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greeneyedreamer -> RE: No Name Dom? (5/16/2008 7:58:19 PM)

I have to agree with everyone here. If i can't call your phone during specified hours or email you and have a first and last name? Something is wrong. It's all about trust. If he thinks you're THAT kind of submissive that it will end badly and you'll tell his wife... then YOU aren't the submissive for HIM... NO ONE IS>>>

Walk away dear... Actually RUN!!!!!




DefiantSpankalot -> RE: No Name Dom? (5/16/2008 9:40:21 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: AMasterPiece2009
he will not disclose his real name


wonders how long it will take for some wanker to see this thread and create a profile calling himself "TheNamelessDom" lol




Renee7852 -> RE: No Name Dom? (5/16/2008 10:25:37 PM)

   I know the idea of a hot BDSM encounter is oft times just too tempting to pass up....so perhaps if you think of this scenerio before meeting w/ this *safe* Dominant you might think twice:  Imagine a meeting in a hotel room... just the two of you....He grabs your hair in one hand, rips your lingerie off, leans down and whispers into your ear *you are MINE bitch* and roughly pushes you onto the bed, flips you over and ties your wrists tightly behind your back.  He turns you over, looks into eyes widening w/ apprehension and yet desire at the same time.  An evil smirk crosses his face as he straddles your chest, his hands thrust your panties into your mouth and he quickly tapes your lips together.  The scene continues on for a few hours.   Ohhh this is just how you imagined it would be........till he pinches your nostrils closed and won't let go.  Your struggles are useless.  He IS in full control.     How long do you think you can go without breathing?????????????            Kinda makes ya think huh?

      

     I ran our local munch for a few years and met quite a few new subs over that time.  I couldnt stress safety enough and we actually formed a group who would be responsible for safecalls, one upon arrival, one upon leaving and one upon returning home safely.  Also ID was thoroughly checked before a first meeting happened. .  We also instituted the practice of a sub and a new Dom being able to play at someone's house for the first time or two...just so we could be SURE everything went ok, she didn't freak out, he was safe to play with, yaddah yaddah yaddah.............

      Everyone here has given good advice and pointers.  I hope you take heed.

           good luck in whatever you decide.

              Renee'




BotanicalMiss -> RE: No Name Dom? (5/26/2008 1:30:01 PM)

I haven't read all the answers to your post, so something along these lines may have already been said... but I'd suggest reading your own profile. The very first word of the description of the Master you seek is "honest". Does he fit that bill? I'd say not. Do what you like, but if he can't even be honest with you about his name, how honest will he be about anything? And if he can't trust you to not call his wife, it says to me that either he has doubts about you (and that's no way to start any kind of relationship) or he's going to disappear without a trace once he has his way with you.
Best of luck to you.




MontrealPhoenix -> RE: No Name Dom? (5/26/2008 1:35:09 PM)

BAD idea, very bad idea.  I was in the same situation and the guy turned out to be a psycho who made threats against me. Since i had no info on him filing a complaint with the police was pointless and impossible.
 
I'm not saying that is the case here but personally i wouldn't take the chance.
 
phoenix




panthersub -> RE: No Name Dom? (5/26/2008 6:29:05 PM)

For me, i would be weary about it. i personally would not meet anyone who would not give out their name because who are you going to look for when you meet? You go and meet him and there's 20 other people milling about.




orfunboi -> RE: No Name Dom? (5/26/2008 6:58:48 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: DefiantSpankalot

quote:

ORIGINAL: AMasterPiece2009
he will not disclose his real name


wonders how long it will take for some wanker to see this thread and create a profile calling himself "TheNamelessDom" lol


countdown time


oh and to the op, run forest, run




MontrealPhoenix -> RE: No Name Dom? (5/26/2008 7:40:40 PM)

~ fast reply ~
 
OLD THREAD ALERT, OLD THREAD ALERT! This is not a drill, someone revived an old thread....doubt the OP cares anymore.




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