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RE: "Fake" accusations - 11/10/2007 11:29:14 PM

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...i just got a message from xxxxxxxx...

i recieved one from him as well and it was quite ugly. When i went to reply, i discovered i was blocked. i think he must send derogatory messages and then immediately block the person so they can't message back. i would bet he is a highschooler based on the comment i recieved...if not, someone in desperate need of therapy~

Oh good, I thought it was just me. He sent me a disgusting email as well, same MO, he blocked me. I sent his email to support, but I see his profile is still up and he is sending sickening emails to other women. And it says he is an older guy, but who knows.

I wonder why this is allowed when it happens to more than one of us?

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RE: "Fake" accusations - 11/10/2007 11:57:27 PM

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I get called fake all the time. It gets old after a while, but it does sting initially - even if you don't know the person, even if it's just words on a screen.
Let's see, roll call: I've been called a 'whore', 'slut', 'cunt', 'dude', 'loser', 'leech', 'traitor to My race', 'sickening', and I've recieved two death threats.

Wooooooooo.

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RE: "Fake" accusations - 11/11/2007 12:43:57 AM

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I am just glad the hateful morons are online harrassing people insead of making bombs in the basement or torturing the neighbor's cat.

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RE: "Fake" accusations - 11/11/2007 7:32:14 AM

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lol geeze you are popular you must be doing something right lol

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RE: "Fake" accusations - 11/11/2007 7:51:21 AM

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I'm here for the chats also, but I kept being pestered by men who can't read. So I created this profile, made it unattractive to most men, and now I don't have to deal with unwelcome emails anymore! LOL!

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RE: "Fake" accusations - 11/11/2007 8:15:51 AM

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I have to agree with Estring, never ever give someone else your power. Especially in situations like this. People will come and go and say whatever they like, but when you give it credence or power-you give them control. And guess what, most don't even care that you have.

Remember not all like-minded people are the same.

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RE: "Fake" accusations - 11/11/2007 11:13:02 AM

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I think i am having a sapranos moment

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RE: "Fake" accusations - 11/11/2007 11:25:04 AM

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

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ORIGINAL: dawntreader

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ORIGINAL: Michaelsangel

...i just got a message from xxxxxxx...

i recieved one from him as well and it was quite ugly. When i went to reply, i discovered i was blocked. i think he must send derogatory messages and then immediately block the person so they can't message back. i would bet he is a highschooler based on the comment i recieved...if not, someone in desperate need of therapy~

Oh good, I thought it was just me. He sent me a disgusting email as well, same MO, he blocked me. I sent his email to support, but I see his profile is still up and he is sending sickening emails to other women. And it says he is an older guy, but who knows.

I wonder why this is allowed when it happens to more than one of us?

No offense, but yes report the message to Support, but in the grand scheme of things, he is (I'm sure based on what I received) not the only idiot to email you. If he emails you once, it will be only once if you block it after you report. Is it really worth the drama of " why is this allowed when it happens to more than one of us"? I'm sure there are worse emails and other support issues galore to the powers that be, and although I bet it is on the list, I imagine that list is quite long and other things need to be taken care of first. Just a guess on my part.

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RE: "Fake" accusations - 11/11/2007 11:31:17 AM

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I would like to post the fake accusation that mnottertail is not at all concerned about getting head, but anybody who wants to 'change' him, is welcome to try.

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RE: "Fake" accusations - 11/11/2007 12:57:59 PM

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

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ORIGINAL: dawntreader

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ORIGINAL: Michaelsangel

...i just got a message from xxxxxxxxx...

i recieved one from him as well and it was quite ugly. When i went to reply, i discovered i was blocked. i think he must send derogatory messages and then immediately block the person so they can't message back. i would bet he is a highschooler based on the comment i recieved...if not, someone in desperate need of therapy~

Oh good, I thought it was just me. He sent me a disgusting email as well, same MO, he blocked me. I sent his email to support, but I see his profile is still up and he is sending sickening emails to other women. And it says he is an older guy, but who knows.

I wonder why this is allowed when it happens to more than one of us?

No offense, but yes report the message to Support, but in the grand scheme of things, he is (I'm sure based on what I received) not the only idiot to email you. If he emails you once, it will be only once if you block it after you report. Is it really worth the drama of " why is this allowed when it happens to more than one of us"? I'm sure there are worse emails and other support issues galore to the powers that be, and although I bet it is on the list, I imagine that list is quite long and other things need to be taken care of first. Just a guess on my part.

Excuse me for putting that so "dramatically". Believe me, I have not wasted another moment's thought after I posted that in reaction to the other two women who expressed concern over this same guy's heinous emails.

And yes, we all get tons of emails and neither I nor most others I would venture, have a hissy fit over it; it was just a rhetorical question and no one expected to support police to jump to attention.

Jeez.

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RE: "Fake" accusations - 11/11/2007 1:11:33 PM

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It sure sounded like you did expect that since you made a comment about 3 people out of almost 700,000 members (and I'm sure more got email from him) and yet you wondered why it was allowed to go on...I imagine that for every disgusting email I get, at least 50 other dommes get the same cut and paste sick stuff...I still do not wonder why it is allowed to go on. Sorry for answering your rhetorical question....I thought it was an actual question, and not just a rant.....again my apologies. I mistakenly thought that ? on the end of a group of words was asking for an answer/input.

