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KatyLied -> RE: Why the Administrators cannot allow blacklists, but there is a way to be proactive in the commun (12/10/2007 12:31:38 PM)

Absolutely honey!



Jeffff -> RE: Why the Administrators cannot allow blacklists, but there is a way to be proactive in the commun (12/10/2007 12:31:42 PM)

it HAS been noted!



Jeff



AquaticSub -> RE: Why the Administrators cannot allow blacklists, but there is a way to be proactive in the commun (12/10/2007 12:32:16 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: KatyLied

Absolutely honey!


And my day is made! [:D]



DiurnalVampire -> RE: Why the Administrators cannot allow blacklists, but there is a way to be proactive in the commun (12/10/2007 12:36:48 PM)

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ORIGINAL: DominicsJoy

The people I refer to are the ones who have left scars on others

Could someone be so callous as to not care about another's safety when a known predator is amoung them???



I have left scars on Fox.  Does that make me a predator?
Maybe the point you arent getting is that ther eare no wrong people, just bad matches.  Someone "new" has to make their own mistakes. If they have any sense in their head, they will go about meeting people safely. If they dont have the sense God gave a kumquat no amount of listing will matter.

Who are you to decide who is and isnt a predator? Its like someone getting angry at their ex and yelling rape after the fact. He said She said and thats all it is.  So, a list like yours is tantamount to gossip. In YOUR OPINION you believe these people to be risks. EVeryone has opinions, youare just offering to make yours very well known. This is the same reason I dont believe in getting references for partners... if someone they were with thought they were fantastic, theyd never have split. Its all opinions. If you overshelter the newbies, tey will never grow, and if you go as far as to fill their heads with the lurking mosters out there... they will flee.

People make lists like what you are suggesting.  That list, and the supposed accounting of what these bad seds has done gets out, and then once again everyone sees all the dark side of out lifestyle and none of the good.  And then, people complain that everyone thinks we are freaks.

DV



Viridana -> RE: Why the Administrators cannot allow blacklists, but there is a way to be proactive in the commun (12/10/2007 12:40:09 PM)

In my experience up to this day, those people as suggested in the OP, who are self proclaimed police officers and n00b"guardians", are usually the people who belong on said blacklists



mnottertail -> RE: Why the Administrators cannot allow blacklists, but there is a way to be proactive in the commun (12/10/2007 12:43:14 PM)

We must get together for an Althing.

Ron



subtee -> RE: Why the Administrators cannot allow blacklists, but there is a way to be proactive in the community. (12/10/2007 12:44:35 PM)

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ORIGINAL: DominicsJoy
But for gosh sakes, please don't leap blindly into bed and expect Nirvana each and every time.


WHAT?!! Wait...that's a bad thing to do????




mnottertail -> RE: Why the Administrators cannot allow blacklists, but there is a way to be proactive in the community. (12/10/2007 12:46:27 PM)

Listen to this guy, Rufus; he knows what he's talking about.

Kurt Kobain



BoiJen -> RE: Why the Administrators cannot allow blacklists, but there is a way to be proactive in the commun (12/10/2007 12:47:14 PM)

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ORIGINAL: ctrlaltdelete

Who polices the police and controls the controllers? I am personally not in favor of a vigilante enforcer practice - if people just practice an ounce of common sense, most anything can be averted.

I commend CM/CC on their mostly hands-off approaches to the boards and profiles.


I get the whole not getting involved in the mess of name calling and who's "real" or not.

I also know for a fact that the moderators of the forums are not hands off. Daily they remove posts based on their person interpretation of what they read and their own interpretation of the rules. So yeah who polices the police? Who moderates the moderators? Censorship is rampant...it just so happens that we don't know it well becuase people who want to say somthing about it are being censored.





Jeffff -> RE: Why the Administrators cannot allow blacklists, but there is a way to be proactive in the community. (12/10/2007 12:47:59 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: subtee

quote:

ORIGINAL: DominicsJoy
But for gosh sakes, please don't leap blindly into bed and expect Nirvana each and every time.


WHAT?!! Wait...that's a bad thing to do????




