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Shawn1066 -> RE: Do you ever (1/7/2008 3:44:37 PM)

This reminds me I really should stop writing on Collarme and get to mopping the kitchen...  Being a housewife is fun! :-D

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Please, God, don't let me make a mess while I'm doing this...  >_< *crosses fingers*




swtnsparkling -> RE: Do you ever (1/7/2008 3:57:34 PM)

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I was refering to the question.


Ah,, then Perhaps next time you might reply to the Person who asked the question then or even place a FR in your response . No need to be Rude


The End




liketophoto -> RE: Do you ever (1/7/2008 4:02:13 PM)

If it was not concentual, perhaps there would be an issue...


Respectfully, LTP




AquaticSub -> RE: Do you ever (1/7/2008 4:28:27 PM)

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ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl

yes i've met couples who were looking for that black servant submissive/slave fantasy for household duties. i simply replied i'm not Hattie McDaniels and i don't work for free


Have you ever heard what Hattie McDaniels said about playing Mammy?

"I'd rather make $700 a week playing a maid than earn $7 a day being a maid". That woman definately didn't work for free and she didn't work in situations she didn't approve of either, getting the script of Gone With the Wind altered to remove the phrase "nigger" and "de Lawd". She's a rather fascinating person to research.




Maya2001 -> RE: Do you ever (1/7/2008 8:40:29 PM)

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ORIGINAL: cherrypez

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse


However, there is no amount of money a guy could give me that would want me to watch him clean my house dressed in a skimpy french maids outfit. Hairy legs, 5 oclock shadow, and lace just don't do it for me...........

I could endure it---getting paid for a clean house might make me want to be a 'switch'.   If I take my glasses off I can't see that great anyways [:D] 


LOL  count me in as well  and through a muscle bound hunk in g-string to do the yard work and be the masseuse  for me when I come home from work would be nice as well




dawntreader -> RE: Do you ever (1/7/2008 8:53:33 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Maya2001


LOL  count me in as well  and through a muscle bound hunk in g-string to do the yard work and be the masseuse  for me when I come home from work would be nice as well



Now see...i could almost change sides of the kneel for the above![:)]




laurell3 -> RE: Do you ever (1/7/2008 9:58:03 PM)

I've actually had quite a few male subs contact me wanting to be service only subs, which I have no interest in.  It is their kink, I'm not sure why you would find others' kinks unacceptable.




hardbodysub -> RE: Do you ever (1/8/2008 7:02:15 AM)

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ORIGINAL: angelique510

At the risk of starting a serious flame war here -

It was asked, and I paraphrase. "If all a dom wants is someone to clean their house, why don't they just hire a maid?"

I must counter with "If all a dom wants is sex or play, why don't they just hire a prostitute?"

The answer is, some people have such a desire to do it, and enjoy it so much that they are willing do it for free. And they don't see any shame and belittlement in doing so.

So why is one acceptable to some people on this site and the other not?

Kinda puts things in perspective I think.

~A



One obvious difference is that prostitution is illegal. It's also more expensive than maid service.




Leatherist -> RE: Do you ever (1/8/2008 7:06:03 AM)

Often, people seeking a "service sub" are just using it as a filter to chase off selfish bottoms.

It doesn't neccesarily mean that they won't do more fun things with the sub-they just want someone who will contribute more than cum stains on the carpet to the household..




takenbyjohnr07 -> RE: Do you ever (1/8/2008 7:07:09 AM)

The original topic was. It seems that some of the profiles i read give me the impression that they are just looking for some free labor. It is not a kink it is just a way to use some poor unsuspecting person so they don't have to pay a maid.




sweetnurseBBW -> RE: Do you ever (1/8/2008 7:24:26 AM)

Well that is all some want to do. Everyone has a different need in this lifestyle. Some just want to be a domestic servant and some don't.

I think you are reading to literally some profiles. Some people might want to tailor their profile to just attract domestic servants.




ghitaPVH -> RE: Do you ever (1/8/2008 8:37:05 AM)

I thought about hunting for a service slave to wash my dishes....didnt have much luck so we bought a dishwasher for Christmas.....

but really...if I could find a live in maid who would work for beatings and food Id be happy....feel free to send me a cmail...hehe...




CalifChick -> RE: Do you ever (1/8/2008 8:42:41 AM)

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ORIGINAL: takenbyjohnr07

The original topic was. It seems that some of the profiles i read give me the impression that they are just looking for some free labor. It is not a kink it is just a way to use some poor unsuspecting person so they don't have to pay a maid.


Think outside the bun.  It is what some people want to do.  It may not be YOUR kink, but it is certainly a kink for quite a number of other people.

Cali




BossySSBBW -> RE: Do you ever (1/8/2008 9:02:40 AM)

I don't care how they dress, or don't dress.  Clothed, naked, whatever, if they want to come clean my house twice a week with no play otherwise, I would love to have two or three people around.  For some (only in my opinion) I think this is their idea of play.  Having someone watch them as they go about daily chores dressed, undressed, fetish dressed....it is fine with me.




Elorin -> RE: Do you ever (1/8/2008 9:09:05 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Leatherist
Often, people seeking a "service sub" are just using it as a filter to chase off selfish bottoms.
It doesn't neccesarily mean that they won't do more fun things with the sub-they just want someone who will contribute more than cum stains on the carpet to the household..


That's my situation. I'd prefer a sub who enjoyed service and also loved to play and enjoyed fetish events than a service only sub.




Kalista07 -> RE: Do you ever (1/8/2008 9:11:59 AM)

OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! THE HORROR OF IT ALL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  Okay....Okay....i can do this....ahem...uhmm...My name is Kali, and this weekend i......well....i cleaned someone's house for $50.00......He's completely vanilla...Damn it!! i should probably go back and offer to give him a blow job.




ghitaPVH -> RE: Do you ever (1/8/2008 9:13:40 AM)

lmao kali




MistressNoName -> RE: Do you ever (1/8/2008 9:14:01 AM)


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ORIGINAL: takenbyjohnr07

get the feeling that some Dominants and couples are just looking for someone to clean, do the launbdry and cook when they ask for submissives. This way they don't have to pay someone. Some of these profiles give me the feeling that they are just looking for cheap labor. i could be wrong.


Thus the meaning of the word "slave," from which we derive such terms as "_____ labor."


MNN




littleone35 -> RE: Do you ever (1/8/2008 9:46:28 AM)

If that what they want to do, please, even though i am a sub send them over here.  I do it but i hate housework.  I do have maids but only once a month that other 3 weeks its up to me.

Some people their idea of service it to clean and take care of someones elses house.  If it makes them happy no harm no foul.

Matt's littleone




Mercnbeth -> RE: Do you ever (1/8/2008 9:55:10 AM)

some folks get a LOT of satisfaction, (and not the sexual, kink-filled, brink of orgasm kind, mind you) out of doing things for other folks, especially things that the other folks are either unable or find distasteful and would have to PAY pretty much anyone else to do.
 
it's referred to as many things, positive or negative depending on your own personal perspective: no-strings housework, volunteering, charity, "the Lord's work", a calling, community service, slavery, cheap labor, etc.
 
others, just totally get all hot and wet and bothered over it, on both sides of the slash.
 
some do both.




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