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RE: "Learning" Pain - 1/4/2008 10:46:05 PM

sakidorei

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i'm not sure that i'd say i fall into the category of pain pleasing my body but it does something nothing else does for my mind and maybe that's the crux of the matter for me. i don't enjoy pain physically in the moment exactly but it takes me to a place mentally that nothing else does. And THAT i love very much ... it's an intensity of experience that is separate but somehow associates itself in my body as pleasure too ... though at this point it's definitely a cerebral response first and then a visceral one.

i recently experienced face slapping for the first time. For years i've thought it was a hard limit for me and then i started being very curious about it ... my former Owner would not engage with me in this activity so even though the curiosity seed was growing it's only been recently that i had the chance to experience it. i won't lie ... it hurt ... but it was amazing at the same time. Interestingly ... i was utterly dripping wet afterward but i would not have been able to consciously identify the experience as sexually arousing at the moment at all. i just didn't process it that way.

Each time He slapped me ... i felt myself reeling ... checking out ... my brain frantically looking for a way to contextualize and process the sensation. He said that each time He slapped me He could see me checking out ... i think the reaction even surprised Him a bit. Each slap was a bit harder than the one before ... at one point i unconsciously reached out to grab at His hand ... i wasn't even aware of it. He stopped me and commanded me to look at Him several times (i don't remember hearing it but once) and when i could finally focus on Him again ... looking into His eyes ... He slapped me again and i was just ... gone for lack of a better way to describe it. He didn't knock me out ... it was just this utterly intense and cathartic experience.

i am not sure you can "learn" pain but i think you can grow in trust and in courage to explore the experience with your Top/Dom/Master and it can be an amazing experience. Especially if you suspect that your body is enjoying it. Then i think you can learn more about pain and your reactions to it.

~saki
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RE: "Learning" Pain - 1/5/2008 6:11:15 AM

whipingherfeet

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just obey your master and you wont have to worry about pain

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RE: "Learning" Pain - 1/6/2008 11:56:58 PM

tavinia

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whipingherfeet:

i found Your reply interesting.

A. Although i'm dating Someone who is in the lifestyle, i don't have a "Master"
B. Many in the lifestyle enjoy giving pain as a form of play... i believe that You are among them, no? As such, doesn't a growth in the ability to accept pain actually please such a Master?
C. As stated, i am finding that i enjoy some pain with my pleasure; as such, i would like to stretch my limits

Just some thoughts,
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RE: "Learning" Pain - 1/7/2008 8:40:20 AM

StrictlyKind

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ORIGINAL: whipingherfeet

just obey your master and you wont have to worry about pain

Kind of reminds me of "Just drink the Kool Aid" or "Here are your purple sheet and Nike's"

As a D-type I find blind, thoughtless obedience to be far too masochistic for my tastes.

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