RE: Why the Administrators cannot allow blacklists, but there is a way to be proactive in the commun

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Viridana -> RE: Why the Administrators cannot allow blacklists, but there is a way to be proactive in the commun (12/10/2007 1:03:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ctrlaltdelete Wasn't the "female orgasm" exposed to have been conjured up by the same leftist polemic think tank that invented the so-called "global warming"? aaaah, there's that long lost link. Female orgasms cause global warming!!! Everything makes sense now. So Al Gore is just really fighting against female orgasms. Mr. Gore must hate me then...

ctrlaltdelete -> RE: Why the Administrators cannot allow blacklists, but there is a way to be proactive in the commun (12/10/2007 1:08:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Viridana Everything makes sense now. So Al Gore is just really fighting against female orgasms. Looking at him after his Clinton-esque aspiration of adding "political weight", that should come easy to him. Of course, female orgasms and global warming are linked. Just think about it - with the loss of bodily control that a woman experiences during orgasm, she releases indeterminable amounts of biogas. Biogas (as we all know from the statistics of how much biogas cows release every year in dairies) accelerates global warming. Just think, if we globally banned female orgasms - why, we could put another 15 million cars on the roads per year without damaging that "hole" in the so-called "ozone layer" one single bit!

Jeffff -> RE: Why the Administrators cannot allow blacklists, but there is a way to be proactive in the commun (12/10/2007 1:13:05 PM)
If a man has never seen one. How you I know they exist? Al Gore

sexyred1 -> RE: Why the Administrators cannot allow blacklists, but there is a way to be proactive in the community. (12/10/2007 1:20:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DominicsJoy The people I refer to are the ones who have left scars on others, endangered life and showed a blatant disregard for the safety of others. If you were new, would you truly want to think that someone knew what a person like this was capable of and knowingly chose to keep it from you? Could someone be so callous as to not care about another's safety when a known predator is amoung them??? Get over yourself, hon. There are those who adore getting scars from others, who don't use safewords, who love risky and edgy behavior and yes, Virginia, they do it all consensually. As others have said, there is no safety police for adults, only children. I could say I met a Dom who was an abusive asshole and he could be the next girl's The Bachelor. It has nothing to do with callous disregard and of course some bad people exist in all walks of life. But what on earth do you expect kink sites like CM to do about it?

LonDom61 -> RE: Why the Administrators cannot allow blacklists, but there is a way to be proactive in the commun (12/10/2007 1:21:47 PM)
quote: Everything makes sense now. So Al Gore is just really fighting against female orgasms. Well then, the Doms (not to mention any, uh, names) who practice orgasm delay/denial are doing our...I mean THEIR...bit to fight global warming. (On a side, but related, note: am I the only one who finds it ironic that the global warming "prevention" document, signed in JAPAN was dubbed the Kyoto ACCORD...as in Honda?) = = = I don't think a "bad guy" list is enough. We should have a "good guy" list, too. Who's been naughty? Who's been nice? Hmm. Who could we possibly trust to KEEP such a list? It'd have to be someone impartial. Someone who doesn't work many days a year, (cuz maintaining the list would require lots of time). They'd need a staff (to do the background checks). And, of course, considering WIITWD, they might have a unique fashion sense... <Churchlady>Who could that possibly be? Ohhhhh....I don't know.....SantAAAA? </Churchlady> "Mr. Gore must hate me then..." He does, V. He does. You're on his List.

ctrlaltdelete -> RE: Why the Administrators cannot allow blacklists, but there is a way to be proactive in the commun (12/10/2007 1:23:38 PM)
Per my knowledge - no evidence of such a thing remains. Oliver North

sexyred1 -> RE: Why the Administrators cannot allow blacklists, but there is a way to be proactive in the commun (12/10/2007 1:24:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: IrishMist quote: No sadly, the List occupies all my time. I will the the Way to someone else. I assume that was not a sarcastic remark. Your ass could end up on the List like that!.(snaps his fingers) Jeff (watching everyone) /nods It's important that these lists be kept up to date. We would not want anyone to ummm...all victim to the perv, untwue way now. [8\|] Wait! What if I want to fall victim to a perv? I am only meeting boring guys lately...[:o]

LonDom61 -> RE: Why the Administrators cannot allow blacklists, but there is a way to be proactive in the commun (12/10/2007 1:24:26 PM)
Ooooh, ooooh. Got so carried away there, forgot my other point. Have you noticed how many people are logged on to this thread? Like....50? That's quite a...um...list in itself. (copy, paste to "under suspicion" list)

LonDom61 -> RE: Why the Administrators cannot allow blacklists, but there is a way to be proactive in the commun (12/10/2007 1:28:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sexyred1 Wait! What if I want to fall victim to a perv? I am only meeting boring guys lately...[:o] At LAST! A practical use for the list! Just PM the OP for a copy. (Note to self: Never, ever, ever start a thread. Abuse potential Waaaay too high.)

