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breatheasone -> RE: Who has influenced you the most? (11/11/2007 11:56:33 AM)

I would say for lifestyle purposes my friend Paul. He is a wonderful kind and patient man...He taught me alot about myself and the lifestyle. He is also the most sadistic Dom i have ever met lol, yeah...He is definetly NOT for the faint of heart LOL .....Thanks Paul...you are the best !




Prinsexx -> RE: Who has influenced you the most? (11/11/2007 12:19:03 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Faramir
Reading through his process of repudiating his sexuality helped me decide how mine could be ethical and virtuous.


I love this answer.





cheekysmile -> RE: Who has influenced you the most? (11/11/2007 1:02:08 PM)

the most influential Domme in my life is ShiftedJewel, and Dominant ScooterTrash, and their lovely tess. without Ttheir input in my life i would not seriously be where i am now in this lifestyle and in real time.

Thank Yyou

*blushes and goes to hide*

cheeky 




sexyred1 -> RE: Who has influenced you the most? (11/11/2007 1:06:42 PM)

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ORIGINAL: KnightofMists

Ironically.. the person that influenced me the most is the one that contributed to the most negative of my experiences of my life.


Yes, I agree. My most intense D/s experience was my longest, most passionate, most hurtful, most heartbreaking, most life changing, and the one I learned the most from about me, and what I will and will not accept in the future.

Otherwise, I gleaned knowledge from many sources since I discovered this back in my teens.




Prinsexx -> RE: Who has influenced you the most? (11/11/2007 2:24:42 PM)

And of course the protagonists, antagonists and simple agonists here on Collar........everyday day I learn so much here....and dare I say it......(please feel free to stick your fingers down your throats) the one forum that now feels like a spiritual home.

Prinsexx





FullCircle -> RE: Who has influenced you the most? (11/11/2007 2:27:14 PM)

I’ve been most influenced by Ghandi and live a life of non confrontation and peaceful protest. [8|]




shyinini -> RE: Who has influenced you the most? (11/11/2007 4:01:17 PM)

A dom I met years ago in a "strange" cam/chat room.
Even though he travels alot, we still speak via IM whenever he sees me on.  It is good to be friends.
 
Sir's devoted property




TemptingNviceSub -> RE: Who has influenced you the most? (11/11/2007 4:16:48 PM)

2 Dominants, who shall remain confidential. Their intelligience, standards, and irrefutably creative  minds have assisted in the understanding and shaping of my own submission. They both have always generously given of their experiences, good and bad while giving me plenty of room for self growth and introspection...Tempting




MasterFireMaam -> RE: Who has influenced you the most? (11/11/2007 4:22:34 PM)

Mistress Angelique and the women of FAD
Master Scott
slavette
Master Skip Chasey
slave alia
slave carolyne
Master Steve Sampson
slave kirk
SlaveMaster
slave nick
Master Taino

The bulk of these still influence me today.

Master Fire




CreativeDominant -> RE: Who has influenced you the most? (11/13/2007 11:49:17 AM)

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ORIGINAL: MissSCD

Greetings:
 
I happened to make contact with my former Mentor/Master last evening.  I recall talking with him for hours about the lifestyle when I began my journey. In the beginning, I tought I was a submissive, but found out I was Domme. 
We lost contact for a few months, and I  missed him terribly.  Some how I was able to sign into my old account on MSN and contact him.
I was so lost without not being able to talk to him.  He is a great friend.  Now we will stay in touch.
My question to you as a web site is who influenced your journey from the beginning of your quest of this lifestyle?  He taught me a lot.  He and my slave have taught me a lot about style and technique.
You all have a wonderful day.
 
Regards, MissSCD


There have been numerous influences though I cannot say I have found any to be more profound than anyone else.  I have found some to touch deeper aspects of me and who have encouraged deeper thought.  They have come from both the dominant and submissive side. 
My three submissives have all influenced me with only one of them being more of a negative nature and yet, in terms of showing me what I don't want or deserve in terms of bad treatment, her influence could be considered positive.  Actually, it has been some of the negative experiences that have really helped to focus things more clearly for me.  While the positive experiences taught me and encouraged me in what I have sought and made me feel like I had made...and was continuing to make...right decisions for myself in terms of coming to accept this within myself, the negative ones brought a clarity and a wary caution that, while not debilitating in the least, has instead been helpful.
I've learned from a newbie whose push to know more has pushed me intellectually and to find reserves of patience I was not sure I had anymore.




Tigrita -> RE: Who has influenced you the most? (11/13/2007 12:31:07 PM)

Well, there's the sweetie pie vanilla college sweetheart who made me realize I'd never be satisfied by a sweetie pie...

There is the cocky, selfish bad-ass who made me realize what I was missing before was a cocky, selfish bad-ass...

There was the tough-guy intellectual who took it to the next level and made me his...

And there is the man I'm with now who has really opened the floodgates of S&M, D/s submission beyond the realm of just sexuality, and so many other things.  We walk through the darkest corners of eachother's minds together and enjoy the brightest light as well.

Those are the biggies. 




MidMichCowboy -> RE: Who has influenced you the most? (11/13/2007 4:39:33 PM)

I was a brash 16 year old, she was in her mid 30's and very sexy. She loved to tease me, telling me a real man would just take what he wanted. One day, I stopped by her house. She came out in a light sundress. She smiled and said she was home all alone all day. I lost it. I took her, spanked her for teasing me (she loved it), tied her up with her nylons and did all I could think of at the time (I wish I could do a few more things I've learned). She bit me, scratched me and fought me. When she came, she screamed and became quiet and docile. We stayed in contact till she died in an auto accident. At her funeral, I pricked my finger with a rose, put a drop of blood in the bloom and dropped it on her coffin. Why, I don't know, but I'm sure she would have liked it.




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