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Your Submissives Birthdays - 11/29/2007 8:15:58 AM   
youngpupforBCms


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This is a bit of an off the wall and odd ball topic lol but what do some of you do when its your submissive's or slaves birthday? Do you recognize it? Celebrate it? Just curious, how others approach something that is seemingly normal and routine, but might be handled differently in our lifestyle.
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RE: Your Submissives Birthdays - 11/29/2007 8:24:30 AM   
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Personally I think overstate just how much "we" are compared to other people. All of the long lasting (5+) owner-slave couples or household I've ever known are pretty mundane most of the time and they value all of this passages of life.

I ask my slave how he prefers to celebrate. Some years it just wants the family, other years he wants a party. We do make a point of setting aside several hours around his birthday to do a mummification scene just for his birthday and he gets a more than "normal" intense spanking.

Of course he also gets that spanking in celebration of my birthday too!

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RE: Your Submissives Birthdays - 11/29/2007 8:28:35 AM   
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My current sub hasn't celebrated a birthday with Me yet.  It's in May.  Most likely, it's going to involved either a trip to the club (Atlanta) or celebrating with lifestyle friends here in town.  It's almost absolutely going to involve a good beating, which is what he'll mostly want anyway.  I can also say he'll receive something from the heart.  Mushy, but true.

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RE: Your Submissives Birthdays - 11/29/2007 8:37:54 AM   
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My submissive just had his birthday.  On the night of his actual birthday we had a family party and ice cream cake, that night he got spankings. 

A few days later we were at a local dungeon for a party and I put him some great bondage...and taped a sign to him that said "It's My Birthday, Free Spankings"  I set up a table with paddles, whips and a few other fun devices and about 10 or so people lined up.  He loved it..it was so fun.  All of the people were familar to me and it was a blast.  He had no idea who was doing what...and had to guess who it was...when he got it wrong..he got extra added spankings.  

It was a lot of fun and a very memorable b-day.  He always takes my spankings on my birthday too.

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RE: Your Submissives Birthdays - 11/29/2007 8:39:36 AM   
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We went toy shopping, and Holly and rob went to the horserace track for his birthday (unfortunately, I had to work that night *sigh*)

If things work out with the boy in Chicago ... we'll be celebrating his birthday in a similar fashion, I'm sure (meaning, we'll do something that he enjoys) - it's in June, so we have plenty of time to plot lol

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RE: Your Submissives Birthdays - 11/29/2007 11:04:03 AM   
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It was my boys birthday a week or so ago and I took him to Leeds a because it held a special meaning and b it sounded bdsmy lol . I booked him in for a floatation session in a tank thing, something he had mentioned to me he fancied doing when we 1st started talking nearly two years ago, I then took him out to a sushi restaurant as its his favourite and had them sing happy birthday to him ( a bit of public humiliation lol) then I bought him a loackable steel collar (which got delivered in the wrong size ).  I decorated the front room with ballons and a banner and did a kind of kids party for him  Then we had a bit of kinky type sex and I wouldnt let him cum.  It was a great day 

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RE: Your Submissives Birthdays - 11/29/2007 12:36:02 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: youngpupforBCms

This is a bit of an off the wall and odd ball topic lol but what do some of you do when its your submissive's or slaves birthday? Do you recognize it? Celebrate it? Just curious, how others approach something that is seemingly normal and routine, but might be handled differently in our lifestyle.


Yes :)

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RE: Your Submissives Birthdays - 11/29/2007 12:41:44 PM   
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Being as we have family members around, there's always a cake. Usually we go out to dinner ourselves and cut the cake after we get home. He doesn't like to go to someplace we've been before so I get to pick a restaurant I've heard great things about but wasn't willing to drive to and from.

If he does it again for my birthday, I may pick a place 45 minutes away with deer infested roads. Supposed to be the best place around but the trip to and from would ruin the evening for me. Plus we either eat earlier than I like, or get home later than I want.

If only I had a June birthday instead of midwinter one.