ModeratorEleven -> RE: Why the Administrators cannot allow blacklists, but there is a way to be proactive in the commun (12/10/2007 1:28:58 PM)
quote: I have read your rules and to my understanding there is nothing keeping me from keeping a bad list of my own and providing it to those who request such information from my own area and experience. Please allow me to clarify our position on this issue; no blacklists of any kind will be tolerated here. Should someone use our system to advertise or propogate such a list after being informed such behavior was not allowed, that user would almost certainly be removed. I hope that clears up any remaining ambiguity on the matter. XI

Kaiynasha -> RE: Why the Administrators cannot allow blacklists, but there is a way to be proactive in the commun (12/10/2007 1:29:39 PM)
Huh?[8\|] I am invisible does that make me a perv? Can I request to be placed on the list? Again huh?[:D]

ctrlaltdelete -> RE: Why the Administrators cannot allow blacklists, but there is a way to be proactive in the commun (12/10/2007 1:32:21 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sexyred1 Wait! What if I want to fall victim to a perv? I am only meeting boring guys lately...[:o] You can always perv the list and use it for "dating leads"

subtee -> RE: Why the Administrators cannot allow blacklists, but there is a way to be proactive in the commun (12/10/2007 2:07:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Jeffff You know....none of this would be a problem is not for the myth of the .."female orgasm" A.Kinsey quote: ORIGINAL: ctrlaltdelete Wasn't the "female orgasm" exposed to have been conjured up by the same leftist polemic think tank that invented the so-called "global warming"? quote: ORIGINAL: Jeffff If a man has never seen one. How you I know they exist? Al Gore quote: ORIGINAL: ctrlaltdelete Per my knowledge - no evidence of such a thing remains. Oliver North I will not tolerate you and hedonists and naughty-listees and pervy predator types to question the genuinity of female orgasms. ~stamps her little foot~

mnottertail -> RE: Why the Administrators cannot allow blacklists, but there is a way to be proactive in the commun (12/10/2007 2:09:42 PM)
Well, let's go with a 68 then, blow me and I'll owe you one, tell me when you have the orgasm....I will mark the calendar. DeeplyCaringDom

proudsub -> RE: Why the Administrators cannot allow blacklists, but there is a way to be proactive in the commun (12/10/2007 2:10:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub Being added to this list... does it come with spankings? [;)] quote: Absolutely honey! Ohhhh i want to be on that list, but some here think i am too old to be doing this, maybe we need a list of us oldies too.[:o]

mnottertail -> RE: Why the Administrators cannot allow blacklists, but there is a way to be proactive in the commun (12/10/2007 2:11:18 PM)
But doesn't that detract from the absolutely palpable danger of this thread? Vincent Price Master

Heartisan -> RE: Why the Administrators cannot allow blacklists, but there is a way to be proactive in the commun (12/10/2007 2:13:44 PM)
I agree with everyone who said that subs need to take their own safety into their own hands. The need information on how to trust instincts, set up safety protocols, etc and not simply be told that this or that person is dangerous. Personally, if I meet someone real life, and I know someonw who knows that person personally, I will ask opinions, but then I will take the varied opinions (considering who they are from) and add my own observations and my instincts and make my own conclusion. I used to have a chatroom for subs where they could learn the safety things and even set up safe calls with some of us. I heard a lot of bad stories about experiences... but usually somewhere in the midst of the story would be "I had a feeling something wasn't right" or something similar. Trusting the instincts is the best advice I've ever gotten, or given. The one other thing is that no one has said anything about is that Doms also need to do safe calls and use common sense. Although the majority of problems are with men posing as Doms, there are some dangerous female Doms, and female and male subs out there as well. EVERYONE needs to use common sense and think about safety when meeting anyone online, for any type of relationship.... even vanilla ones. trying to post a lot so she doesn't have to be vanilla anymore... ick !

ctrlaltdelete -> RE: Why the Administrators cannot allow blacklists, but there is a way to be proactive in the commun (12/10/2007 2:15:20 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: subtee I will not tolerate you and hedonists and naughty-listees and pervy predator types to question the genuinity of female orgasms. ~stamps her little foot~ What's the going postal rate for little feet these days?

SeeksOnlyOne -> RE: Why the Administrators cannot allow blacklists, but there is a way to be proactive in the community. (12/10/2007 2:19:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DominicsJoy The people I refer to are the ones who have left scars on others, endangered life and showed a blatant disregard for the safety of others. If you were new, would you truly want to think that someone knew what a person like this was capable of and knowingly chose to keep it from you? Could someone be so callous as to not care about another's safety when a known predator is amoung them??? i imagine were all adults and, as adults, we are equipped with reasoning and sense and the little voices in our heads that tell us when to proceed cautiously and when to plow full speed ahead..... and besides, just because she pissed him off and he cut her into little pieces and fed her thru a wood chipper, dont mean that he wont love me for who i am......[:)]

ctrlaltdelete -> RE: Why the Administrators cannot allow blacklists, but there is a way to be proactive in the community. (12/10/2007 2:21:38 PM)
That's exactly what Lorena was saying to John!!

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