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Pulling a Dumb Dom - 1/5/2008 10:56:32 AM

scottjk

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Okay, things are getting bit too serious! Time for a little fun!

Many moons ago, and this is actually a fond memory, I woke up one morning and my right hand had swollen up so much I couldn't even make a loose fist. You see, the evening before, I was giving a lovely little pain slut a birthday present that she specifically requested from me. (She had a mistress, but she was cool with it, especially since she was my mentor at the time.) That gift was an over the knee spanking for as long as I could until 'my arm fell off'. Well, I was game, and I delivered. It took about three hours, her ass was black and blue and she couldn't quit grinding her ass into the couch afterwords, even when she fell asleep. It was delicious!

I digress, though. I figured out that the reason my right hand was swollen was... you guessed it! I didn't switch hands during the spanking!
When I talked to my mentor that day, I told her about this and she laughed, "It's called a Dumb Dom!" I found it pretty funny too.

So, 'fess up! What's your first Dumb Dom? (And yes, I've had other Dumb Dom moments, but it's the first one that's the best!)

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RE: Pulling a Dumb Dom - 1/5/2008 11:06:22 AM

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To switch hands would require her to switch directions perhaps?

It don't mean a thing if you ain't got that swing.

I'm no OTK expert I just can't imagine trying to do it from the far side although I have seen people try I suppose. If you are doing it non stop then I'm guessing changing positions would count as stopping therefore you would be predominantly using one hand in any case.

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RE: Pulling a Dumb Dom - 1/5/2008 11:20:18 AM

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The lady was being a vixen. We were shopping at the mall (very rare occurrence for me) and she kept disappearing. I told her that I would chain her to me if she disappeared once more. She did, I went into Spencer’s and bought a set of handcuffs. I handcuffed us together and threw the wrapper away. Yep, an hour later when I had to go to the bathroom, I found out I didn't take the key out. Yes, I had one at home, but that was 3 hours away. It was an interesting afternoon.

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RE: Pulling a Dumb Dom - 1/5/2008 11:30:50 AM

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That is part of what I think is hard for Doms. To thing the entire senerio through. But thanks for the chuckle

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RE: Pulling a Dumb Dom - 1/5/2008 11:34:52 AM

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Let me know when we start joking about the stupid submissives.
I have a few tales to tell.

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RE: Pulling a Dumb Dom - 1/5/2008 11:35:58 AM

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I popped blood vessels over two knuckles and on the top of my foot doing rough body play for the first time. Spent the rest of the party with an ice pack on my ankle, too.

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RE: Pulling a Dumb Dom - 1/5/2008 11:39:04 AM

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ouch!

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RE: Pulling a Dumb Dom - 1/5/2008 11:42:57 AM

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I was fucking a delicious detective on a carpet-covered cement floor. he was prone [flat on his stomach], and I was straddling his hips, on My hands and knees.
Shortly after I'd come in his ass, I felt a burning pain in one of My wrists that kept increasing and increasing, and after icing and advil didn't help, I had to see My doc.
Turned out I had ruptured one tendon and torn another! Hadn't felt a THING until the pleasure hormones began to dissipate.

Now if I fuck a man from behind, I tend to do it on a bed, or against a wall for support, or as Alex Comfort sez in the Joy of Sex, `a le negre, with My hands clasped behind his neck, and I'm much more aware of starting, and ending, in comfort.

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RE: Pulling a Dumb Dom - 1/5/2008 11:45:50 AM

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Got a little frisky in a public park. When grandma and her 5 year old grandson came down the path I had my hands in his pants. (I had forbidden him to wear any underwear, you see, and I was just "checking")

Ooops. Sorry grandma!

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RE: Pulling a Dumb Dom - 1/5/2008 12:11:35 PM

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I have had a little pain or soreness in the hands, but never a serious injury. Usually my dumb domme moments are just embarrassing.

My first submissive lover was quite the wonder. Multiply and easily orgasmic, made wonderful noises, had a wonderful ripe curvaceous body, and brought out all sorts of dominant potential in my younger self. I used to make love to her for hour after hour, day after day, just marveling at how much fun she was to play with and how lovable and sexy she was, as a submissive and a person.

Problem was...she lived in a small one-room apartment on the top floor of a rooming house with many small apartments. We were so focused on our own little universe that we didn't realize that our fun and games could be heard throughout the apartment building, by strangers coming up the staircase, etc.. And of course we had no idea that everything we did could be heard in agonizingly painful detail by an entire apartment full of single college boys living next door to her.

Needless to say, they did not knock on the walls or yell at us to pipe down or knock at the door and politely ask us to be quiet.

But there was a tone of extreme frustration/mild resentment and irony in his voice when one of them shouted to us from the window a couple of months later, as we were coming up the back steps: "Yeah, it's not like we don't hear you guys...every night..."

So....yeah. Talk about your teasing and denial? Yikes. Four young men had been listening to the two of us swapping these amazing orgasms for weeks and weeks.

When I mentioned the incident to some other friends of ours, they laughed and told me about the "coming up the stairs" and "whole rest of the apartment building" thing, which, needless to say, I was a little ambivalent and a whole lot embarrassed about. I think it might be the only time in my life that I have tortured so many people at once.

Lesson learned: sex in general and BDSM in particular is noisy, and other people have ears. Best to keep this in mind.

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RE: Pulling a Dumb Dom - 1/5/2008 12:41:48 PM

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I'm fortunate to be ambidextrous (sp?) when the right hand gets tired I switch to the left without any interruption in the rhythm.

