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LadyHugs -> RE: Behavior (12/16/2007 9:48:23 PM)
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Dear takenbyjohn07, Ladies and Gentlemen;
I would prefer viewing someone's behavior--regardless of role; e.g. Dominant or submissive and or Switch-- is a reflection of their individual selves before they are a reflection on or of another person. People must understand all behavior choices begin within.
That said -- I would hope that I would never have in my company and or in my personal collar, a person who has a 'potty' mouth. If they do, they do have an option to have a behavior modification and an attitude adjustment--otherwise, they are welcome to leave without my collar and find someone who will tolerate their 'potty' mouth. I realize there will be slips however, I do not like a flow in conversation to which spews foul language.
As for the remaining questions -- there could/can/would/might/will be many reasons and or excuses as to why individuals behave as they will. They are adults and must be responsibile for their own attitudes and behavior which reflects upon them. I am only responsible for my own conduct, behavior and attitude and hope to inspire others into change. Only those who 'want' to change will do so. Restrictions 'in house' and or in 'the Master's presence' is only a means to replace one habit with another, in regard to behavior, attitude and choice of speaking.
Furthermore, I do feel that slaves, servants and or submissives 'do' have the right to speak their minds however; in all situations there are ways to communicate such in a tactful manner and without the need of vulgar language or uncloaked insults. But, I also will say--that before a Dominant takes a 'better then thou' stance and judge submissives for behavior, attitude and choice of words--they best be the epitome of good standards in behavior, attitude and or the choices of words used. I really get bent when Dominants hold a lower standard then they do of their slave's/submissive's/servant's. I am old fashioned I suppose; as Dominants should always be the solid lead in good manners and behave accordingly, as to inspire others to do the same. This does not hinge on the Dominant having a slave/submissive/servant or not. In my early exposure within the lifestyle this was the normal--today, it seems extremely hard to find.
Just some thoughts.
Respectfully submitted for consideration,
Lady Hugs
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