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RE: "Fake" accusations - 11/11/2007 1:14:00 PM

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no problem; I forget that this is online and typing is not the equivalent of thinking "out loud", LOL

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RE: "Fake" accusations - 11/11/2007 1:18:56 PM

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Refer him to Lowered ExpectationsThis one is waiting for him.

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RE: "Fake" accusations - 11/11/2007 1:20:37 PM

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Hell, I'm lucky if I even think quietly, smiles.....

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RE: "Fake" accusations - 11/11/2007 7:51:02 PM

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Hello, I'm getting off to the wrong start here maybe, but I have to respond to this thread before I even introduce Myself properly. Some of Y/you may know my sub, Michaelsangel. she and others have been harrassed here recently by one who represents themselves as a Dom.
I am quite offended by this person, and the blatent disrespect shown not only to my sub but to other in here as well. This is supposed to be a SAFE place, where W/we treat E/each O/other with respect, regardless of our status.
I am very gratefied as well by the amount of positive feedback and support offered to those who were attacked by this @%#$@#$.
SrMichael

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RE: "Fake" accusations - 11/11/2007 7:52:56 PM

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No, it ain't.

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RE: "Fake" accusations - 11/11/2007 8:48:59 PM

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Hello, I'm getting off to the wrong start here maybe, but I have to respond to this thread before I even introduce Myself properly. Some of Y/you may know my sub, Michaelsangel. she and others have been harrassed here recently by one who represents themselves as a Dom.
I am quite offended by this person, and the blatent disrespect shown not only to my sub but to other in here as well. This is supposed to be a SAFE place, where W/we treat E/each O/other with respect, regardless of our status.
I am very gratefied as well by the amount of positive feedback and support offered to those who were attacked by this @%#$@#$.
SrMichael

Well who knows, maybe you are and maybe you aren't..but since this is the internet, I would say you were actually in reality SAFE unless they lived close by to you to where they actually COULD attack you and your sub...other than that, it's the internet, turn the monitor off, or hit delete, and block, and POOF!!!

Welcome to the boards.

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RE: "Fake" accusations - 11/20/2007 12:37:03 AM

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Well who knows, maybe you are and maybe you aren't..but since this is the internet, I would say you were actually in reality SAFE unless they lived close by to you to where they actually COULD attack you and your sub...other than that, it's the internet, turn the monitor off, or hit delete, and block, and POOF!!!

Welcome to the boards.

Thanks for the welcome, Kc692.
Well, of course, the subs he has harassed through the private notes here are physicaly safe - that was not the safety I was refering to. Many people get upset by attacks, no matter that the attacker is just an anonimous line of typing. subs and slaves tend to be a little more vulnerable to this when the attacker is a self proclaimed Dom/me or Master.
In my subs case, she has personal challanges that make her even more vulnerable than normal to this. As her Dom, it is My responciblity to help her to feel safer and more confident, not only in real time/real life, but online as well. What kind of Dom am I if I can't even be bothered to stick up for her?
Practicly speaking, of course the answer for her and the others this jerk send nastygrams to is to block and forget him - and she has now done the blocking part. The forgetting part is harder. Nastiness has a way of bugging you far a while, and hurt feelings abide.
SrMichael

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RE: "Fake" accusations - 11/20/2007 12:51:59 AM

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Look at WHY you feel uncomfortable. Is it because you feel you have done something wrong...or is it because you have a 'need' for them to understand you...or something else entirely? Once you figure it out, you can start working on it...'cause how they feel about you and what you choose to do doesn't matter unless you make it matter.

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RE: Thank you - 11/20/2007 2:24:03 AM

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I believe that I able to claim some real achievements in the real-world BDSM role-play field, having run events here in the UK with my wife that have involved many hundreds or more probably thousands of people in day or days-long 'adult school', 'pony and pet-play', maid, Mistress and slave relationships, over 20 years of activity in the scene, pre-dating the internet.

I still get called a fake and a wannabe, by people for whom I decline to fit the stereotype of the person they are seeking. Or, though I have wide and deep experience in many fields, think that because I don't know as much about their little corner of expertise, I know nothing.

Most of the time, most of the people in this community will be 'on your side'. Certainly the majority on here, who have a life, who are in one or more long-lasting relationships and are secure in themselves. But they won't feel the need to say as much.

But you have to realise that most of the people seeking relationships on this board are failures themselves; either newbies who've not yet succeeded, those who've tried really hard and bnever succeeded, many who've had lots of relationships that never lasted long and so on.

Usually the reasons for not succeeding are pretty obvious to everyone but the person concerned.Failure hurts, it eats into a body. And the last thing many of these people will want to do is to look at themselves, analyse and realise why they're failing and do something about it.

It is much easier to blame others, to turn around and lay the responsibility for their own failures on those other people, because accepting responsibility for themselves and their own failings is really, really gonig to hurt.

So pay them no heed. Be polite and firm in telling them to go away. Then block them.

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