Depends...........did you stalk them and make them take you to bed?...hummmmmmmmmmmmmmmm?


Jeff
(his pen ready)



Jeffff -> RE: Why the Administrators cannot allow blacklists, but there is a way to be proactive in the community. (12/10/2007 12:49:09 PM)

Here you go Kurt, this  will fix your headache



Courtney Love



KatyLied -> RE: Why the Administrators cannot allow blacklists, but there is a way to be proactive in the commun (12/10/2007 12:49:49 PM)

Wow.  I didn't even know nirvana was an option.  This is really going to raise the bar impossibly high for my next encounter.



subtee -> RE: Why the Administrators cannot allow blacklists, but there is a way to be proactive in the community. (12/10/2007 12:49:52 PM)

Wait....so THAT'S a bad thing too??

s-u-b-t-e-e 



ctrlaltdelete -> RE: Why the Administrators cannot allow blacklists, but there is a way to be proactive in the community. (12/10/2007 12:51:32 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: DominicsJoy
But for gosh sakes, please don't leap blindly into bed and expect Nirvana each and every time.

quote:

ORIGINAL: subtee
WHAT?!! Wait...that's a bad thing to do????


Not if I get to bust at least two nuts!



Jeffff -> RE: Why the Administrators cannot allow blacklists, but there is a way to be proactive in the commun (12/10/2007 12:52:11 PM)

My personal guarantee goes only to Valhalla



Erik the Jeff



ctrlaltdelete -> RE: Why the Administrators cannot allow blacklists, but there is a way to be proactive in the commun (12/10/2007 12:53:59 PM)

Sheesh! Nirvana...Valhalla...amateurs!

Wal-Mart Supercenter or bust!



LonDom61 -> RE: Why the Administrators cannot allow blacklists, but there is a way to be proactive in the commun (12/10/2007 12:55:25 PM)

Jeffff

You are one Seriously Ffffunny Ffff**ker.

(And I'm not just sayin that cuz you're Keeper of the List...hence the most powerful dude on CM).

Loved "watching everyone" and "pwedatos"

= = =
To the OP (uh...folks: remember the OP?):

"Could someone be so callous as to not care about another's safety when a known predator is amoung them???"

Known?  Known by whom?  By youm?

You're talking, not just about wannabes sending nasty emails, but...

"The people I refer to are the ones who have left scars on others, endangered life and showed a blatant disregard for the safety of others. "

And for something so serious as a blacklist, you wouldn't just take some sub's sobbing email testimony about it, would you?  (I mean...it could be, oh, I dunno...FAKE).  So this would be based on what...personal experience?

And "list" implies plural.  So you've got personal experience with more than one person who's actually "endangered life", etc.?  (Good thing you managed to survive all those near-death experiences)

Now this list of yours.  Real actual world names?  Or CM NICKnames?  Good thing no one can just go and set up another profile in, like, 5 minutes.

Well, in the spirit of "if you're not with us, you're against us" and, showing "callous disregard" as I am with this post while all these subs go off to meet DemonDoomDom...I figure I'm now on your list.

= = = = = = = = =
To anyone tempted to send for such a list...

Instead, google "BDSM Safe First Meet tips".  "Acid test for Doms"

Use your head, listen to your gut and, if in doubt, vote with your feet.

=============
"I"VE GOT A LIST!"
      -- Senator Joe "F**ktard" McCarthy



Jeffff -> RE: Why the Administrators cannot allow blacklists, but there is a way to be proactive in the commun (12/10/2007 12:57:54 PM)

You know....none of this would be a problem is not for the myth of the .."female orgasm"



A.Kinsey





Viridana -> RE: Why the Administrators cannot allow blacklists, but there is a way to be proactive in the commun (12/10/2007 12:58:19 PM)

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

We must get together for an Althing.

Ron


[sm=biggrin.gif]



ctrlaltdelete -> RE: Why the Administrators cannot allow blacklists, but there is a way to be proactive in the commun (12/10/2007 1:00:27 PM)

Wasn't the "female orgasm" exposed to have been conjured up by the same leftist polemic think tank that invented the so-called "global warming"?



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