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Seeking to be trained as a better Master - 12/19/2007 9:58:50 PM

OnyxDelphi

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I have been training and studying as a Master for little over a year. I am proud to say that I have grown a lot since when I first started out. I own several books, movies, toys/tools, and have even practiced on a very close and former slave girl of mine. However, with all of that said, I know that advice from someone with a greater deal more experience would benefit me highly. I know that CollarMe is open to me in terms of questions, but I crave guidance and knowledge from a one on one stand point, male or female. Whether that be basic discussions or even beneficial tasks.

If you would like to know more about me as a person and or Master, please let me know. I eagerly await someone who will at least look me over as a potential student.

If not then thank you for at least reading this.

-Master Fiik

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RE: Seeking to be trained as a better Master - 12/20/2007 12:24:16 AM

MasterFireMaam

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Your best bet is to get out into your local community, then start watching other Doms and Tops. If you see something you like, ask them about it. Most are happy to show you what they did or discuss the protocol you saw or the relationship dynamics as a whole.

Simply announcing on a board that you want a mentor will invite all manner of unqualified people...although, it might draw in some good one's too. Again, I suggest that you watch and read...then when you find a point that makes sense, ask them about it. Don't forget...you can learn a lot from slaves and subs, too.

In the end, the BEST thing you can do is to improve yourself as a person. Start figuring out who you are and why you do the things you do and why you react in the ways you react. Develop yourself and you communication skills. These things are as important as knowing a flogger from a dragon's tail.

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RE: Seeking to be trained as a better Master - 12/20/2007 7:03:42 AM

OnyxDelphi

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Thank you MasterFireMaam, that is wonderful advice. Although I'm limited where I am in terms of finding a local group, I will definately look harder.

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RE: Seeking to be trained as a better Master - 12/20/2007 7:14:14 AM

Archer

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TN lets see Memphis has groups, Nashville has groups and a club, Chattanooga has a group and Knoxville has a group.
That should mean that a group is available somewhere within an hour or less drive.

The Chattanooga Munch
Chattanooga, Tennessee

The East Tennessee Munch Group
Maryville, Chattanooga, and Knoxville, Tennessee

Impact Institute
Memphis, Tennessee

Memphis LINKS
Pansexual
Memphis, Tennessee

Memphis Power Exchange (MPE)
Pansexual
Memphis, Tennessee

Nashville Alternative Lifestyle Munch
Nashville, Tennessee

NLA-Nashville
Nashville, Tennessee

Rose and Thorn
Nashville, Tennessee

Smoky Mountain Power Exchange (SMPEX)
Pansexual
Knoxville, Tennessee

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RE: Seeking to be trained as a better Master - 12/20/2007 7:24:10 AM

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Dear OnyxDelphi, Ladies and Gentlemen;

In the lifesytle for 34 years, starting in 1973; I have been slave and been Master for the longest period. I can honestly say as a mentor, a teacher, presenter, faculty member of an education based academy; I still am in training--as life teaches lessons every day. When I stop learning is when I am dead.

In watching others interact in real life, they do teach and or inspire indirectly. I have often gained students after doing a scene, because someone wanted to do what I did.

But, I must say that skills and knowledge alone is not enough. Anybody can be book smart, the Internet is filled with other people's skills and knowledge. It is the application that is a key.
Furthermore, to define your mission as a Master. What kind of men in life inspire you and see Mastering qualities and traites you like to copy and or admire. How would you like yourself to be enslaved by--what kind of Master would you want to submit to? I really find that a person's 'intentions' from the spirit/heart and mind will guide a person to their Teachers--slave, submisssive, Master, Mistress, Dominant, etc. I fully proffer for thought--that domestic animals are good teachers as much as humans.

Please consider attending Master-slave conferences. There will be presenters there and can see what they have to offer to feed your knowledge and training base.

By all means, do seek out BDSM support and education groups, to which may be of help in the corporal and sensual practices as far as whips, caning, bondage and such.

Ask questions--no matter how dumb it may be--it is better to get an answer. Unfortunately, some replies might be sarcastic or not very serious--however, in all cases where a person is wanting to be better--they will need to have questions answered.

Just some thoughts.

Respectfully submitted for consideration,
Lady Hugs

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RE: Seeking to be trained as a better Master - 12/20/2007 7:49:06 AM

Dnomyar

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LadyHugs put it very well as usual.

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RE: Seeking to be trained as a better Master - 12/20/2007 10:58:18 AM

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