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RE: Your Submissives Birthdays - 11/29/2007 12:51:49 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: youngpupforBCms

This is a bit of an off the wall and odd ball topic lol but what do some of you do when its your submissive's or slaves birthday? Do you recognize it? Celebrate it? Just curious, how others approach something that is seemingly normal and routine, but might be handled differently in our lifestyle.


If apart, recognize it and get them a little something if appropriate.

If together, have a little birthday to-do or go out somewhere they're interested in.

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RE: Your Submissives Birthdays - 11/29/2007 1:26:23 PM   
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Master and I both celebrate each others birthdays with something a bit private and romantic...

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RE: Your Submissives Birthdays - 11/29/2007 2:07:56 PM   
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We go out for Sushi since thats his favorite and he gets dessert. Then he is allowed to "dress" for our play time and I let him pick what he would like to happen for the night. After we are done with the play and the rough sex its time for bed lol. All in all its a great time.

I would never miss his birthday, he means too much to me.

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RE: Your Submissives Birthdays - 11/29/2007 2:11:55 PM   
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Ask her what she'd like to do. If she says ignore it, ignore it. If you want to add a BDSM flair to it, make the gift kink related or set up a special scene with all the stuff she likes.

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RE: Your Submissives Birthdays - 11/29/2007 6:57:23 PM   
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It would not have to be specifically bdsm related but i would hope my Dominant to think of my birthday and celebrate in a way appropriate to us:)
i know, i am needy. lol
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RE: Your Submissives Birthdays - 11/30/2007 3:30:47 AM   
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Last weekend was his big 40, so I threw him a party at our favorite Italian restaurant with about 35 guests and had his favorite cake, lemon tart, specially made for him.  He asked me not to invite our friends from the scene because I am "out", but my sub is not.  He did not want to mix work mates and important clients with various colourful kinky people we have in our life.  I respect his right to privacy.

Instead we saw our kinky friends the night before at a HUGE BDSM event in Melbourne, Hellfire Resurrection, sponsored by our local BDSM magazine, Kink-E (and others) http://www.kink-e.com.au 

The stage shows were awesome, especially Satomi (the "Tokyo Love Doll" http://tokyolovedoll.free.fr ) doing shibari and Lucas Zpira (the "body hacker") body mod/suspension.  It was a pretty special birthday present to watch public play we normally have to travel to London, Paris or Berlin to witness in person.  The dungeon spaces were really cool too, and the crowd was wall to wall Fetish Fashionistas!  Too yummy......

In terms of gifts, I like to give cock jewellery because its something he can wear privately every day to remind him what he is. Its much more classy, practical (and sexy) than a neck collar, IMO.

 Last year he got one of these chromed cock bands (engraved) and has worn it every day since instead of a collar  http://www.stockroom.com/Chrome-Steel-C321.aspx

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RE: Your Submissives Birthdays - 11/30/2007 5:58:01 AM   
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my birthday was in august.  Daddy bought me a stuffed vampire bat, and my collar.  i dont know which i love me!!

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RE: Your Submissives Birthdays - 11/30/2007 6:01:45 AM   
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Today is my Birthday !  I get to spend some time with my Master too, He is leaving work early today, and coming to get me.

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RE: Your Submissives Birthdays - 11/30/2007 6:10:06 AM   
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Many Happy Returns  Have a lovely day 

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RE: Your Submissives Birthdays - 11/30/2007 6:19:35 AM   
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My slave is my fiance.  He is double special to me.  We celebrate the way he and I want to usually by taking a trip to the beach for a few days.
This year, I won't be able to take many days to go with him, so he will go see his mom which I think is an important thing.
It is all about fun on birthdays.

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RE: Your Submissives Birthdays - 11/30/2007 6:50:56 AM   
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Pryncess Celibrated my Birthday by buying me a pair of pink panties.(pic on profile)

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RE: Your Submissives Birthdays - 11/30/2007 7:49:53 AM   
youngpupforBCms


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Hehehe, yesterday was my birthday, think thats what prompted me to ask about birthdays. :)

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