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A Pro Domme Slave??? - 11/25/2007 12:12:26 AM

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I am curious how the various Masters/Mistresses feel about having a slave/sub that is a Pro Domme. Yes, this directly applies to me. Personally, I feel that it doesn't conflict with my submission, as most of what I do is fulfill BDSM fantasies, but I am curious as to what others think about this on the opposite side of the whip.

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RE: A Pro Domme Slave??? - 11/25/2007 1:07:49 AM

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I don't think it's all that rare, to tell you the truth. I've known several dommes who were switches, but reserved that other side of themselves for one special person only.

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RE: A Pro Domme Slave??? - 11/25/2007 1:20:17 AM

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ORIGINAL: sexyone4you

I am curious how the various Masters/Mistresses feel about having a slave/sub that is a Pro Domme. Yes, this directly applies to me. Personally, I feel that it doesn't conflict with my submission, as most of what I do is fulfill BDSM fantasies, but I am curious as to what others think about this on the opposite side of the whip.

I wouldn't have a problem. But then again, I'm poly and wouldn't have a problem with my slave having a submissive or a slave of her own. So I woulnd't have a problem with that whether it was service topping that the slave was doing or being a domme or even mistress.

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RE: A Pro Domme Slave??? - 11/25/2007 2:12:07 AM

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I'd say that 95% of the Pros that I know or am aware of are submissive to someone. This includes well known names like Midori, although technically, Midori isn't a Pro Fem Dom. She's a fetish and sex educator. Still...

When we get past the prevalent idea that what we do defines who we are, all this will seem much more natural. sub/slave does not always equal masochist and Dom/Master does not always equal sadist. Just because you know how to Top someone (and do it well) doesn't mean that you want to be their Dominant or Master.

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RE: A Pro Domme Slave??? - 11/25/2007 1:43:22 PM

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I don't know very many pros who are submissives, or even switches. Still, if you are a switch it means that you are capable of both roles/activities, so how is there an issue? It's not as if you had any personal relationship with your professional clients.

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RE: A Pro Domme Slave??? - 11/25/2007 1:46:26 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: sexyone4you

I am curious how the various Masters/Mistresses feel about having a slave/sub that is a Pro Domme. Yes, this directly applies to me. Personally, I feel that it doesn't conflict with my submission, as most of what I do is fulfill BDSM fantasies, but I am curious as to what others think about this on the opposite side of the whip.

Wouldn't be a problem for me. I don't mind having switches or anyone who doesn't only function as a submissive (be it at work with their co-workers/subordinates or whatever the case may be). All that matters to me is that someone who is MY sub/slave remembers their place with ME.

Their being equals or dominant to others in kink or vanilla situations doesn't concern me, it's how they relate to me that does.

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RE: A Pro Domme Slave??? - 11/26/2007 11:28:41 AM

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What you are doing is fufilling a fantacy in your profession. It is like going to work its a job and that it. The fact that you have a job in a field that you happen to love is a blessing. If you bottom to you man ot it you Top your man in your personal life then thats up to you. Its just that its personal. I dont see a problem but then again I walked away from your line of work so I see your dilema and I know first hand what inner battles you face.

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RE: A Pro Domme Slave??? - 11/26/2007 12:29:18 PM

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Considering what toy whores pro-dommes are I can't see the downside getting to use all that stuff!

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RE: A Pro Domme Slave??? - 11/26/2007 2:55:05 PM

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That would not be a problem at all. Hell, it would kinda be a turn-on. :D

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RE: A Pro Domme Slave??? - 11/26/2007 4:37:58 PM

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Considering what toy whores pro-dommes are I can't see the downside getting to use all that stuff!

LOL, yep, the toys are prevalent around here!

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RE: A Pro Domme Slave??? - 11/26/2007 6:57:15 PM

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I was a pro domme for a few years and am now in a relationship as a sub. I feel having experienced each role gives me greater insight into each side. I sometimes still top and feel I am better at it now that I have been only a sub for a while. Also, I think we are better equipped to make a good match with the right top because we know first hand what it takes to be one. Being a pro also exposes you to so many activities and skills, you get to know very clearly what you like and dont like because chances are you have done it all.

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