sometimes like a kid holding a teddy bear and doesn't even realize she's doing it.

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RE: Your biggest high! - 11/22/2007 7:57:44 AM

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I am a hardcore sadist, so I get a lot of My "high" from the pain play but within that that biggest turn on is how much My slave is willing to push its body to please Me. So then the top of that and the by far biggest high I get is when I can see that the slave is spent and suffering, but is still willing to hang on for Me longer. If the slave is crying and shaking and I ask, can you hold on a little longer for Me? The is the time I am really enjoying it more than the rest.

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RE: Your biggest high! - 11/22/2007 12:01:15 PM

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I have to agree with ItalianSMistress. I love those moments when the slave holds on beyond what they thought they could and doing it purely to please me.
Admitedly fear, nervousness, etc are all like foreplay to me in a way. They build the moment for me and get me higher and higher. When I've finally pushed the sub to the point where he 'gives in' emotionally, 'lets go' and 'breaks down' it is a most satisfying feeling and often leaves me with an indescribable high over the few hours.

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RE: Your biggest high! - 11/22/2007 12:29:16 PM

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ORIGINAL: catleggs

I have to agree with ItalianSMistress. I love those moments when the slave holds on beyond what they thought they could and doing it purely to please me.
Admitedly fear, nervousness, etc are all like foreplay to me in a way. They build the moment for me and get me higher and higher. When I've finally pushed the sub to the point where he 'gives in' emotionally, 'lets go' and 'breaks down' it is a most satisfying feeling and often leaves me with an indescribable high over the few hours.

Cat

I have to agree with that second statement also. The smell of fear can really get My blood pumping. That finally release when they can not hold it in anymore is wonderful too.

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RE: Your biggest high! - 11/23/2007 6:56:06 AM

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The look of love, trust and contentment on my boys face.

Explain nothing, your friends don't need it and your enemies won't believe you.

Amen Sister! (to both statements)

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RE: Your biggest high! - 11/24/2007 1:11:00 AM

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I agree, my biggest high is when I am flogging or paddling my pet. I get very wet from knowing that the intensity is wielding up in the both of us. I also get off knowing that she is enjoying every minute of being with me. I am higly turned on for days after we play...

I also find it irresistably hot to do CBT on a subbie male who REALLY enjoys the pain. I find myself dripping down my leg, knowing that I could probably rip his balls off, and he would still be hard from it.... (I know, I know just a little exaggeration but I can't help it

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RE: Your biggest high! - 11/24/2007 10:18:44 AM

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My biggest high came when I was working with a submissive that, because of mistreatment at the hands of his first Domme had gotten to the point he had "performance anxiety". Bear with me here; it was his first experience with a Mistress and she was cruel, pushed mental buttons without regards to the emotional damage she could and did inflict on him. The experience for him was devastating but he knew he wanted to be in a D/s relationship and that he wanted to submit. He learned not to be a doormat but because of his fear of Dommes and his lack of confidence when it came to sexual performance, even his attempts at vanilla relationships failed.

He has a female submissive friend and he confided in her. She talked to her Master, who is a friend of mine. My friend and I discussed this and the rest is history. I had to deprogram, build him up, allowed him to experience success and pride in serving me. No sexual focus at all, no expectation of him performing (intercourse) other than to provide body worship.

Slowly he began to trust me and in doing so he began to open and become more receiptive to what I was doing.

The day I mounted him (because I wanted it!) while he was in his harness, riding crop in my hand, and rode him to my satisfaction, there was no fear in his eyes but a new found confidence and trust. He remained erect and that pleased me. I gave him permission to release. Ahh there it was subspace!

When he came down, he kneeled to me, placed his face in my lap, took my hand and placed it on the back of his neck and said, "I am yours Mistress." Then he cried. No shame in my game.... I DID TOO!!!!

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RE: Your biggest high! - 11/25/2007 4:25:04 AM

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When he came down, he kneeled to me, placed his face in my lap, took my hand and placed it on the back of his neck and said, "I am yours Mistress." Then he cried. No shame in my game.... I DID TOO!!!!

Ms. Faye

Now that is what I call true D/s... You observed, worked with your subbie, obtained satisfaction, and then you both equally released your happiness (and hella relief) to one another...

What a lucky boy to have a Mistress like you...

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