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RE: Pulling a Dumb Dom - 1/5/2008 1:15:32 PM

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But can you lick your elbow?

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RE: Pulling a Dumb Dom - 1/5/2008 1:25:02 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: honorableangel

That is part of what I think is hard for Doms. To thing the entire scenario through. But thanks for the chuckle

Oh, it's not all that hard to think the entire scenario through, unless it's rather complex. :)
And in this particular case, it never happened to me before, so I didn't have experience to warn me. My mentor knew it would happen, but decided that in the interest of my education, declined to inform me. ;)

A lesson well learned. I paid even closer attention when she had something to show or tell me. :)

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RE: Pulling a Dumb Dom - 1/5/2008 1:29:40 PM

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A sub bragged about her ability to get out of any Dom's knots, how she made a lot of Dom's cry.

As a former BoyScout, I figured I'd tie her up in increasingly difficult-to-get-out-of bits with just the string I pulled out of her pants waist. After she spent some time laughing at the idea tied up, it took her thirty minutes to get out. A little more humble, I tied the next one that was to be a little harder, then went out to get some things from the store and such, telling her that dinner was to be prepared in the kitchen when she got out.

Poor thing was still there six hours later in a knot that I expected would take twenty minutes, tops. She had obviously misjudged her ability to get out of bondage.

The somewhat funny part comes in that my roommates got back to the apparently about four hours after I tied her up and couldn't help but wonder just why the hell a girl that they hadn't seen before was tied to a bedpost by her pants (which she wasn't wearing, but were used as the rope), otherwise naked.

Yeah, I was kicked out of that room a month or so later, but it's sort of funny.

(Yeah, not funny nor interesting. I've very little experience being a Dom, so I'm afraid that's the best I can think of.)

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RE: Pulling a Dumb Dom - 1/5/2008 2:00:30 PM

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Back in the day when I was exploring what I thought was a submissive side, I had a dalliance with a dom in a hotel. The agreement was made, which included NO BREATH PLAY. He had me bound on the bed and proceeded to try and fist me, even though I had no prior experience, he became redder/sweatier with his exertions and ignored my requests for him to desist. He was determined to his his ham fist into my vagina so he switched position and promptly sat on my face, leaning over and attempting it from that angle. I could not breathe at this point and the only option for me was to bite his testicles, which I did... HARD and to the point blood was drawn. He got the point after that, untied me and began ranting at having the misfortune of finding himself stuck in a hotel room with a 'dried up old cunt', his words... I left him laying on the carpet of the room after punching him and knocking him out. I didn't bother with any aftercare.

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RE: Pulling a Dumb Dom - 1/5/2008 2:04:24 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MissMorrigan

Back in the day when I was exploring what I thought was a submissive side, I had a dalliance with a dom in a hotel. The agreement was made, which included NO BREATH PLAY. He had me bound on the bed and proceeded to try and fist me, even though I had no prior experience, he became redder/sweatier with his exertions and ignored my requests for him to desist. He was determined to his his ham fist into my vagina so he switched position and promptly sat on my face, leaning over and attempting it from that angle. I could not breathe at this point and the only option for me was to bite his testicles, which I did... HARD and to the point blood was drawn. He got the point after that, untied me and began ranting at having the misfortune of finding himself stuck in a hotel room with a 'dried up old cunt', his words... I left him laying on the carpet of the room after punching him and knocking him out. I didn't bother with any aftercare.

Oh! I'm SO sorry, MissMorrigan! You're disqualified for posting about some one else's Dumb Dom!

Please, feel free to try again!

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RE: Pulling a Dumb Dom - 1/5/2008 2:13:46 PM

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RE: Pulling a Dumb Dom - 1/5/2008 2:28:21 PM

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Hehe! ShaktiSama, I have a similar story too (can I post more than one?)

My first Dom and I were LOUD LOUD LOUD. He had two roommates who constantly made fun of us.

So one morning we woke up and I had a terrible idea. We started making farm animal noises REALLY LOUDLY, and then orgasm noises after a while.

When roommate number 1 turned on the metal to drown us out, we collapsed into giggles. Then at the breakfast table, with his roommates around, we communicated in braying and neighing and barking. Both of us got milk up our noses from laughing so hard.

His roommates were really pretty cool though, so they thought it was funny.

You know who didn't?

His mom, a few months later ;)

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RE: Pulling a Dumb Dom - 1/5/2008 3:15:20 PM

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It was one of the first times I had played with wax, and I had gotten the sub really really oily before, so the wax wouldn't stick to the bottom's hair (the Sadist in me won't let me use that much oil anymore, as it takes alot of the fun out of the removal process...well, fun for me, anyway *evil grin*). I was using a straight razor to remove the wax, but then decided to switch to a balisong (butterfly knife). At this point in the scene, a pretty large crowd had developed to watch the removal process, so I decided to be all cool and super domly by doing a rather theatric knife opening. Unfortunately, my hands were covered in oil and when I did the last move of the opening the knife flew from my hands like some sort of ninja weapon and struck with a thud and a *twang*, sticking into the wall!

Luckily no one was hurt, but I learned to never mix fast-action knife play and baby oil!

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RE: Pulling a Dumb Dom - 1/5/2008 4:44:17 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MissMorrigan

... I left him laying on the carpet of the room after punching him and knocking him out. I didn't bother with any aftercare.

You may be disqualified, but that was pretty damn funny!

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