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what makes a good submissive? - 11/12/2007 3:14:11 AM   
shootingstar67


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Status: offline 		Masters I want to know. To you, what makes a good submissive?
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RE: what makes a good submissive? - 11/12/2007 3:38:59 AM   
GentleLee


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Status: offline 		I'm so not a Master, but I do personally think that what makes a good submissive is being willing. Willing to try, to please, and to do her best. It's not always about the desination, but rather about the road that leads to that point.

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RE: what makes a good submissive? - 11/12/2007 3:53:42 AM   
MidnightMaiden


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Kind of like asking you what makes a good lasagne... is it the meat sauce, the bechamel sauce, fresh pasta, the herbs... each Master will have their own tastes.

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RE: what makes a good submissive? - 11/12/2007 4:19:14 AM   
GentleLee


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Status: offline 		Mmmm I have a sudden craving for lasagnia... TIme to shower and get to the market 
maybe put some fresh broccoli in there just for kicks...

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RE: what makes a good submissive? - 11/12/2007 5:39:30 AM   
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Intelligence, humor, openess, and being trustworthy in word and deed.

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RE: what makes a good submissive? - 11/12/2007 6:08:49 AM   
Dnomyar


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RE: what makes a good submissive? - 11/12/2007 6:13:25 AM   
BossyShoeBitch


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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

A good submissive is  a woman before you marry her.

That is just so wrong...

A good submissive is one who is honest, whose words matches their deeds and who has "good intent".. 


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RE: what makes a good submissive? - 11/12/2007 6:13:30 AM   
Lashra


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RE: what makes a good submissive? - 11/12/2007 8:37:12 AM   
Vanatru


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RE: what makes a good submissive? - 11/12/2007 8:38:34 AM   
IrishMist


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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

A good submissive is  a woman before you marry her.

Fuck.... I spit coffee everywhere... not to mention that every guy I work with is now laughing their ass off and agreeing with you

LOL

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RE: what makes a good submissive? - 11/12/2007 8:58:17 AM   
MrSpectacular


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Status: offline 		Someone who is comfortable with their submission and is not acting out a fantasy. They have chosen a particular path - in other words they are true to themself and thus that honesty will be obvious to the Dom/Master they get involved with

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RE: what makes a good submissive? - 11/12/2007 10:07:00 AM   
SimplyMichael


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Status: offline 		That she strive to be a better submissive today than she was yesterday, no matter how many yesterdays are behind her or how many tomorrows lay ahead.

That she strive to know herself and to share of herself with me so that I can know her deeply and that when we talk, I am talking to the core of her being, not to the shell that exists for everyone else.

That  she submits to the man I am, not the eyes closed fantasy image of me.

That she participates fully with me in creating a better world for both of us, allowing me to help her become a better person and knowing that I to at times need help and support becoming a better person and that we grow together into something truly greater than either of us could be apart.

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RE: what makes a good submissive? - 11/12/2007 10:28:59 AM   
Celeste43


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RE: what makes a good submissive? - 11/12/2007 1:03:29 PM   
downkitty


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quote:

ORIGINAL: shootingstar67

Masters I want to know. To you, what makes a good submissive?


Per Master, "Obedience."

Respectfully,

Amy


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RE: what makes a good submissive? - 11/12/2007 1:14:47 PM   
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RE: what makes a good submissive? - 11/12/2007 1:18:17 PM   
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RE: what makes a good submissive? - 11/12/2007 1:21:09 PM   
LaTigresse


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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

A good submissive is one who has a good Dominant.


I saw this scroll by and I have to say I wholeheartedly disagree. I know quite a few very good submissives that have no dominant at all. There is a serious lack of them (good dominants that is) it appears.


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RE: what makes a good submissive? - 11/12/2007 1:22:34 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

quote:

ORIGINAL: sexyred1

A good submissive is one who has a good Dominant.


I saw this scroll by and I have to say I wholeheartedly disagree. I know quite a few very good submissives that have no dominant at all. There is a serious lack of them (good dominants that is) it appears.



I agree; I am one of them.

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RE: what makes a good submissive? - 11/12/2007 1:26:51 PM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		Thank you for not being upset!

 I just could not, not defend..... all of the wonderful men and women who have become such good friends since I joined this site. The fact that some of them are single, does not make them a bad submissive. They just have not found the right dominant for them.

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RE: what makes a good submissive? - 11/12/2007 1:29:12 PM   
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ORIGINAL: shootingstar67
Masters I want to know. To you, what makes a good submissive?


A keen sense of self along with the confidence and pride to expose that 'self' completely to one who has earned that privilege. A "good submissive" also has the strength not to compromise or settle for less than what fulfills him/her. 

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